So I'm not sexually attracted to my bf...so what? It happens. I just don't have the energy to cheat on him, and there's more at stake, so I can't just dump him. He's a good guy, but I'm just not into him. There's no desire or passion. He sucks in bed, ok. There, I said it! And me not being sexually attracted to him doesn't help matters, cause I don't care to make a move either. We're just not compatible. Ok; I get it. But we used to be compatible. I used to be attracted to him in every way. Now, not so much. What's my deal?
2007-08-21 05:02:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
girl, it sounds like the s h i t got old, and i hear ya. women have needs. thats all that needs to be said.
2007-08-21 05:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by sonyanjoey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your deal is it's over. There's nothing there anymore. Move on. If you don't you will become resentful of him and you both will end up having to go through a nasty bitter breakup. Tell him now that it's just not working for you anymore. You are wasting his time as well when he could be out having fun with someone who will find him attractive.
2007-08-21 12:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. He sucks in bed. If you used to be attracted to him but now you are not, it's probably because of what you know it will be like. Get a sex therapist, or talk to him delicately about it. If you don't tell him what you want in bed, he won't know and it will just keep getting worse. If he doesn't want to make you happy, then obviously he is not that into you either.
2007-08-21 12:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Linda K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from being an arrogant and selfish individual, who knows what your deal is? And quite frankly, who cares? Hopefully, this guy will figure you out and dump your dishonest behind.
2007-08-21 12:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean other than you expect total strangers to have more insight into what makes you work than yourself and without providing any real meaningful information?
2007-08-21 12:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have grown and you are searching and this is the reason you need to leave him and get on with life its not fair to him to keep him when ther eis nothing there for you also. just tell him you are ending it and leave that is all.
2007-08-25 00:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you've got to be attacted to your man to have sex with him. There has to be something there that makes you want him. Is there anything that makes you want him?
2007-08-21 12:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋