My boyfriend and I have been together for some time and have gotten quite serious. I feel like he is the perfect guy for me. We have a lot in common and he treats me very well. But lately I feel like the relationship has been getting boring. It's not that he doesn't like it... it's just that it's become very routine for ME. Is there any way that I can make it more enjoyable for myself without losing this great guy?
2007-08-21 19:30:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Bring something home from a novelty store, be in the kitchen with nothing but a chefs hat and some red pumps on, etc. Use your imagination girl!
2007-08-21 19:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say do something out of the ordinary that you wouldn't routinely do. Surprise him, you might get a different reaction and have a good time. Just try something new.
It's not very hard to find something you both would like to try. Something exciting.
If you have a lot in common, talk about something you don't agree on, it can change up conversation.
2007-08-22 02:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Barry C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way with my last boyfriend. Just stop. No more doing what you usually did. Just come up with brilliant new exciting things to do for the both of you, occasionally throwing in some of the old routine! Otherwise you're going to feel like a coke that has fizzed out...
2007-08-22 02:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by miss_jill_elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship are like rubber band. It will expend & grow until 1 limit where it will need some break to come back to it normal form to grew & extend again. This is normal to everybody. May be your guy also feels the same but dont want to do talk about it, afraid you misunderstand.
Do your own activity without him or find new hobby like reading, went out with your girlfriends etc. Whatever that can break your routine without breaking his feeling. I meant, dont went out with another guy! That is silly mistake because if he find out, there is chances you will lose your great guy for a new guy who you not sure is great also or not. Dont lies about your new activity. You also dont want to lie to you when he need some break like this, do you?
You will be more energetic & loving after missing him. Believe me, he will LOVE YOU EVEN MORE!
2007-08-22 02:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by noor faizah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send sexy text to let him know that you are thinking of him. Cook a nice dinner and eat it by candlelight. I always throw in surprises with my man and he has said that there is never a dull moment. So keep it exciting- look at cosmo.com or just search for romance ideas through google. Hopefully, the relationship has not run its course. Its ok- ask him periodically if everything is alright between the two of you.
Good luck!
2007-08-22 02:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by antswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are felling bored already ,to be honest with u this relation is not gonna work for long time.Coz if that excitment is missing then stop seeing him for some time,don't conatct him for couple of days and ask urself are u happy now and trust me u will get the answer.
2007-08-22 02:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel routine is boring don't be shy and buy some toys for the bedroom this will spice things up guys also like us to dress up.
i buy all my adult items from www.jtbids.com
go on suprise him
2007-08-22 02:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try knew things wiht each other in the bed or go out on exotic dates or adventrouse trips. or go camping up in the mountains for a week with no cell phones and hav wi alone.
2007-08-22 02:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by bryce f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the routine with something fun.
2007-08-22 02:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you really want to be with him or is it just something to do? If he's so great you should never get bored with him, hell do something spontaneous like strip for him I bet you'll get a reaction you'll never forget.
2007-08-22 02:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by phyniqua_pete_williams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋