From past experiences, I need to collect info on what makes a guy mature in the eyes of women.......what they see as mature, or a mature experience.....or even interests or hobbies that seemed unique or mature.
All help is grately appreciated!
regards,
john
2007-08-21 03:20:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A really mature guy is one who isn't afrad to stand up for what he believes in, who isn't afraid of failure, who controlls his anger, who doesn't use drugs or alcohol, who takes care of himself and his gf/ wife if he has one. He isn't afraid of change, he's nice and polite and civilized even when he doesn't want to be, he asks for help when he needs it, he is agreeable and NOT stubborn, he helps others. He thinks before he speaks and acts, he tries his best to find the good in any situation, no matter how sorrowful and bleak it may be. He doesn't make fun of others and defends those who are being picked on, even if he doesn't like them or really know them. He isn't afraid to show his emotions and tell people what is really on his mind, he is sweet and kind, sensitive and caring, honest and truthful, always there when people need him. He protects those he holds dear. He cares more about who he is as a person than how much money is in his wallet or how his girl looks or how much stuff he has. He's down-to-earth and NOT stuck-up, arrogant, rude, or proud. He doesn't cheat on his lover. He doesn't have sex before marraige. He doesn't sleep with other women. He is true to his priorities and morals and beliefs. He eats right and exercizes and treats himself right. He has a sense of humor but isn't totally silly and crazy. He's on time. He's organized and prepared. He has a job. He is modest and likes modest girls. He doesn't judge people based on the color of their skin ot the color of their hair or by their religion or race or whatever.He's not biased. He's open-minded and lets other people have their way as much as he lets himself have his way. He doesn't over-react. He's neat and not sloppy. If he has a pet, he takes extremely good care of it. He doesn't ignore people. He has confidence and good self-esteem. He's not obsessed with being cool. He's a hard worker. He has a mind of his own and isn't pushed around by anybody. He knows violence is never the answer. He does what is right. He really listens. He doesn't talk just to hear the sound of his voice.
2007-08-21 03:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by MK4JCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to women a mature guy is an accomplished one.In all manners of life.A guy serious enough about like to have a car,house,hobbies.I think the hobbies most admired as "mature" seem to be golf,tennis,or other intellectual activities such as collecting of non-childish items.Also writing can be a very mature hobby.
2007-08-21 03:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by con10twithlosing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personnally a mature guy is:
Laid back
understanding and listens
Knows what he wants in life
Watches mature movies (not stuff like harold and kumar or another teen movie, but political drama like blood diamond)
Has a good sense of humour, which is witty, quick yet charming.
Knows when to be serious and when to fool around
Gives good advice
Acts like a man not a boy
good luck with the play!
2007-08-21 03:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are under the effect that a guy will lose interest if he receives her interest too actual. That leaving him in some type of doubt will excite him and make him want her extra. my own mom actual inspired me to do those issues as quickly as I first started out relationship. The "tricky to get" element could be genuine if he has subjects with easily hating rejection and needs to make each conquest he undertakes bypass his way- yet prevalent understanding could say it is not this type of guy who ought to be in a courting, yet i think of maximum adult males will merely provide up, it is intense college point immature and, in a manner, twiddling with someones suggestions. i think of it is that distinctive woman's own adulthood subject right here, and if she could locate herself back interior the relationship pool she could be spending a great form of lonely nights by skill of herself. To me being "selective" could contain a minimum of attending to comprehend the guy first. no longer making him save asking and asking as a manner to establish if he likes me adequate for me to this point him. i can not know somebody who can take countless rejection and not get the hint.
2016-10-08 23:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mature guy...hmmmm is there such thing lol....
A guy that doesn't have to prove how much he can drink in one night....doesn't have to bring all his mates along or spend the whole night talking about them and how funny etc they are...maturity in my eyes is a man who can honestly and openly express himself and his feelings.... see i told you they don't exist
2007-08-21 03:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mature male will display the ability to think of someone other than them self.
a mature male will have hobbies that do not overtake his life .
a mature male is secure in who he is , and so does not require the approval of other males to assure that he is a man.
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2007-08-21 03:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by pbear i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry a mature guy, well that doesn't exist... It's right up there with the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy... Good luck
2007-08-21 03:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
respect, loyal;ty, satification with the person you are with. and compromise. Those qualities are mostly men that have matured mentally regardless of age
2007-08-21 03:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls dont like wen u talk about there bodys look below there eyes or ask ur mom she would no
2007-08-21 03:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by abdullahmuntaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not taken in by emotional blackmail!
2007-08-21 03:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by MI5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋