We both caught some kind of romantic feelings for sure during our 3 month FWB situation; however we got into a huge argument a week ago where we said some nasty things to one another and then all communication ended!
Anyway, he contacted me on Friday. He sent me an email and all it said was “hahaha”.....I responded to his email by saying, “if you have something to say then just say it.”
It’s now Tuesday and he hasn’t responded to my response email.
He is 28 and very very shy and I am 32. I was his first ever!!!
Do you think he’ll ever respond?
Do you think I should email him again?
Does him emailing me mean he is missing me?
Also, two days before that email he posted online that I was amusingly crazy…..
2007-08-21 04:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard to interject emotion or interrpret feelings with email...
I suggest talking in person or at the very least over the phone... like two mature adults would.
Obviously, he has strong emotions about the relationship... if he honestly waited 28 years to have sex and chose you as his first!
Good Luck!
2007-08-21 05:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sorry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so are u a girl or are u a boy?
anyway, give him another day... i heard that it takes a minimum of 3 days for a guy to call after 'the fight'.
btw. why are u too in FwB situation? seems like you care about him. i never understand the FwB situation; especially ifyou're a girl. if he's an a hole, he's taking advantage of you. he doesnt want to admit that you are his. you're just a friend that he can sleep with. a meat hole.
hopefully, he cares about you as much as you care about him.
after 3 days. if you really really care, then you can email him or maybe give him a call. at least you know for sure what's going on. rather than going crazy of wondering whats he thinking now.
my opinion is, if you ever resolve this problem, make you his formal GF or BF. save yourself from future heartache. i wish you good luck.
2007-08-21 12:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by sheylizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first how do you know YOU were his first? guys lie way to much. i don't think he cares for you as you care for him. i was in a situation with this girl, like you we had FWB but after we broke up. it was good for awhile but there is always going to be that feeling of does she really love me? do i? just moved on and don't contact him even if he contacts you right now he is just being a jerk and probably more.
2007-08-21 12:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow was really friends with benefits? i dont think so seems to me he is bit immmature for you to be going out with omg you were his first think about it! ok heres the thig let ig o, simple if he can be mature enough to seek you out of r reasons not attached to sex then let it go! maybe he will grow up some through this ,, ya ever think al he wanted was to get in your pants? i hate saying it but it could be true, i know i had this happen to me once but i leanred from it! good luck fidn someone else hon you wil be by far better off!
2007-08-21 12:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think he is still acting like a child and is just playing a game with you. I would move on and find a real man.
2007-08-21 12:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say nothing of what the argument was about. You say nothing about who threw whom away. But one thing is significant: you were his first. Does he hold any significance to you? Or was he just one more conquest so far as you're concerned? And, by the way, what is all this modernistic "friends with benefits" crap?
2007-08-21 12:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Theodore H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women mature faster than men; some men never do mature. Factor this basic fact into any of your thought processes relating to your questions. Maybe he is still in diapers.
2007-08-21 12:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would move on. Friends with benefits is just a mess. I don't know who thought up the idea, but I've never heard of it ending well, myself. Best wishes!
2007-08-21 12:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's being immature....leave him alone and let him figure himself out.
2007-08-21 12:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋