I could deal with it before, but now its not what i want at all. How do i tell him that he needs to stop acting this way, that he will seriously take in what i have to say?
2007-08-21 17:28:51 · 38 answers · asked by mimi_sweethart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who wants to deal with an immature person to begin with?
do what you must to resolve your problems... even if it means breaking up with your boyfriend
2007-08-21 17:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by mc_muffin 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How about this: YOU take seriously what you have to say. You cannot control another person's behavior or personality. IF your boyfriend is not the kind of person you want for a boyfriend you need to find someone who is, not try to change this guy. The mature thing for you to do is to realize that you have outgrown him at this point in your lives and you are no longer a good fit for each other.
2007-08-21 17:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he possibly know what your problem is? Nobody here really seems to understand. Is it something you said that is so confusing? No, it is what you did not say. See, sister, is all depends on what "immature" means. To communicate with him, succinctly define just what is creeping you out about being hooked up with this so-called "immature" dude. Tell it like it is. Don't hold back. And be resolved and ready to deal with the consequences.
Like the warden said to Luke, in the movie "Cool Hand Luke," What we have here is a failure to communicate!
2007-08-21 17:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men act immature. It's what we do. It's what we live for.
Look at this answer for example. I am a man and I am acting immature right now. In fact I am so immature, I am going to say 'poo' and laugh while I do it.
He's just having fun and enjoying life, why don't you start acting stupid as well. It's fun, I promise.
Poo
Poo
Wee
Bum
2007-08-21 17:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! particular each sixteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous boy thats no longer a geek is immautre....and that they are going to be for an somewhat long term! i'm 22 and engaged to a 25 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous and he nonetheless acts immature sometimes. its a guy element! you merely could desire to look previous it...and all the different flaws they have!
2016-10-09 00:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by newmans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mimi, I dont know your age, I am guessing your in your teens. Boys and men will always act immature. There is no real answer. You just have to pick a boy or man that you can live with the immaturity. We are all (men) way behind you girls.
2007-08-21 17:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you two? Boys sometimes take longer to mature. If he is not acting, ya either have to wait for him to grow up or move on.
If the problems are actions that he can change, like sticking straws up his nose, then tell him to stop. Tell him he looks sexier without the straws! If you really like him and you guys are really young, you might want to wait him out. If you guys are older--say over 30--move on if you can;t take it.
2007-08-21 17:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
> My Boyfriend acts immature
He urinates standing up, too. It comes with the territory. When he's 30 - 35 he'll get better. By 50 he'll be halfway there.
2007-08-21 17:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy a have seen a lot of my friends act like assholes just to impress a girl, in this case it's you. I a single sad person watch all my friends get girlfriends that are stupid when they do stupid things. I can tell that you are not the kind of person who falls for dumbasses so GOOO YOU!!!!!!! just tell him that he really needs to cut the crap or you guys are done. I'm sure that there are other guys out there for people like you!
2007-08-21 17:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholas M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf says the same thing truth be told it will take him awhile to grow up but he will grow up maybe he has family issues that make him act the way he does i mean my dad hates me and my mom is a drunk so ask him why he is acting immature.he might not realize it also ask if he has any family trouble
2007-08-21 17:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by a.hawari@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want ur boyfriend to change and be more serious. . .
first mistake. wanting to change someone into something they not is never really a good thing. u can ask him to stop the little things that irritate u but u wont get it all right.
if he isn't what u want anymore u should really think long and hard about ur relationship with him
2007-08-21 17:39:52 · answer #11 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋