2007-08-21 14:17:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No...we go hand in hand...
2007-08-21 14:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am not a woman. Even then I dare answer to your question.
Please remove from your mind the very idea of being 'upper hand' or 'lower hand' among husband and wife. Otherwise you shall never be able to enjoy harmony in married life. Satisfaction and happiness of the spouse before self is the formula for happy married life.
2007-08-21 14:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of us really has the upper hand... we make decisions together. I wouldn't be married to someone who needed to be like that... it's so silly. Why should a man get to make all the decisions and have the "upper hand?"
2007-08-21 14:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by TeggieMcG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to have an equal hand, but honestly I think I'm the one with the upper hand. It stinks since the responsibility tends to end with me...
2007-08-21 14:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by AllGrownUp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and neither do I. We share in the responsibilities. He has his and I have mine. Where I am weak he is strong and vise verse, That is how it should go. No one will ever rule me, and I would never rule anyone. "The Upper Hand", is like your daddy or the law or something. Hell no, that is not a marriage.
2007-08-21 14:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by LuvinLos 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in finance department he usually does, but we usually discuss everything together.But then again maybe I kinda do have the upper hand???
2007-08-21 14:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle N 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Right now he does. But I guess it's to be seen when we're together. HOpefully it's gonna be hand in hand.
2007-08-21 14:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We discuss our issues, I tell him my concerns, he tells me his problems and one of us comes up with a conclusion. If the other one does not agree we pray about it and turn the situation over to the Lord.
Works everytime!
2007-08-21 16:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women control 80 percent of the money,and 100 percent of the sex,does that answer your question
2007-08-21 15:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have an equal relationship, not one where only the one partner is the boss and what they says goes, as this sort of relationship will eventually die of a slow death.
2007-08-21 14:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If not, he's in for a rough day when the divorce happens.
2007-08-21 15:39:06 · answer #11 · answered by Blatherscaipe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋