I said why wouldnt her husband call and ask you then?I just find it very strange I have been having my suspisions but no proof.He hasnt been feeling well for the past few weeks and we havent had any sexual contact in about 5 weeks now.And the thing was right b4 she called I said are you having an internet affair or something?I am his 1st g/friend and I hate to suspect anything.Any advice?He says he s not cheating or seeing anyone.I dont want him to leave me either for me accusing him.Plus I told him if u r going to cheat yr better off just breaking up with me so I can move on rt?I am not sure what to think that woman calling put some icing on the cake.He says he has no time for an affair but I said it doesnt take long to have sex I know that.I said married men have affairs all the time and how do they find the time?
2007-08-21 19:23:39 · 23 answers · asked by And life goes on 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am very proud of all but maybe 2 of the answers you have refused.I am so sorry for the fears you are facing .I believe that if he was sleeping with someone he wouldnt be so obvious as to stop sleeping with you.Those are just my thoughts.Now immediately when he got the phone call he should have ask the person on the other end of the conversation if he could bring a guest.You are very mature for not wanting to say or do things that could run him off.since he didnt ask you to go just get the # out of his cell phone and call it from another phone and just callfrom another# and ask annonmously if they can have guest at the party.if they say yes and ask whose calling hang up
2007-08-22 08:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same problem. I am not threatned by the woman who calls the guy I'm dating. For one, he and I are NOT married and I can't exactly suspect him of cheating if he wants to go out with people from his job especially. We all work together, and I don't feel insecure when another woman calls him and asks if he's gogin to the party. If they socialize at work and there is a party BEING HELD BY SOMEONE AT THE JOB, then that should be alright. If it's some random party, I think the woman is up to no good.
2007-08-21 19:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets see - he's going to a party with a married woman he works with, and it seems like he doesnt care what you feel about that. What do YOU think?
Even if it hasnt progressed to the stage of an affair his actions are downright demeaning to you. He's not being respectful at all. Why is he socialising with other women, or colleagues, without including you?
Bottom line is, you dont FEEL emotionally safe. A woman's instinct is her best bet. I would ring the alarm on this one, the fire is just heating up.
2007-08-21 19:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by RealChic 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pry.
Watch him. I know it's not necessarily right, but it is the only way you'll find out the truth isn't it? Sneak to the party and don't let him know you're there. If that's not possible, then halfway through the party, show up and go find him and see what he's up to.
Not to mention, check the caller id, his cell, his email, anything you have access to. I know I probably sound like a psycho, but he could be a liar so stick to trusting what you see for yourself.
2007-08-21 19:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sex in five weeks is a bit weird. Going to a party with a married woman when your spoken for yourself is a bit weird.
I'd never go for it.
Will he let you go to an over night party with an old boyfriend?
Make your case to him and be firm. You know what you can tolerate and what's right.
2007-08-21 19:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Fixguy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he considering going to the party? If yes, how was he sick enough to neglect you in the bedroom for over a month, yet he is well enough to go to a party because a girl invited him? Tell him that you would like to go to the party too and see what he does.
2007-08-21 19:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by chelleighlee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 01:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can either trust him and move on.. or keep a very close eye on things for a while. check his phone, e-mail ect. maybe if you know someone else who will be at the party ask them to keep an eye on things, or tell him you want to go to the party to. if you're there nothing else can happen. also, if he gets defensive about things, he is probably lying.
2007-08-21 19:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is it a party with others from their job or is her husband going to be there. if so chill why would the husband call if he doesn't know him and ask if u are invited cause if it is a couples thing then u should be. don't dwell too much just look for subtle signs.
2007-08-21 19:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Water's Away 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not very haRd to find time for sex but dont forget if he is about to cheat you you cannt stop him so just try to get closer in order to find more and about another question that why her husband didnt make the call i should say that your husband is working for her not her husband
2007-08-21 19:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋