my friends tell me that i cant flirt. the way i flirt is just talking to the guy and like laugh at his jokes, and smile and stuff like that. my friends tell me that i make it to obviouse that i like the guy. but i really dont kno any other way to flirt! so pllllzzzzz help me out!!
2007-08-21 14:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by chocochic101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not the best flirter, me neither! anyway i have a couple tricks that work really well.
1. try to talk to a guy causually its always to awkward when u dont know each other.
2. smile A LOT!!! it helps when a guy can notice u for who u are!
3. dont wear a lot of make up bcuz if a guy only likes u for ur makeup then he doesnt really like u!
4. wear clothes that make u comfortable if u wear rele short skits on day one then on day 2 who wear capris then how can u show ur style to boys????
5. just be urself dont force anything!
2007-08-22 18:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bballer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. 1. Play it cool. Don't be so jumpy when you are talking, or just talking about your self.
2. 2. Don't be afraid to compliment! They like feeling like they are the alpha. Or cutest guy EVER!!!
3. 3. Some guys like a girl who has game, so don't be afraid to challenge them. (JOKINGLY: Don't be to pushy or tough! Big NO NO!)
4. 4. Guys don't always like girls who are pretty, pretty, Paris Hilton copiers. Some make-up. Just don't load it on or you'll be the next Cruela Devil. Or people might mistake you for some zombie they saw in a movie last night!
5. 5. Joke, guys like to laugh. Make up a stupid joke. Not too stupid like "A horse walks into a bar and the bartender asks, 'Why the long face?'" NO! Guys like silly/stupid/funny jokes.
6. 6. Perfume has to be light. Don't buy Fantasy by Brittany Spears. WAY too strong. Now Curious by Brittany is good.
7. 7. Don't dress too much, or too less. They don't want to date a future nun, or a Brittany Spears/Paris Hilton/Neighborhood skank. Bad!
8. STEP 1! Casual conversation. Nothing too deep nothing too guyish or casual. Don't be all like, "I love the way the light reflects your gentle eyes!" TOO DEEP! Or "Did you catch American Idol/WWE last night? IT ROCKED!" TOO WEIRD!
9. STEP 2! A little more eye contact than usual. Not to much, we're not playing stalker. But, not to little, we aren't playing hard to get. You want him!
10. Step 3! Some nudging now. Show him that you are interested, challenge him a little, too. Just a little, remember we aren't trying to prove that you can knock him out.
11. STEP 4! Time to flirt! Wink some. Not to much, he might inquire you have a twitch or something.
12. STEP 5! More flirting! Compliment his colone, or what he's wearing. Don't compliment looks quite yet. That's a little pushy and before you know it he's proposing, thinking it's what you want.
13. STEP 6! Deeper conversations, not about your underwear! No he likes those conversations but then instead of being a girlfriend you'll be his little "playmate".
14. STEP 7! Now both of you are ready. Don't wait for him to ask you out. Ask him about dinner, but remember you asked, don't expect him to pay for everything.
15. YOU'RE READY! GO GET HIM GIRL!
2007-08-21 14:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still not responding to that he may just be shy, if that's the case, you need to be more forward. Since your friends are so good at it tell them that they should show and tell you how it's done. There is nothing wrong with showing a guy you like him. Heck I love it when a girl does. I am shy and I hate to play games, they are stupid. If you think or know he likes you, just ask him to go do something with you or come over and hang out with you. You all could rent a movie or go see one. Go to the mall and walk around and hang out. Just make it the two of you together. The way some girls flirt is kind of slu**y and believe me you don't want to flirt like that. We (guys) always respond to it but we never take the girl to seriously, we always see her as kinda slu**y. I think it sound like you are doing fine he is just shy. That means you have to spend some time with him when no one else is around so he will open up and be himself.
2007-08-21 14:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop a pen or a notebook... women used to drop a handkerchief infront of a potential courtier, then give a sexy wink and a smile or bat a few eyelashes. If he jumps to assist you, just real him in, kinda like fishing. Sound corny but it I'm sure it still works.
2007-08-23 03:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here are some things that my friends and i do:
1) make lots of eye contact with the guy and smile
2) make eye contact and look away when he looks at you
3) laugh at his jokes no matter how stupid they are
2007-08-21 14:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by in la-la-land 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile look cute and laugh at his jokes!
2007-08-22 05:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ballin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋