I have loved this man that I met 7 months ago. He went off to college far away now and I am still in high school. He was always flirting with me and I have the feeling that he is the one. We haven't talked much, but don't get me wrong. Whenever we look at each other I just want to melt. I just know that I love him. Anyways, I know that I should be patient, but he has not said anything to me yet. So I am having a hard time with this. I probably won't see him often at all now. maybe once a year. I don't want to betray him by flirt ing with other guys because I love him. The only thing that is bothering me is that I don't know how he feels about me. I was completely sick and down in the dumps when he left and still am. He is not my boyfriend!
What do I do??
Someone help me!!!
Advice will be appreciated!! Best Answerer...10 points!
2007-08-21 03:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by Cowgirl26 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. He's not your boyfriend, so flirting with other guys is not a "betrayal".
2. I think you missed your opportunity. You should've told him how you felt and seen how he felt. Now, he's gone. You don't even know if he likes you as much as you like him! What if he doesn't like you as more than a friend? Then you'll feel like a fool...
3. What to do: Ask him how he feels about you,and tell him how you feel! He's not a mind-reader... If you both like each other, try it out... Long distance relationships are very hard, but they work sometimes. You'll get to see him during college breaks.
Good luck!
2007-08-21 03:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've known him 7 months and there is nothing, then maybe you should move on. Be friends with him, and maybe later something could happen. He sounds like he may be older than you and you need to move on. Yes, you love him but maybe just as friends. You'll love someone else, so try to move on. You aren't betraying him because you aren't actually together. Do what you think is best, and good luck!
2007-08-21 10:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by hazel eyed hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you never talked, or Dated.. but flirted a lot..
Seems like a crush to me.. So go for the next step .....write him or call him to say hi , how's it going, whats college like and so forth.
It's a start from there and see what happens...
In the mean time.. it's OK to go out a few times and see what's the dating scene is like.maybe he 's is n't the one but someone else it.. school is starting soon ..who knows???
2007-08-21 10:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by mina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he is not going to wait for you. He is going to college, where the main focus is drinking, smoking, and getting laid by multiple girls hopefully doing all 3 at the same time. Don't wait around.
2007-08-21 10:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kirby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to man behind the mask. Good answer
2007-08-21 10:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by NyNy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a crush
you wont cheat on him cause your not going out
i say find someone you can see constantly
2007-08-21 10:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by man behind the mask 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋