Family & Relationships - 18 August 2007

I recently let my husband because I think he's cheating on me so I caught a plane and moved back to Florida with my mom since I thought she might be lonely since my younger sister recently went away to college. But a week later, my brother, his wife and their spoiled brats moved in, too. Now, my mom has put me out of the room I was using just so she could give it to those kids and my brother and his wife are sleeping in my sister's room. My sister in law is very pushy, and I hate her so much. She tries to act like my mom is hers and she always uses my things and my mom tells her it's okay. My mom also always takes her side and agreed with her when she said I should just get a job and move out! But I'm not ready to do that yet, because I'm upset about my husband. Plus, the brats are really annoying! What should I do?

2007-08-18 19:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-18 19:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I called my baby's sperm donor and asked him when I get married again would he be opposed to my new husband adopting my son. I am trying to be honest and straightforward with him. He said no. Then I explained that I wanted my child to have a normal life. No going between homes, no being confused. He gave this whole spill about how I am wanting to do this for me and I said, well, name one thing i said that i am wanting to do for myself. He couldn't. I told him this is not about me and it is not about him it is about the child and what is best for him. I asked to atleast think about what I had said and he said he would. Do you think I handled this right since he hasn't called or seen him in two months. Do you think there is a possibility that it will get me anywhere?

2007-08-18 19:06:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been dating this girl for over 2 months. I just started kissing her on the cheek and occasionally I would give her a quick peck on the lips but I've never kiss her romantically. Her parents are gone for the weekend and she says that she'll probably give me the "big" kiss. When she said that, my heart stopped for a second. What if I suck at it or worst, what if she feels nothing. I really like her and I don't want her to break up with me because i'm a bad kisser.

2007-08-18 19:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by gambitleblanc 1 in Singles & Dating

Just out of curiousity

2007-08-18 19:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I've known my brother in law for 5 years and lately in the past few months I have found myself having these feelings that I have never felt before I love my husband so much we have been threw alot together and he is my bestfriend I will never give him up for anything in the world but I dont know what to do with myself I just get really funny feelings when he is near me and I try so hard to not listen to those feelings but sometimes I wish that he can just grab me and kiss me but then I think about it and fight with that urge I been trying so hard not to let him know about it I guess thats what I should do just keep it to myself I dont want to ruin the only thing thats good in my life Please can anyone say anything to help me feel better Thanks

2007-08-18 19:03:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tips plz?

2007-08-18 19:02:06 · 18 answers · asked by S 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u ask a girl out. i have never had a girlfriend and i want to ask this girl out but i dont no how to do it

2007-08-18 18:56:45 · 14 answers · asked by gibrojake 1 in Singles & Dating

and i don't mean simple kisses, or kisses between friends. for example my friends girlfriend got drunk at a club and ended up making out with another guy and someone took photos of it and he considered it cheating (well it did look like she was trying to swallow his face).
Adult responses please do think it its cheating and when do you think it crosses over that line

2007-08-18 18:55:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just want to make my bf happy so can you give me some advice on what guys like and what they dont like. i know they all are different but they have to all like some things. by the way, hes 16. just little stuff like kissing or sitting on their lap or PDA.

2007-08-18 18:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by Rhiannon F 1 in Singles & Dating

would you rather kiss your girl in front of everyone when you are dancing or just whne you are alone?

2007-08-18 18:53:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're separated. My husband helps me financially. He
takes me to movies, dinner. We are seeing a counselor.
We've been separated 4 months now. I don't see him coming
running to me and wanting to live together again. Does he
want to take it slow or is it over.I dont know if to continue and
let it run its course or just end the marriage.

2007-08-18 18:52:23 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Naive 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do GUYS compare WOMEN to CARS....

“Gotta test drive the car before u buy it”

Girls do u MIND?

2007-08-18 18:51:13 · 26 answers · asked by KK 3 in Singles & Dating

Lets say your guy just got a job going into his second paycheck and you both get paid around the same time. He tells you that his broke but your using your money to pay for things. You soon find out that he was not broke. This angers you alot so you kick him out. Giving that their are three kids inbetween you as well, he doesn't put up an argument to stay. Would you be hurt even though you told him to leave? Then he doesn't act hurt leaving the kids? What do you make of this?

2007-08-18 18:49:17 · 5 answers · asked by Promise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend is getting a divorce. she's been at our house A LOT lately (as you'd expect). BUT, she keeps saying to my husband "do you have a brother just like you?" (he has no siblings). and we went out to dinner tonight and she said "people will probably think i'm your other wife and we're all a happy morman family". my husband went to bed before she left tonight and when she was leaving she stepped just inside the doorway to my bedroom to see if he was in there... here's the thing, i KNOW she's had affairs with married men before... i know she has some low self esteem because of the relationship she's getting out of... AM I BEING PARANOID? these are not the ONLY things she's said... but that's the things she said TODAY.

2007-08-18 18:49:13 · 16 answers · asked by JayneDoe 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-18 18:48:13 · 37 answers · asked by brittany_loves_jt 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a really tough relationship that I thought I can handle. I think that whatever bad she does, she doesn't know any better, but I don't feel like I can get through to her. Any hope?

2007-08-18 18:45:59 · 30 answers · asked by Giant Donut 2 in Singles & Dating

Im married w/ 2 kids & have always dreamed of a best friend I could call my own. I transferred to too many schools and even country before so I never really retained good friendships. Plus, I focused so much on my bf that friends were sadly shunned away.

How do I go abt finding my alter ego? Or even if not one, at least a true honest person I can rely on when things are rough and for me to give the love and support I could offer. My previous friends said I'm kind and generous but sometimes, I get a lot of people insecured abt me and I dont know why. I am NOT a bf/hubby stealer...

I like to talk abt family life, kids, relationships, past break ups, exes, rant abt the traffic, the weather or rave abt this new purse on sale ... just a normal girlie platonic thing... How will I find her, almost all girls are taken or either belong to a circle of friendship so its hard.

Btw, I am of color living in United States and prejudice sometimes, unfortunately is rampant.

2007-08-18 18:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im in love with a guy i met over the net(i wasnt looking to, just kinda happened) and he has bought me a ticket to come see him this christmas break...not for sex or anything but just to see if we are really in love. Anyways most you are thinking "Duh...its dangerous" I know that so please dont give me the mop around. hes american and im canadian..and he cant come see me because i share an apartment with my brother....should i do it...mature answers only pliz and thnx :)

2007-08-18 18:40:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your boyfriend or girlfriend or someone you liked said one of your friends are hot or some random person they never met was hot. How much would you get mad?
Because when I went on dates with this girl (we were friends at the time) she always talked about how hot a guy was and man it drove me crazy. I almost was going to tell her that there was a girl over there that was hot. I realize though two wrongs don't make a right. Still I got mad because I liked her at the time and I was wondering if everyone or a lot of people feel this way?
PS- Yeah I'll admit that I'm jealous at times.

2007-08-18 18:38:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me na dmy toy are tight. it knows everything i want and the "sex" with it is much greater than with my boyfriend. i love my bf so much, ive tried to aply the toy sex to our sex but i just dont reach the max. how can i orgasim, and have better sex with my bf. tips???? specific ones too.

2007-08-18 18:38:00 · 4 answers · asked by lil_boo_tee@yahoo.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 18:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by ida s 1 in Family

I am 16 and a senior in H.S. My boyfriend is in the army. I live in Iowa and he is stationed in Texas. We love eachother and have talked about getting married. We are not engaged yet, and we haven't decided when to get engaged. He will be getting deployed in the April-July area and might ask me to marry him then. At that time I will be 17 and may/may not still be in highschool. If not then then he will when he comes back for R&R 6 months into his deployment, he will propose then. He says that after coming back from a war zone, he wants the rest of his life to start as soon as possible. I know that the millitary often causes people to get married too young. I face oppostion from parents and all other adults. I am looking for some positive feedback on ways to overcome that, as well as answers on the age factor.

2007-08-18 18:35:26 · 16 answers · asked by kristinatms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey people, ive been told many times that im a good looking person, but i always think to myself that i am not??.....why is this people, girls of every race(espescially my own), always look at me in a flirty way, some not, but many hot girls do, this is what i have noticed anyway(not to be arrogant or anything.)my problem is i dont feel good enough to go out with a real good looking girl, even though heaps of people tell me i am good looking aswell?, i dnt understand where im getting all this from, but it does let me down....and it makes me feel quite insecure, its kind of like some really pretty/hot girls who are very insecure....what do i do about this?

2007-08-18 18:34:08 · 27 answers · asked by dinnn 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a really close friend and I don't know if I should tell him how I feel. Should I risk losing him as a friend to be more. I've known him since birth, my family knows him, he's practacally family. Should I tell him, and if so, how, and when would be appropriet?

2007-08-18 18:32:04 · 3 answers · asked by yaknow.. 3 in Singles & Dating

Or is this just something we tell ourselves to feel better about being alone all the time?

2007-08-18 18:28:18 · 8 answers · asked by Becca 6 in Singles & Dating

I am five foot two inches, and about 120 pounds.
I am A LOT! of lean muscle, but I will admit I have a lil bit of meat on my thighs , and a J Lo butt.

Am I overweight, and guys do you find this type of body attractive???

BTW: I know a womans personality is way more important then her looks. =)

2007-08-18 18:27:04 · 22 answers · asked by Klava♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

i will be 17 in 2 months and there are alot guys who like me i have always gotten compliments on my beauty, body and personality so i guess i look good plus alot of guys always wanna be my boyfriend so can someone tell me whats wrong

2007-08-18 18:27:00 · 21 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

okay my hubby works in an Aluminum plant and he is a team lead there, he is 26 and we have been married 6 years. Well a week ago the plant hired 2 19 year old girls, Brittany and Nikki. Well he has talked about them a lot this past week. about how he talked to them about this and talked to them about that and he has actually been volenteering to train these girls. And talks to them on myspace and stuff. Now i am not normally jealous but when that is all i hear about, it starts to bug me. and to top it off, there is a house up for rent across the street from us and I guess he took them the phone number and they went to see it and now they are probably gonna move in across the street! He said "Honey I told them you would help them find things for their place and that they could hang out here sometimes when they are bored" I really don't wanna entertain these girls. I made the comment to him "I suppose I have to be nice to them?" and he said "Why not, they are my friends?" what do i do

2007-08-18 18:22:31 · 17 answers · asked by duckybutt83 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been a straight a student for as long as i could remember for like at least 15 years and i never had any freedom i don't mean like let me out for today and tomorrow no, I mean like no to everything then when i went through the depression stage from being stuck in the house for so many years I felt so horrible and down when i get any time out the house i try and do everything that i always asked to do cuz i know it would be my last me and my parents don't talk and I'm 17 we have been like this for years now we don't talk because every time we try and talk they always yell when they don't hear what they wanna hear. they are the type that doesn't let me have a bf for anything even when i talk to them about it first and even try and get them to talk to the parents and him and everything they won't even let me get a job I just feel trapped and i don't know what to do someone give me advice please and I've tried talking to them too many times and I 've looked at it from their view.

2007-08-18 18:22:18 · 8 answers · asked by Cheyenne F 1 in Family