I think it's really really wrong and that all guys should treat girls the way they want to be treated. I have never pressured my girlfriend about sex and if she doesn't want to do it thats fine its not the most important thing about the relationship. Why do men think thats all that girls are good for? They are worth so much more.
2007-08-21 02:51:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
*claps very loudy*
Thank you someone see's sense!
Whya rent there more people like you out there witht the same point of views.
I'm lucky enough to have a boyfriend who thinks like that! He respects me and doesn't pressure me into anything!
I have had friends who have been hurt. for example my mate, i'll call her Katie started chattin 2 this boy and when he found out she wouldnt rush into things he went mental with her calling her all the names under the sun! All because she was being herself!
I agree with you that guys need to treat people how they would want to be treated!
Your girlfriend is lucky!
2007-08-21 03:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men don't treat women that way. Little boys do.
Whether they are young or just a mental midget, they are still boys and will always remain such.
Good for us is most women you want to be with will see right through that.
That might play when they are 15-20, but eventually a woman wants a man she can love AND depend on for her emotional well being.
Keep the faith man, your not alone here.
2007-08-21 03:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by nremtohio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In defense of the guys.... they're not all like that, thank goodness. Some of them are, but not all. And sometimes they are simply going with the flow... there are some women out there who are the same way. They only want a man as a "play toy".... it goes both ways. But it doesn't make it right. There are a lot of guys out there who treat women with nothing but the utmost respect.... and vice versa. Don't put them all in the same group.
2007-08-21 02:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by baguzman_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are worth much more and what men expect from them is only a part payment in kind.WE all get treated in a manner we deserve,with some exceptions here and there.On the whole,your point is not only valid but a civilized approach as well.Good question.
2007-08-21 03:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who think like that are immature. Think about it. Is their mom just good for sex? She's a woman. Of Course not!!! They are just young and not looking for a valuable relationship because they aren't emotional mature. You are obviously very mature for your age. Congratulations!!! Not all men continue that thinking as they get older.
2007-08-21 02:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Exipnei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think your the only guy who thinks this way? You are not.
On the other side of the coin, if a woman acts, and dresses like all they want is sex then that's the kind of guy they will attract.
2007-08-21 03:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the girls allow it. They show the guys that they are sooooo important and the guys get it in their big heads that they are...then..hey move in for the kill and take advantage.
women can sometimes be just as bad.
2007-08-21 03:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I wish there were more guys like you out there.
And I have no idea why a lot of guys are like that.
I guess they just don't realize what girls are worth.
2007-08-21 02:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes quite right. girls are human like our self's. and like to be treated like wee would be treated. and not like sex object. but some mens brains is in there pants.
2007-08-21 03:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's taught to them by their pears,& certian musical cultures. Some also learn it at home watching their fathers treat their mothers badly.
2007-08-21 03:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by rlstaehle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋