Okay so, My boyfriend had just asked me out when my best friend got upset and ran off. Determined to get to the bottom of it, my new bf let to go see what was wrong. They both came back and my EXBFF was all smiles.
Later she bragged to her whole locker room that she had gotten my bf to dump me for her. Luckily my reall BFF was there and told me erverything. I verified it with multiple other ppl. Including his little borther, and his best friend.
I dumped him before he got the chance. Needless to say he wasnt at all supriseed when I almost lapped him, although he acted like he was.
Weeks later my EXBFF told me that she hasd just found out (LIE) and that she dint know how to tell me (LIE), and she thought id b mad. (LIE , she knew id be pissed thats why she wanted me to be dumped.)
I was always the pretty one, i was always the skinny one, I was always the smart one and so she wanted me to fall flat on my face.I have only talked to her Once since, the incident...
2007-08-21 21:26:13 · 11 answers · asked by Rian M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, you might not want to go saying that too loud. If people hear you saying "I hope my ex-boyfriend gives my former best friend herpes", then they are liable to assume you KNOW he has herpes. That said, they will suspect that he may have gotten herpes from his ex-girlfriend: you. This may end up backfiring, making you look bad.
Speaking of backfiring, did you ever consider you played right into your former best friend's hands? She wanted you & your boyfriend to break up, & started a rumor. You got angry, & broke up with your boyfriend. No offense, but she played you for a chump. She manipulated you into letting her win, all the while allowing you to believe you had scored a victory. I don't know if you are prettier or skinnier, but in this instance, she proved to be smarter, & far more conniving.
Should you find yourself in a situation like this again, the clever thing to do is not let on like you know, & get them together. Then, right in front of the girl, tell your boyfriend you have been informed he dumped you for her. This puts them both in the hot seat at once. If possible, have your source there, too. That way, they have the truth staring them right in the face, & if your source was lying, then they have to back up their statement right there. In any case, never take other people's word against your boyfriend without at least giving him a chance to face his accusers, because there's always the chance someone wants you broken up & is lying on him, & you believed them. I don't think that's the case this time, but you never know.
2007-08-21 21:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 18:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend has had genital herpes for about eight months now, and it's been really rough. She's had about 7 outbreaks. Everywhere I read it says it stops flaring up so much after time, but its not getting less frequent for her. She's been on Antiviral meds the whole time, too. She also has type 1 diabetes which she has had her whole life, which really weakens her immune system. Will it ever get better?
But after a friend share this video everything has changed.
Natural Safe Herpes Remedy?
2016-05-14 16:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His loss and her loss. Don't sweat it. They are the losers in the deal. Neither one was worth much considering how they handled the situation. Anybody asks, tell them that he wasn't worth it, and she was a poor excuse for a friend!!!!
2007-08-21 21:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it okay to say that? only if it's true?
Other wise you'll be known as a liar
and a trouble maker...
Don't play games it won't bring him back...
or change anything...
The best way to get revenge on someone
Walk away and say nothing. they want you to be mad, they want you to hurt, they want a reason to hate you and justifie there actions... give them none of this.. walk away and say nothing.. it will kill them.
2007-08-21 21:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Saffie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Backstabbing, disloyal, lying, losers. They are perfect for each other. Good thing you still have your real bff.
2007-08-21 21:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by h1u4sxda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahahaah there u go do wat u got to do he obivously dont deserve u but iono if u should wish they get herpes but u need o start pickin ya friens and boyfriends right cuz bothof them is corrupted lol but ya jus get sum 1 better!!!!!
2007-08-21 21:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay as long as you cant think of anything worse than that...
2007-08-21 21:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by am not sure... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! He deserves that b*tch! U stay strong!
2007-08-21 21:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Janice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well is he doing this to make you feel bad or is he doing this because he likes her?
2007-08-21 21:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋