does my ex want me back?

Question

ever since me and my ex seperated weve been fighting and she found someone else but the past month weve been getting along really good shes been making plans to hang out with me telling me that shes thought about moving back in, and that her boyfriend is treating her bad and has already cheated on her and i dont know what to think so if anyone has any idea please let me know! we were suppost to go down to the courthouse together and get a divorce but she hastn brought it up and she knows i have the money to pay for it, i mean she mentioned the divorce but she didnt talk about it or anything.........i dont know what to think

Answer 1

Stop worrying about what she wants and what she thinks.
What do YOU want?

Answer 2

OK, well, none of us are her so we don't know for sure! However, from what it sounds like it, she wants you back. Its one of those situations that she must have realized that the grass isn't always greener on the other side! SO-you have to ask yourself these questions: Do you want to always wonder if she is going to leave you again? Do you genuinely believe that she loves you for the right reasons? Can you honestly say that you can trust her? Now that you have been away from her have your feelings changed? Do you want someone that you know will not leave you and will truly love you?
I think that if you take her back-she will only do it again because she knows that you will take her back-so she is incontrol!
When she is out with friend are you really going to trust the fact that she is with friends or is there going to be a voice in the back of your head wondering if she is with someone else?
I believe that you should move on because if you stay you are only asking for heartbreak! If you move on as well then you will find someone that knows you are a good guy and that you are what she is looking for! She won't have to leave you for some guy like that to realize she has it good!

All in all, you have to decide what YOU want! If your head, heart and stomach all don't agree then steer away!


Good Luck Buddy!

Answer 3

Dear Shawn, Your wife is using you. As you might have noticed and if you havent I will point it out. She did not leave you until she found someone else. She is not happy with this person and now wants to leave him but has no where to go except back home to you. You would be really stupid to take her back in. I can guarantee that when she meets someone else again you will once again be dumped. Do your self a big favor and continue with the divorce proceedings.

Answer 4

You separated for a reason.....obviously you couldnt live together harmonously. Remember the reason, then ask yourself, is your wife wanting you back because she loves you, or is it because the new boyfriend isnt treating her well. If that is the case then she is using you as her security blanket. Sounds to me like its your wife who calls the shots. You may love her, but being her doormat is no way to feel good about yourself. All is not lost, however, but the only way anything can be salvaged if, in fact, she does decide to come back is to get into marriage counselling. I also think you should be stipulating a few guildelines of your own.....maybe say to her that you are not prepared to take her back unless she starts marriage counsellling with you, and then you will see how sincere she is in wanting the marriage to work out. You need to value yourself a little bit more.

Answer 5

Why are you asking us about what your wife wants. After being married, you should be able to ask her. Maybe that is why your marriage did not work the first time----no communications.

Answer 6

It sounds like she thinks life was sweeter with you...are you happy about this? Do you want her back?

Answer 7

I think she wants you back but is it for the right reasons?Remember why she is your X.

Answer 8

for me,you better confront her.. so that you are sure what you'll gonna do next..

Answer 9

I don't think so

Answer 10

do you want her back?