What do you consider cheating?

Question

I want to know what others consider cheating. Tell me where you draw the line. From touches, internet, text messages, phone calls and anything else you believe is cheating. I'm interested in finding out what others think is cheating and where they believe boundries have been crossed.

Answer 1

This is what I would NOT like if my hubby was to......

Intimate touching, (touches)
Internet chatting with a woman
Text messaging a woman
Phone calls to a woman
Meeting another woman for lunch..
(These are general considered "emotional affairs"
And the obvious... An affair...

Now when I say another woman.. That would be women that he is sneaking around with, Behind my back..

Thank Goodness, as far as I know.. He doesn't and never has..

~faith

Answer 2

anything related to a person/friend of the opp sex, which u feel a complusive need to hide from ur spouse/partner and that would either hurt/offend them if they came to know would be cheating. I find it difficult to handle my hubby's various deep friendship's with his women colleagues , he is usually helping them out either personally and professionally. Thou technically these are not "affairs" the problem is he never shares these details with me......these girls have an insight into our lives but not vice versa . Usually these junior colleagues then get infatuated with him as he is going out of his way to help them despite having family to take care of. It pisses me off no end. I wish he would help but within a certain boundary. It also makes me feel left out. I would define it as "emotional cheating"