Girls, girls girls?

Question

I'm a quiet fella, i only go out now and again. And i keep myself to myself when i do. " I have had a hard life"
About 5 years ago i meet a girl, i fell for her straight off. She is funny, caring, talkitive, full of life, and absolutly beautiful! She has picked me up and let me down so many times, i find it hard to trust her. "but i want to"
We share common friends.
One of my mates gave her my number last weekend. So she must have deleted my number from her phone. We have not spoke in months. But tonight she txt me to tell me she has started her own hairdressers shop. She seems keen to know what i am doing!
What do you make of this?

Answer 1

we only get treated how we allow people to treat us

Answer 2

ok, this is a hard one.

but i'm pretty sure, unless yo get a definate answer, you should steer clear. You say she's picked you up and let you down so many times. This has pro's and con's to it. You don't want her letting you down, but some couples have that and it works great, coz they never know what's coming. The uncertainty goes with them.

She deleted your number. Maybe she got a new phone or something, or she needed space. Or she merely never texted/spoke to you and felt she had no need for the number.

Lastly, are you sure the text was meant for you? If it was, be nice, ask her how it's going. Build up the relationship, over months, years. Learn to trust each other, and get a good relationship.

But be careful. She may just want to be friends. Find out. Ask her! Nothings more annoying than uncertainty. But don't just come out with it, like, oh hi, great for the hairdressers, so why did you get back in contact with me, you wanna go out sometime? Take your time with it. =] Hope this helps.

Answer 3

You are reliable and always there for her when she needs you,and is very loving and sweet,so you are ther to do for her when she twinkles her eyes.
And when she needs nothing of you,then she dumps you like an old pair of comfy slippers when she wants to put on her high heels and enjoy life her way.
You are too soft and falls for it all the time,just like i did,and if it wasn`t you,it would soon be some one else in a que willing to do for her.

Answer 4

Maybe she's a little lonely && decided to see how you
were doing...doesn't nessarilly mean she wants you
she knows your there though if she needs anything even
if it's too shoot the sh** I'd say find a new girl to get romantically involved with && just leave this one as a good friend nothing
serious she doesn't appreciate you it seems like to me
good luck buddiiiie. =]

Answer 5

Be strong pet, it sad to say but some people only want what they can't have. when you say she has picked you up and let you down many times ,thats to see if she still can.It seems she likes your admiration but not to much, then when you have not been in touch, she likes to see if you will still come running. find someone who wants your company and attention all the time.but when you do i suspect she will be jealous and try to see if she still has that power over you.Don't respond to it. if she really likes you she would not treat you like she does.good luck be strong.

Answer 6

Can't hurt to talk to her, see where the land lies.

One thing though - don't let her treat you badly again. If you sense something like this, just tell her goodnight politely and firmly, and walk away. She's not that caring if she treats someone badly.

Answer 7

Seems she want to get back with you. But since she dump you for your mate. I would text her back and say you going great and new lady in your life. She only using you. Maybe she broke of with your mate.

Answer 8

Stay friends if you want to but keep you're distance. You probably put her off by being too keen by falling for her straightaway.

Answer 9

wel it seems she just want to play it safe and wants to be friends. so look you must accept her descion. althought it might be hard but trust me it is worth it. i mean would you rather her be unhapy or happy. i mean i am not trying to say you like torture or anything but you just need to lay back and let things go the way they need to go. i am aure your a nice guy and any girl who goes otu with you would be pretty lucky.

Answer 10

go into it with your rose tinted specs off, she might just want to be friends so expect no more than that and shes just asking how you have been if you havent been ion contact for a while. if something more happens over time then BONUS!

Answer 11

Take it for nothing more until she gives you signs.

She is being friendly and enquiring how you have been doing seen as though you havent seen each other for a while.