Isn't it better to have it pure sexual?
2007-08-21 19:39:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i meant extramarital affair
2007-08-21 19:43:44 · update #1
it was a general question. so please no offence to me
2007-08-21 19:47:30 · update #2
Its difficult no affair is best I guess. If its purely sexual then feelings don't come in to play. However if its not for love then is it worth it to risk the love of the person your cheating on for a night or a few of sex with some one you want to be in bed with. Basically it depends
2007-08-21 19:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Helpneeded 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont believe a person should have an affair. They need to fix the problem at home or else leave.....it hurts everyone concerned. But affairs do happen and from a womans point of view, and I think most women would agree, they could handle a sexual affair more so than they could an emotional affair. And if it was only sexual then the chance of the marriage breaking up would be less than if you loved the person you were having the affair with. Unfortunately though, even if the affair was purely sexual, it still could end your marriage because your spouse may not accept your infedility regardless if it was for love or sex......both are a betrayal.
2007-08-21 20:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure if you mean a sexual relationship or an extramarital affair. In a sexual relationship that is your business whether you are in love or not in an extramarital affair I say you shouldn't do it even if you believe you are in love
2007-08-21 19:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its good either way. If its just sexual then youre having fun and its exciting adventerous. Its also nice if there is feelings for each other because that means your at least making it worthwile if your wife finds out. Also many times after you have a pure sex affair feelings twords eachother start so....for me its better to have feelings.
2007-08-21 21:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by iceprncess723 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's better for you to NOT have the affair at all havent you read the rest of the Questions and Answers here about cheating spouse's? obviously not.
Go seek help you have issues.
2007-08-21 19:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd hope that the people who have affairs do them out of love because your sacrificing your marriage (someone who loves you). I don't think their usually for love though..I think their for excitement and never worth the consequences.
2007-08-21 19:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by cotton~candy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if is just a general question.. nope no need for love to have an affair it would just make things difficult...
2007-08-22 00:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have affairs. You took vows when you got married. Did you forget about that?
2007-08-21 19:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it is not love; it is only sex ,and it should be only to produce babies. If you are a man, it is normal to spread you genes around. If you are a woman, it is natural to select better genes for her children by having sex with superior guys when ovulating.
2007-08-21 19:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
affair is no in love, adultery, that's all it is. pure wrong too. i used your language, hope you understand.
2007-08-21 19:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋