Family & Relationships - 18 August 2007

I am 46 and my g/f 36 we have been together 8 years but not living together. I want to move the relationship forward by moving in together she does not,
she wants to wait another two years. While I respect her decision I feel that in 2 years time she will still not want to. We use to have an amazing sex life and that has now gone is that a sign she is drifting away please help

2007-08-18 12:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This person was staying at my house for a week, and I'm totally grossed out about it and don't know how I should handle it. This is a VERY close family member. Isn't this stuff illegal? Should I be worried that this person is around my children?

2007-08-18 12:54:37 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie M 1 in Family

I'm a quiet fella, i only go out now and again. And i keep myself to myself when i do. " I have had a hard life"
About 5 years ago i meet a girl, i fell for her straight off. She is funny, caring, talkitive, full of life, and absolutly beautiful! She has picked me up and let me down so many times, i find it hard to trust her. "but i want to"
We share common friends.
One of my mates gave her my number last weekend. So she must have deleted my number from her phone. We have not spoke in months. But tonight she txt me to tell me she has started her own hairdressers shop. She seems keen to know what i am doing!
What do you make of this?

2007-08-18 12:52:30 · 22 answers · asked by markyc 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy she went to work with is 54 yrs old she is 15 years old and hes the oldest of a bunch of little girl siblings and he delivers packages all over indiana and hes always touching my girlfriend and his work hours are from 8 at night till 3 in the morning and hes always telling her shes pretty and out of all her siblings shes the only one he talks to and hes telling her that hes gonna take her out into the country and let her drive his car and i just dont know what to do someone plz help me contacting the cops is a no cuz he hasnt done nething and oh yeah his car when he locks the dors the only way to unlock them is from the remote hes got on his key and when he locks them the locks dissapear into the door panel someone plz help me

2007-08-18 12:51:53 · 18 answers · asked by Womeninmydreams 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay well I just moved to another city, and I am starting 7th grade. How will I make friends and how should I act (preppy , ext.)?? I really want to make a great fresh start with good friends?? ...I'm scared

2007-08-18 12:50:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been divorced for 3 1/2 years and made a clean break from my ex husband and his friends. I recentley ran into one of his best friends, and I realized how much I liked him. He has no idea, and might never ask me out...but if he did...would that be ok?

2007-08-18 12:47:48 · 31 answers · asked by Ginger B 1 in Singles & Dating

when i ask him why he wont he just gets mad and tells me it does not work anymore

2007-08-18 12:47:34 · 36 answers · asked by lonley in ky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother is soon going to be in 8th grade and he still watches disney channel and nickelodean. He watches Hannah Montana and other cartoony stuff on disney channel. It really bothers me and annoys me. Is he ever going to grow up and stop watching this stuff, or what should I do about it?

2007-08-18 12:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by barhoom 3 in Family

My bf is the god child of his neice and he watches her quite often..they live right next door... His brother doesnt interact wiht the baby as much as my bf does and the bf seems to respond better to my bf.. Him and I are worried she might think he's her Daddy not his brother.... any advice? We know if she calls my bf daddy there will be probs and we want to avoid that....but looks at her like our kids look at him

2007-08-18 12:44:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was suspicious because he had been spending so much time on the Internet, and had been carefully cleaning out his computer every time he logged off, add to that the discovery of a few new messenger profiles. So I put a keylogger on his laptop in hopes that it would either prove his innocence, or give me the evidence with which to confront him. I was especially suspicious because of an e-mail I had seen in his myspace mail from a girl saying that they should "meet up sometime again soon". I really assumed he was cheating on me with her, because this was during the time that I was experiencing severe morning-sickness and had no interest in sex. Now maybe part of this is my fault, because I knew he'd had experiences with men in the past (oral sex), but I never fathomed that he would lie to me and then cover his tracks. He lied until I had him completely cornered and he KNEW I knew. When I caught him he was in the process of planning a meeting with another guy. I don't know what to do???

2007-08-18 12:43:44 · 13 answers · asked by theres_gotta_be_more_2_life 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently I found out my boyfriend's email password and saw that he was a member to a sexsearch.com site, where adult personals are posted, video chats go on, etc. I am furious but know that I am not alone. Don't know what to do about it. Need help.

2007-08-18 12:38:42 · 26 answers · asked by some girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-18 12:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by mcjuice2200 2 in Weddings

My cousin is 17 and her boyfriend is 18. They've been together for over a year and yes, they have sex. Both of their parents have known about the relationship all along (but not about how intimate they get). Now my cousin is worried that it's illegal since her bf turned 18. But i've heard that 17 is the age of consent, although I'm not sure. Can her parents really put the boyfriend in jail if they find out something?
They live in California.

2007-08-18 12:36:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anita 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 12:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 in Singles & Dating

That's what a lot of people say. Which do you PERSONALLY prefer?

2007-08-18 12:32:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and father of my 1 year old is trying and trying to quit hard drugs. He went through rehab and has had 2 relapses in 2 months. He continues to want to try and I want to know when enough is enough.

2007-08-18 12:32:19 · 40 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-18 12:27:18 · 15 answers · asked by M4rky d 6 in Singles & Dating

I know someone who is in one of these home based businesses. Everywhere she goes, she is passing out cards and giving her spiel, and in some cases, putting pressure on people. BUT what the problem is is that she doesn't realize that there are certain places that she needs to keep her mouth shut. A friend of mine just had her 35th birthday party and she was there handing out cards and talking the business. Without saying, this was absolutely annoying to most everyone because this was a party in honor of someone else. The thing is is that in order for you to be truly successful at this, you have to contact EVERYONE you know and annoy them. I've heard stories where people have told off their friends that if they don't back off, they will never speak to them again.

2007-08-18 12:27:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I pretended i had a girlfriend and used my cousins picture.
any ever do that? i felt insecure about not having a girlfriend. A couple other friends were giving me crap about it so i cut out a picture of my cousin and showed them that and they said whats her name and i was caught offguard and said a famous celebrities name and they all started laughing at me. Do you think they know that it was made up? They said is that your girlfriend? i said yes. Do you think they saw the resemblence? I hate the fact i dont have a girlfriend and they were always talking about theirs.

2007-08-18 12:23:34 · 13 answers · asked by jb 1 in Singles & Dating

THe emails are just generally hi how are you doing types, but what do you all think.

2007-08-18 12:23:24 · 32 answers · asked by wjw5576 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need ideas for cheap (yet nice) gifts to give the attendants at my wedding this comng weekend. I already have bought them each a pair of sandals that we will be wearing at the ceremony. Any ideas? I'm only looking to spend $10-20 more per guy (6 total).

2007-08-18 12:23:22 · 8 answers · asked by P-Town Doc 2 in Weddings

While in a Relationship that is Long term when your spouse starts to hang out more with a family member or Friend that is Single Does this ruin relationships? Basically saying When you have Single Friends that are Close friends does it Ruin relationships Give me Serious Opinions Thanks

2007-08-18 12:21:55 · 4 answers · asked by Yeah You Sea Me 2 in Friends

i really like this guy and he really likes me back im a mature 15 year old and hes 19. were really close and it would mean so much if we dated. we dont care about the age gap but were scared other people will any suggestions?

2007-08-18 12:17:39 · 8 answers · asked by Jess D 2 in Singles & Dating

When, and where were you?

2007-08-18 12:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by dewhatulike 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in the projects...I don't do what the kids my age are doing. I'm 19 and i go to college while i'm working. It seems like I don't have anybody except my family. I don't reall go out much and i feel lonely. Is there amything i can do??? or anywhere i can go to make new friends??? How do i get people to accept me fo who i am. I can be like these kids to but My parents have been to nice to me.

2007-08-18 12:13:04 · 4 answers · asked by Louis max j 1 in Friends

i'm a sr., and ever since we started school back i've been havin this feelin like i'm goin to lose my boyfriend, i love him sooooo much!!!!!!!, we don't have any classes together but we do have lunch together and even then he doesn't tlk to me that much, and the past couple of days when i called him all he can tlk about is what he and his friends did that day, and/ or what they are goin to do, and bein sort of a smart a**

please help

2007-08-18 12:10:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a beautiful womanat work I'd like to ask out. I don't think she has even noticed me. Her past boyfriends are alot better than me.

How can get her want to go out with me?

2007-08-18 12:05:38 · 7 answers · asked by Jim Snugles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my boyfriend went on a week vacation to the beach, he came back and he gave me 2 cute beachy necklaces and a cute ring (nothing major, just like an i miss you and am thinking of you gift).

When I went away for 2 weeks, i looked everywhere and couldn't think of anything to get him at all. So i didn't get him anything. But then a week later when I went on another vacation, I looked again but still couldn't find anything. I finally on the last day asked my dad what a 16 year old guy would want just as an i miss you and am thinking of you gift/souvenir thing. Since we were short on time, (we were on a cruise ship and we were about to depart from the land) my dad found those little paper/foam airplanes that you slip together real quick and they fly pretty good and are just fun. He told me that all guys like those. So i bought him one since I had no other ideas.

Do you think that this was a good idea to get, and guys would you like it? Should I give it to him or just forget it?

2007-08-18 11:58:26 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He yells at me and says everything is my fault. everything i do. i love him with all my heart but something has to change i cant keep doing this. we got married 2 months ago and he had been like that before but it got better but that has changed now. he still wont have sex with me i have tried to talk to him about it but he just gets mad.

2007-08-18 11:54:07 · 13 answers · asked by lonley in ky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-18 11:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce