Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

please people im desperate for help..i just dont know what to do nymore.. im so confused and im just going soo crazy.. i really like this guy and he's the type of person that doesnt settle down and is always partying and he hasnt been in a relationship for 2 years, but he asked me to be his girlfriend 4 times but i have a boyfriend and he loves me with all his heart but he lives far away and he says im his first love and its true, i talked to his bff but we argue everyday and i never see him, i only saw him 2wice and we've been together for 2 mnths, i just dont know what to do, i dont wanna be hella ****** up to him like my first love was to me, please help me.. ='(

2007-08-21 20:32:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering...I just changed it so wanted to see how the public liked it...I took it with my phone on a windy day:]] I sort of want to be a model when I am older: \

2007-08-21 20:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by kellylizzz :). 4 in Singles & Dating

there's this one girl in my high school, we dont talk but she knows that i exist. She kept on looking as me as i passed by and sometimes even stare at me, but when look back she seems to look away. Then one day i told her that i saw you yesterday and she seems to ignore me. (i haven't met her for about 2 months will she still like me if she sees me again)

2007-08-21 20:31:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems every divorce you hear about is a nightmare. If you didn't buy anything together, have no kids, and had no affairs, but just don't get along anymore, it seems like the best solution. Have any experience? How did you get your spouse to agree?

2007-08-21 20:27:05 · 14 answers · asked by blueskys 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Her daughter is very close with her ex husband. Will it effect her growing up stage?

2007-08-21 20:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by Violet1972 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend of mine whos a girl and one night she invited me to come to her house (midnight) to watch a movie. i had to sneak out and go to her house. we watched the movie then when it was over she turns off the tv and asks me what time i want to get up in the morning. i was like so u want me to spend the night? and she says ya. we slept in the same bed, never kissed, didn't have sex just slept. i know she likes me but at the time she was interested( still) in her ex who had played her 3 times before. i now live 300 or so miles away cause i had to move suddenly for college and shes no longer interested in her ex( or so she tells me) tonight she texts me and says she misses me and wishes she had gone out with me. i did like her but i don't know if i still do. questions or comments please?

2007-08-21 20:20:02 · 4 answers · asked by Spence 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have difficult family lol and want to do it on our own with two witnesses how do we go about it

2007-08-21 20:02:29 · 17 answers · asked by michelefaeglesga 1 in Weddings

Because it's all been said and done between the two of you?

2007-08-21 19:55:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i wanna ask why all the beautiful girls are on web cam,is only the sex and money is the guiding factor for them does the notion of word love is of no mean to them why?does they dont like the word love or they are after sex and money only.what is happening to them if youdont agree see the site with loads and loads of really beautifull girls.

2007-08-21 19:53:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want just a quiet wedding in a register office what can i wear i would rather die than wear a skirt or dress xxx lol

2007-08-21 19:48:10 · 21 answers · asked by michelefaeglesga 1 in Weddings

Well, 1 month ago I met Italian guy, and he was the one who asked my number in the first place. We met only 4 times in the club. He couldn't meet me at another time, because he said he was very busy at work and would get too tired to meet after work. But during our so-callec dates in the clubes, where he'd run around the club like a bug, he'd made it perfectly clear to me that he wants to have sex. Even asked me a few times flat out about it on the phone and face to face. Last Sat. I've didn't want to go to that club, coz it sucks. Instead I invited him to my place, but he said that he can't come coz he doesn't want to leave his friends there. So I got drunk :-( and went there myself to confront him. Then he admitted that he's actually got a g/f back in Italy and doesn't want cheat or else. And said that he was just joking and didn't mean anything at all. Since when kissing in the neck, lips, touching the a$$ and even kissing a breast is nothing? Or maybe I just scared him?

2007-08-21 19:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by juliyastarr 1 in Singles & Dating

My roommate boyfriend is so sexy. I feel bad because my lust for him is so strong I think if things were vice versa I might actually rape him and thats horrible.

2007-08-21 19:44:38 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Atlanta? These relatives are not coming to see me, they are coming here for a weekend for a event and they don't won't to pay the cost to stay in a hotel. They only call me when they need a place to stay for free. I haven't been answering my phone but they still insist on calling leaving mesages on my voice mail. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but I do know that they can not stay. How do I tell them NO without being to mean?

2007-08-21 19:43:24 · 4 answers · asked by tys200230291 3 in Family

ever since me and my ex seperated weve been fighting and she found someone else but the past month weve been getting along really good shes been making plans to hang out with me telling me that shes thought about moving back in, and that her boyfriend is treating her bad and has already cheated on her and i dont know what to think so if anyone has any idea please let me know! we were suppost to go down to the courthouse together and get a divorce but she hastn brought it up and she knows i have the money to pay for it, i mean she mentioned the divorce but she didnt talk about it or anything.........i dont know what to think

2007-08-21 19:42:54 · 10 answers · asked by Shawn F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi frds
I need to know boys mind when and why they change their mind?Ohk i tell u something i know dis guy for 1 month we become good frds ,use to talk to each other everyday,he was interested in relationship and i have shown my interest too but i am slow starter and he was fine with dis.We met recently before he went to his work trip for 5days only.We had good time but no sex,just kissed and he left.Since he come back we didn't talk, no msg ,he respond to some of my msg that nothing is wrong ,i ask him straighforward dat if he is ignoring me like dis w'll be da lst msg but he didn't reply then i send 1 more to ask finally ...dat i need to know y u r ignoring ..have i done somtg bad ,he said chill baby nothg like dis just crazly busy.But frds he was always busy but had time for me and he never ever did dis to me even though he was damn busy so i need to know boys mind? Why he has changed ?Busy is not an excuse.

2007-08-21 19:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

my cousin daisy is 8 years old. she was born here in the US but her mom took her back to mexico when she was a baby. they sometimes still come back and i can see it clearly in daisy's eyes shes being abused by my aunt. and yes my aunt does abuses kids physically. cause im proof of that. my question is daisy is right now leaving in mexcio with her mom. is there any law here in the US that can protect it citizen children from abuse in other countries??? please help me i really have to get her out of there. shes helpless and is tramatized by her mom. i would go myself and bring her back but im 16 years old. i want to save her before my aunt goes crazy and hurts daisy really badly (my aunt one time nearly killed me and im afraid she may do the same thing with daisy). please help me!! my aunt is crazy and loves to inflict plain in daisy.

2007-08-21 19:42:07 · 16 answers · asked by swimmy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of six months recently left for 8 weeks (Army training). When he came back, I realized I didn't love him the way I had before he left, if at all.

This happened in my last relationship. I suddenly lost feelings for someone who once meant the world for me, and I immediately ended it, a decision that I still regret.

After he got back, it didn't take long for me to realize I'd fallen out of love with him. I still love him in a friendly way, but we started getting into big fights that showed that we have fundamental conflicts of character.

My boyfriend is an amazing man and I still have fun with him. He constantly talks about our future together and he adores me. I know that he would fall into self-abuse (alcohol, drugs, etc) if I left, and I'm afraid that I would regret leaving someone who cared so much about me.

I am moving so this will be long-distance. I don't know if I should stay with him and hope that these feelings come back, or end the relationship now. Help?

2007-08-21 19:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by siberiankiss720 1 in Singles & Dating

Isn't it better to have it pure sexual?

2007-08-21 19:39:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She wants to get out of the marriage but she's in fear for her life. I'm trying to find ways to help her without jepordizing the situation.

2007-08-21 19:39:05 · 4 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Family

The other day a young person asked me how I felt about being old. I was taken aback, for I do not think of myself as old. Upon seeing my reaction, she was immediately embarrassed, but I explained that it was an interesting question, and I would ponder it, and let her know.
Old Age, I decided, is a gift.
I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body, the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror (who looks like my dad!), but I don't agonize over those things for long.
I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less grey hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.

2007-08-21 19:38:09 · 24 answers · asked by billtheangler 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for some time and have gotten quite serious. I feel like he is the perfect guy for me. We have a lot in common and he treats me very well. But lately I feel like the relationship has been getting boring. It's not that he doesn't like it... it's just that it's become very routine for ME. Is there any way that I can make it more enjoyable for myself without losing this great guy?

2007-08-21 19:30:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-21 19:26:02 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I said why wouldnt her husband call and ask you then?I just find it very strange I have been having my suspisions but no proof.He hasnt been feeling well for the past few weeks and we havent had any sexual contact in about 5 weeks now.And the thing was right b4 she called I said are you having an internet affair or something?I am his 1st g/friend and I hate to suspect anything.Any advice?He says he s not cheating or seeing anyone.I dont want him to leave me either for me accusing him.Plus I told him if u r going to cheat yr better off just breaking up with me so I can move on rt?I am not sure what to think that woman calling put some icing on the cake.He says he has no time for an affair but I said it doesnt take long to have sex I know that.I said married men have affairs all the time and how do they find the time?

2007-08-21 19:23:39 · 23 answers · asked by And life goes on 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is very needy and emotional. He's very attached to me, doesn't even communicate with his family and has no friends. I try to encourage him to call his family and make friends at work but it doesn't help. He want's to know what I'm doing at all times and expects me to spend all my time with him even though there are times I'd like to be alone with friends and other family for bonding or whatever. Before we married and we were fighting I'd talked of leaving but he wouldn't let me leave the apptment, he blocked the exits and told me he wouldn't move and that I couldn't leave him. I'd threatened to call the police but he'd cry and beg and say he couldn't live without me so I'd cave. I'm not sure what I should do now. He's my husband I can't just abandon him. I want him to not be so dependent on me.

2007-08-21 19:23:28 · 26 answers · asked by cotton~candy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been on guard when i speak tomom-in-law .but somehow i end up answering questions which better left unanswered to her who makes use of it/news to relatives...
Also,I feel guilty when I dont convey any news/what i did etc to hubby.what can i do so that i dont end up being a fool
by conveying too much.i know he hides a lot of things from me nowadays.i get the news from some other sources and it really hurts that he hides it..but somehow i am not able to do the same.how can i correct myself?anything that i can praactice?i get totally mad and sad when i get to know news from someone else other than him..when i ask him,he covers it up..

2007-08-21 19:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But will it have negative effect on me? Because I feel sad after reading my journal.

2007-08-21 19:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

so tomorrow i'm moving into my dorm for my first year of college....
i'm pretty nervous and i get homesick pretty easily,
sometimes when i get really nervous i get diahrreah (gross, i know)
and when i get homesick i cry
i'm not possitive either of these will happen tomorrow...but maybe both will?
anyways. how can i avoid getting that nervous, and if i do get sick what can i do to help/stop it
and if i start crying for some reason.. will everyone think i'm crazy?
i guess i'm just freaking out because i'm unsure of the future
and i hate being unsure and out of my comfort zone
maybe ill feel better once i get all moved in?
has this happened to anyone else?/know what to do?

2007-08-21 19:19:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to know what others consider cheating. Tell me where you draw the line. From touches, internet, text messages, phone calls and anything else you believe is cheating. I'm interested in finding out what others think is cheating and where they believe boundries have been crossed.

2007-08-21 19:19:27 · 2 answers · asked by Moon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so me and this guy have been off and on, he lives 3hrs away and this is his week off for school and he wanted to meet half way tonight.I had to wait to leave till 9 which would get us together around 10:30 and I had to leave by 11am the next morning to get back home.Well he was all good with all this last night when he saying how much he cared about me and wanted me and only me and all that stuff,I called him around 1pm and he said to call and ask about hotels he would call me later,so he calls me around 6 to say it just dawned on him how short of a time we would be spending together and he would rather wait till thursday to come and see me and why it took him till just then to know that i have no clue.He said he would call me later so here it is 1am and still no word from him.I asked if he was doing anything tonight and he said no he would chill at the cabin and call me and then go to bed.But no word as of yet.He seemed kinda wierd on the phone,I just don't get it. Anyone???

2007-08-21 19:18:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been arguing the past couple of days.

We had plans recently to move in together and I'm currently unemployed, but since he makes good money he offered to support me until I get on my feet. He said he had faith that I would find a job and once I did I could then contribute.

All of a sudden he has been very mean to me lately and almost talking down to me cause I didn't find a job yet. It has not been that long and I have been trying. So he decided all of a sudden that he needs to move into his own place cause hes not happy where he is. But Im not happy where I am either. I wish he was not so mean to me.

So I got very upset and told him that I know where we stand now. Every man for himself as he made it to be. And I don't need him. I am an independent woman and can get a job and then move out on my own. I thanked him cause the fact that he was so mean to me lit a fire under my butt to get my own place...and I said F*** you to him. I am so mad right now

2007-08-21 19:16:36 · 6 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating