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So my Mom will be moving to Florida in a few weeks. A few week ago she said that once the closing on her house was final she wanted to give me 500.00. nice right?
Well today she calls and says that she want me to use the 500.00 on me. Nice right?
Then she says to me "you need to get better fitting bras with some lift . And you need to get a proffesional facial. The last I saw you your pores were so large. You always had such beautiful skin" Which is not true. I have noticed that my Mom is loosing it. Should I let it go? My mom is also a very insulting person that always comments on how people look and dress. She never wanted her bday acknowleged because she was in fear of getting old. She has also has a few plastic surgery's to turn back the clock...
What are you thought's or comments?.

2007-08-21 17:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by annynoumous 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

Her issues as I know you can tell. Take the money say thank you. Drop at the airport and wave bye bye. She wants you to use the money for you...ignore the rest of the b.s. that followed. Then use it for what you like or save it. Then be glad she is in Florida and can't nag you about it everyday.
Best wishes

2007-08-21 17:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0 0

I think you have to talk to your mom about how you feel about the comments that she gave you. It's not going to be easy but it's always better if you both know how you feel...she probably just used to doing that that she doesn't know if it's insulting or not. There's always a better way to say things like that so it won't sound so insulting.

2007-08-21 18:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lost 1 · 0 0

she seems to be a person who cares a lot about a person's physical beauty like her own and your's. she sounds as if she particularly looks for the negatives on people to be able to find a way to fix the problem to feel as though she has helped them out by doing so. if i were you, i would just brush it off. thank her for the advice and go on with your life. if you feel comfortable in your own skin then don't bother with what anyone else thinks.

2007-08-21 17:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0 0

Don't take it personally your mom just wants to be younger..and doesn't want you have the same feelings as her at her age...just be respectful and try telling her how you feel..i cant stress this enough honestly is the best way to go even if it is hard to say..good luck with your mom

2007-08-21 17:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No simply inform that man or woman to cool seeing that in case your peers listen that you just did not say some thing to cause them to quit they're going to suppose uncared for and so they will have moment ideas approximately being your pal.

2016-09-05 09:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

There is nothing that you can do to change her. Just ignore her comments unless she starts interfering in your personal life. Some mothers just want perfect for their children.

2007-08-21 17:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

Ignore her mean comments,tell her you like the way you look and are happy.just because she isn't happy with her appearence,doesn't mean she has to make everyone else feel bad.And let her know this.

2007-08-21 17:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0 0

Enjoy being spoiled by your mother. You seem like you have good self esteem. Be happy and just let your mother indulge you on things that make her happy.

2007-08-21 17:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Brush it off

2007-08-21 17:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i hate peope who dont watch their tounge tell her she better be nice before somebody fires back. why are you just sucking it up, tell her you dont like it, its rude and it makes you feel bad!!

2007-08-21 17:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by 9-pounds-lighter 4 · 0 0

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