2007-08-21 21:10:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...is this the one ur stopping pot smoking for?? maybe so...
2007-08-21 21:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by LaPalma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her before she claims you are the father and you are stuck with child support. The fact that you did not get her pregnant may not matter. The courts often rule that someone has to pay and since your were dating her, you could have gotten her pregnant and that is good enough for the courts.
Google and you will find lots of examples where the guy still had to pay after the DNA tests proved he could not be the father or where the girl never allowed a DNA test and court ordered the guy to pay anyway.
And, if you are stupid enough to believe the girl when she claims she would never do that, then you are getting what you deserve when you have to pay $250,000 in child support over then next 20 years.
2007-08-21 21:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight: you've never had sex with her, she's your girlfriend, & she's pregnant by someone else, & you have to ask? Either she has cheated on you, she has just started dating you hoping you'll be the stepfather, or she started dating you very soon after having sex with someone else, possibly a one-night stand or the last fling before a break-up, & now she's been surprised. In any case, I'll tell you what any man in his right mind would: RUN!!! This is not your responsibility, & finding out before you started having sex with her may be the best thing that ever happened to you. Head for the hills & don't look back, or you'll be stuck mopping up someone else's mistake, possibly for the rest of your life.
On a side note, I was amazed to see a girl saying even if it's not yours, step up to the plate!?! When you step up to the plate, you take responsibility for your own actions, not someone else's. Why she thinks you should throw your life away because you're getting someone else's sloppy seconds makes no sense to me. You stick around, & you're liable to have to help support a crying, screaming, diaper-filling, up-chucking kid that wasn't even your fault. She should seriously consider giving this kid up for adoption so it can have a decent life, & you should seriously consider finding yourself a girl who doesn't have a uterus with a sign reading "no vacancy".
2007-08-21 21:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially if she is planning on keeping it. If you are a teen too you are too young to help take or and support a baby. Is she really sure she's pregnant? Did she take a pregnancy test? Some girls freak out if their period is late. And since she's a minor her parents should know so they can help her decide what she is going to do about it. At any rate, if you haven't had sex and she has, she cheated on ya.
2007-08-21 21:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kate J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check with her what actually happen. Whether did she slept with someone or she got rape by someone. Ask her to go for a pregnancy test before conclude anything.
If she's really pregnant, then try to gether more information of what really happen.
If she's been rape, then, bring her to make a police report.
If she slept with another guys who makes her pregnant, then go & look for the guy to resolve this issue.
No matter what happen, do not dump her. That's the most stupidest way of avoiding problem.
For every question, there is always ways to solve it. There is no such things as unsolve problem.
2007-08-21 21:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by john y 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow what a shock huh?
I really have no clue
If you love her and want to
stick it out with her then no
stay for the ride... but it's gonna
be a long and bumpy one.. but
if your just not ready and it doesn't
sound like you are... tell her that you
can't take on such a BIG commitment
and tell her you will always be her friend
threw it all.. wow... this is a hard one
good luck for the both of you!
2007-08-21 21:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Saffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! She could be the next Virgin Mary...
and you are history in the making my friend..
but if the kid looks like your best friend, dump her aZz,
and buy your boy a case of beer...
Or you can do what the girl said, take care of her no matter what, but remember your best riends gonna come over everyday and give you that smirk when he sees your kid..lol
2007-08-21 21:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man this is serious!Think carefully before taking any decisions.If you think you can handle her with someone else's baby then dont dump her but if not then let her go.The solution lies with you regardless of the advice you get here you still do what you feel is right.Good luck.
2007-08-21 21:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lilian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is such thing as "hysterical" pregnancy" where they want to be pregnant so bad, they develope the symtoms. Go to a dr and check it out. Is there a baby there? Will she even go to a DR. If she does, go from there. Was she raped and dont want to tell you?
2007-08-21 21:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Bill P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never touched 'her' with yours, dump her otherwise NOT as you are the man who made her pregnant.
2007-08-21 21:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by sv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Would Trust Her But If she does anything like Leaves some
@#@W#$ dirt in the car DUMP her
2007-08-21 21:23:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋