please people im desperate for help..i just dont know what to do nymore.. im so confused and im just going soo crazy.. i really like this guy and he's the type of person that doesnt settle down and is always partying and he hasnt been in a relationship for 2 years, but he asked me to be his girlfriend 4 times but i have a boyfriend and he loves me with all his heart but he lives far away and he says im his first love and its true, i talked to his bff but we argue everyday and i never see him, i only saw him 2wice and we've been together for 2 mnths, i just dont know what to do, i dont wanna be hella ****** up to him like my first love was to me, please help me.. ='(
2007-08-21 20:32:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you are in a relationship that you are not enjoying and are looking at getting out of...but why would you want to get in a relationship that you know will end up hurting you....
Drop the current one if you are not happy and dont let emotional blackmail of being first loves hold you to him...long distance is always hard , even harder for younger couples who need attention. Then ask yourself if you want to risk being hurt by the other one as you know he will hurt you if not sooner definetly later....
Find someone who will love you for who you are, treat you with the respect you deserve and be happy to spend time with you sharing things of interest that you both like to do....
good luck with it all....
2007-08-21 20:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by wurreker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both and be my girlfriend.
2007-08-21 20:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is what u make it my pal. Please ensure that u won't mess up things and regret for the rest of ur life.
2007-08-21 20:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋