Do you think on a first date,you should have sex with a guy you just met?

Answer 1

Only if you dont want to have a serious relationship with him! Because he will always think you were easy. I personally have a two month rule and I think alot of guys respect that cause they know im not easy, most of them dont stick around to wait im 26 w/ 3 partners in past and happily married!!

Answer 2

A girl I really liked once told me....

That most girls make their decision about whether or not they would sleep with a guy in the first 5 minutes.

And then she told me, if a girl already knows that she is going to sleep with a guy, as long as he doesn't mess it up, that she thought it was good/smart to have sex the first night.

She said, if the girl already knows she is going to do it next week or next month with him, than might as well do it when it is most exciting, which is usually the first date.



As a guy, I really like that theory. Even though, I admit I do lose A LOT of respect for a girl that puts out on the first night, but when I ask her why she wanted to do it, if she tells me that because she knew we would eventually, than I understand and respect her EVEN MORE.

But if a girl just sleeps with me just to make me happy or because she thought it was the right thing to do, than I def lose respect for her.

So I guess I only think it's okay if you agree with my theory that once you know you are gonna do it, than when and where should not make a difference.

Answer 3

i did and I regret it. That's all they were out for, and these are guys in their mid 40's. I want to get to know the person first before I do that ever again. With my current boyfriend, I waited for 7 dates. I'm thrilled I did because I knew he was into me for me.

Answer 4

Its doesn't surprise me to see than most answers from women here state "NO".

If a girl would sleep with a guy on the first date she would have to give up her best tool for manipulation: SEX

She knows he wants it, and she lets him jump trough hoops, and do as she says. When she's satisfied with her little puppy, she may LET him sleep with her.

Look into the dictionary for the definition of a WHORE:
"A woman who engages in sexual intercourse for money."

And now replace the word "money" with a different currency like attention, dates, clothing, any form of a$$kissing, submission and the biggest one - MARRIAGE. Women demand all this stuff, together with his balls in exchange for sex.

So I'm asking you, who is here the real whore?

Any man would be better of to go down the street, pick up a hooker and rock his socks off. You know exactly how much it costs, you know exactly how long it takes and its over when you leave.
And the funny part is: A guys doesn't pay a prostitute to have sex with her. He pays her to shut up and let him in peace.

This may sound counterintuitive but I believe its absolutely true. Now get this:
Although some chicks really like it to boss a guy around and make him pay with his integrity, most oft them actually HATE it.
Most women DO try to manipulate men in many occasions, but not in order to use and abuse them, but because they hope that he will be able to RESIST.
Nothing turns a women more on that seeing her man being able to maintain his composure, to stay himself. And then she will push even some more to see if he will crumble appart or b*tch around like a little boy. It is simply a test. To see if a guy is actually a MAN.


A women doesn't want a p*ssy. She has one herself. She wants a man she can trust, a man which makes her feel SAFE.

Trust has to be earned. If a women would tell me on the first date: "I don't trust you, why would I sleep with you?" I wouldn't push her and try to make her change her mind. I would tell her what I want from her, direct and upfront, and I would also tell her that I don't want her to trust me yet. Trust me when you know you can, and then let me know.

Every guy has to know for himself how long is he willing to waste his time waiting. 3 dates? More? Make your mind.

I wouldn't f*ck a girl I don't trust either. There are crazy people out there, men AND women. She may be an Axe murderer, her husband might be looking for her with a gun under his shirt, she may be the worst kling-on ever and would stalk me till the end of my days, and so on.
So as I said, If a women loses her confindece in a guy, how can she trust him after 5th, 7th, XXth date?
However, if she is attracted to him, and trusts him, she is willing to sleep with the guy right on the spot. Yes, even if its the first date.

She wants a man with integrity but how many men are around, which don't excuse themselves and appologize for who they are and what they want?
Nowdays everything is set to equality which is for many parts good ofcourse. Men and women have same rights and noone is better than the other.
BUT... BUTT... Men and women are fundamentally DIFFERENT in their nature. This race for equality has pushed the two sexes into a neutral sphere where everyone is safe but without any sexual tension. We're not snails! There is + and - . North and south. Poles attract each other, you know that. And if someone wants sexual tension, then he must be willing to leave the safe zone and go to a pole.

PS:
To the guys who said they wouldn't respect a girl that would sleep with them on the first date. I don't know how expirienced you are but I have to tell you, you're totally wrong.

A guy can trust a girl much more if she sleeps with him on the first date. He can be asured that she is doing it for the only good reason besides reproduction: For the pleasure of sex, for fun. Not for a way to manipulate.

Answer 5

i know couples that had sex on the first date and they are married for 20 years , depends how you feel about it, if this guy has respect for you and you feel comfortable around him go go girl. i would have on first date!

Answer 6

Its all in how you feel. Your body will tell you. If your nervous do not do it. I never slept with a man on the first date. The man I am with now on our first date I was so comfortable with him and knew I cared for him greatly. So yes he was the first man I slept with on the first date. So its all in how you feel. Just be careful.

Answer 7

if it was safe and protected but know that it will most likely be the last date with him--if you're looking to get a little, go for it, if you are looking for a relationship then i'd wait for 2 dates :)

Answer 8

NO, cuz if u do, a man will think your to easy, and i dont want nothing easy, i like to work for it. That tells me alot bout u. Dont get me wrong I like a freak, just not on da first date. But sometimes its ok to have a one nite stan, if your not going to see him again, and always used protection.

Answer 9

NO! Why would you? he will NOT respect you, trust me. It will be a booty call requirement every time he sees you after that. If you don't give it up every single time you see him then he will stop talking to you.

Unless your looking for just sex, if your just horny and need to get laid then thats all YOU, .... try masturbation before you make yourself worth nothing!

Answer 10

If the first date was with me, sure, why not.