wife recently went to help here best friends mom in az,we were supposed to go out there together, now iam going out there for job interviews, I got a motel for the week,now she wants to move her best friends mom in with her,but they dont want to stay in the apartment complex they are in,so her best friends husband came back to pa, and what is going to happen when her husband comes back there like 3 times before? Her two kids want to come back to pa but they dont work and sit around all day they are 18,and 19 and smoke pot at the neighbors house. So i had problems with her kids form day one no respect,lazy,wont help at all,they get mad if you wont give them things,or rides anytime they want,the 18 year old is mad cause he wants to drive and he wants a car,I told him get a job and save money and i will help him get a car Is this wrong? the older one just wants to fight and hit his mother! He just wants to play x-box all day,smoke pot,and j-off to porn on the internet! what to do?
2007-08-21 21:17:14 · 3 answers · asked by allan l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yor house your rules! I say kick there *** out! I wouldn't put up with that sh_t! I come a pretty close family, I mean my parents knew my brothers smoke pot, but they were hard workers and there is no way that my dad or any of us would have let anyone of us hit our mom. wow that alone they should be knocked on there *** for and most definatly kicked out. Let them worry about how to pay some bills or where there gonna get there next meal from or a warm bed to sleep in, that will change there insite a little ima thinking. Because it isn't gonna get anybetter by letting them do this to you. Besides they will respect you better if you did this anyway, by letting them run all over everybody just give them the power to be no body's and will always be no body's Do you want that? ocourse you don't! so make it a little tougher on them untill they can respect you and your family and I sure in the hell wouldn't let them slap anyone again either. whats up with that anyway? I'm a woman and if I saw someone in my family or even not in my family... hit my mother, "they had better watch it" cause by the time I was through with them 18 or not... well lets just say.. they wouldn't do it again!!!!
2007-08-21 21:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually u cant do anything. coz its there way of life.. let them be let them make there on mistakes hopfully they'll lern from it. just make sure that u u wont be like them. hey there's nothing worng of being selfish sometimes. there are times that u have to think for your self. ppl like that wont listen to you even if they do they wont take u sierusly. they have there own little world. al u can do 4 now is w8 till they decide on there own that its time 4 them to move on.
2007-08-22 04:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by carlos p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey let them do their pot and you live your life yu dont' owe them kids nothing. that is all there is to it.
2007-08-25 23:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋