When I lost my virginity, I was in my Sophomore year in collede & trusted a so-called "friend", & she went & made a big issue about it & overexaggerated the situation, telling everyone I was raped, when it was 100% consentual. Also, they called the police & took me to the hospital. She called me nasty & said I was naive about the situation. & then it was publicized in the school newspaper. I felt so embarrassed that I had to resign for the rest of the semester & transfer to another university.
& the doctor at the hospital gave me a pap smear & he acted like he was upset with me & said, "You know, for everyone you sleep with, you've slept with everyone they've slept with for the past 10 yrs." But if it was my 1st time, how does that make me a whore?
2007-08-21 14:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mine was not the best experience in the world but I believe that is just because we were both inexperienced and I was not very relaxed.
I am sorry your first time was so bad. Your so-called friend is the one that made it so bad for you and the stupid doctor did not help much either.
2007-08-21 21:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I misplaced it to the guy i'm relationship now. approximately 10 months in the past. he's that this variety of suited man or woman, and that i became into actually waiting. It wasn't awkward. And it harm previously each and every thing, yet after it became into great. the complete factor became into extremely candy. And he became into incredibly soft, and became into kissing my neck/cheeks, and stroking my face the entire time. he's a superb guy, and that i could no longer have imagined it being anymore appropriate. :)
2016-11-13 03:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 19 y/o guy and have not lost my virginity yet(gota be married) but it wont be a bad experience for me, maybe you should have waited tell marriage, but just my opinion, I dont know maybe it wasn't the best decision even though most of it wasn't ur fault except the sex part
2007-08-21 15:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Me,Myself, and I 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It was sex by mutual consent so don't worry about it. Screwing a girl for the first time was a pleasure for me and for the girl. It is natural.
2007-08-21 15:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you should write a book.
2007-08-21 18:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lonewolf 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋