I have been seeing this guy for over a year, i go to school about 5 hrs aways so its a long distance thing. we have never made it official that i am his girlfriend or that he is my boyfriend, however it is obvious that we both expect each other to not talk to other people. however, i know he is, he will just never admit it, always girls calling him, girls sending him pictures, and the last straw was yesterday when he told me he had to go check his mail, but instead he just went outside to talk on the phone. i know, time to end it. one catch, i lent him the money i was supposed to use for my rent, and he still hasnt paid me back. i really need the money, and i feel if i cut him off i wont get it back. what should i do, ive been trying to act like everything is fine, but its hard.
2007-08-21 20:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by mitha18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We may not be bf / gf, but we are seeing each other exclusively...he would consider it cheating if i was talking to another guy. Second, I am not the jealous type. I put on here a few of the things he's done, but there's been a lot more things that have happened, it's to the point that he thinks im stupid or he doesnt care anymore. anyways, i know i am ready to be done with him, i just want my money back. i've been asking him for it, he says he doesnt have it right now.
2007-08-22 04:55:53 · update #1
well first you need to ask him to pay you back so you can pay your rent!!!!! next after you get the money back you need to ask him point blank where the two of you stand lastly it sounds as if only you think that both of you should not talk to other people and if I were you I would dump him asap!!!!!
2007-08-21 21:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by heads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1. get a REAL boyfriend
#2. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you're not allowed to TALK to the opposite sex.
#3. Obviously you're still young or else you wouldn't be in this situation... aren't you still semi-dependent on your parents? If not.. get a bank loan and pay them back after you can afford the rent again and the bank.
Why are you so jealous all the time? Being like that and always bothering him only pushes your bf further away and creates your inner-most fear. Just stop! And get a new bf where you can officially know and have him know that you are a couple and going out. Communication works, get used to it.
2007-08-21 21:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you haven't agreed not to see anyone else then it isn't called cheating. Secondly you are grossly over reacting and thirdly why would you do something as stupid as loaning someone your rent money?
2007-08-21 21:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by ~~*Paradise Dreams*~~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and tell him you want all of your things back, including your money. And if he doesnt pay up higher a collections agency to chase down his ***.
2007-08-21 21:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rian M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL 911 and lied to the polices that he stole your money and ran off. And what ever he said just Deni it okay. if not contact me I'll be your witness.
2007-08-21 21:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Denny-Levesque 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babi gurl u need to dump his feeloading lying behind into the curb after gettin ur money back. find urself a better man.
2007-08-21 21:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by nina m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesnt stop and doesnt give you the money that you are through with him!
2007-08-21 21:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Zack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for your money
if not you could threaten legal action
but it is unlikely you would win in court
in either case
break up with the ******
2007-08-21 21:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break ties with this guy...you might be able to take him to small claims court to get your money..if not..chalk that one up to a lesson well learnt!
2007-08-21 21:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happineess does not reside in money.
The power of happiness resides in smile.
2007-08-21 21:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ruppee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋