Family & Relationships - 18 August 2007

Ok, im a bridesmaid at my cousins wedding in one weeks time, and ive just found out that the bridesmaids need to have a dance after the bride and grooms first dance. theres only 4 bridesmaids and its quite a big place with lots of people there so all eyes will be on us.

The problem is that we dont know the guys that my cousin has picked to dance with us and i have no idea how to slow dance, i dont even know what type of dance im meant to do!

There isnt a rehersal for us or anything so it will just basically be meet these guys then dance with them, im really nervous about it!

Does anyone know how i should dance, where to put my hands and how to move?
thanks

2007-08-18 11:46:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

With a constant issue that will never go away, will getting counseling by myself help our communication with the issue?

2007-08-18 11:46:06 · 1 answers · asked by Brandie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you still love each other like you did when you first met or has the novelty worn off
and knowing your married to whoever make you happy?

2007-08-18 11:39:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is thinking about having a vasectomy. He has two children from a previous marriage and two children with me.

Two years ago he had a lump removed from his testicle and afterwards had stitches and was very sore for a few weeks. It turned out to be a cyst and during the operation his tube on one side was severed, though he is still fertile. Following that when he now orgasms he says it feels different, not so much build up and not as powerful as before. Although he still enjoys it of course!!!

He is very worried that a vasectomy will take the pleasure away he still has.

Have you had a vasectomy? and if so did sex feel the same afterwards?

2007-08-18 11:36:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive noticed that there are hardly any short (knee lenght) wedding dresses are on offer - why do you think this is? - Do you think they are unacceptable?

2007-08-18 11:34:39 · 29 answers · asked by bunnykinz 2 in Weddings

My mom died 2-22-07 she and my dad where together for 44 years. My dad is getting married on Aug 25 6 mo 3 days to the day. I have decided not to go to the wedding. We are not seeing eye to eye on this. He says she died it was till death do us part thats the end. We are not talking. He started seeing her 2 weeks after my mom died she was around alittle before my my mom past an di didn't like her before. NOT VERY HAPPY.....

2007-08-18 11:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

together for 4 months he visits all them alone forbid you to come along never has one come to visit the home nor do any of them knows where you all stay. They all meet him around the corner, or at a eatery.
There must be something very wrong with this man! What can anyone tell me about this scenario!
Also he has feminine mannerisms and very unorthodox, self centered, and unemployed - imagine that right!
takes showers with his boxers on?
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
give me feed back! I need it bad!

2007-08-18 11:30:47 · 4 answers · asked by wifiyah 3 in Singles & Dating

Women want to talk. Men want sex. To please a man, all a woman has to do is put out for about 30 or 40 minutes and the guy is happy. A man however has to listen to hours upon hours of mindless babble and if he forgets just one thing, JUST ONE THING, the woman goes berserk. And on top of all that, if he actually succeeds in remembering everything, a huge feat indeed, she goes berserk saying that "you’re too clingy." I think the best us men can hope for is a happy medium. Pay attention to the girl, but don't pay too much attention. No matter what, she is going to throw fits for no reason, so you might as well take her yelling at you and not yell back. At least she can't claim that you’re the one who escalates the fights.

2007-08-18 11:30:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My children are all grown up and I live with my husband and my mother. My son stays with us sometimes. I feel like as long as they need me I am okay but if they don't need me I am invisible.

2007-08-18 11:29:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 17 and have had two boyfriends, the first one lasted 4 months and he got me into a lot of trouble, as he lived on the other side of the law, last year january i got with another boy and broke up in september but me and him are still really good friends, after this any other boy that i meet i always act cold towards them, as if they don't matter, then i try my hardest to drift from them after a couple of weeks, i can feel myself doing it but i cant seem to stop, at first i thought it was because i didnt really fancy them but this boy im going out with now, is really nice to me, he's sweet, intelligent, funny, understanding, and knows where he's going in life, i really care for him and don't want to lose him but every time i'm around him i cant stop myself from acting closed, he wants to take our relationship to the next level and i don't know why as i have been so cold to him lately, i wish i could tell him how i really feel, and deep down i know he knows but i cant help but be cold

2007-08-18 11:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by Xx~lovely~xX 3 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a guy in his late 30s and I'm early 20s, we get on great, but we seem to be having a few text message arguments lately, where I say something he doesn't like, eg yesterday we were going to see each other but as I wouldn't let him come to the house as I hadn't tidied up before my parents came home, he decided he'd lost the mood and didn't want to see me as I'd made him feel hurt and 'unspecial' as though I didn't want him there!
I tried explaining but then he said he needed some time and now he's not been in touch, he's done this before, but he does it a lot, and it's always over something small and pathetic and I ALWAYS have to apologise and be all nice! Then he'll get in touch again, but it's so annoying, why can't he just accept my apology and clear the air? Do all men sulk like this? Any thoughts would be appreciated to help me understand and not be the big bad wolf he makes me feel!!!

2007-08-18 11:23:15 · 18 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes i have thoughts of kicking in my exwifes door and putting two in her head for the way she treated me but its a good thing its just crazy thoughts right, do you think there is something wrong with me?

2007-08-18 11:17:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

All I see is people upset that they or their partner cheated, or they fight all the time, or custody battles. I could go on and on.
I would like to see some stories that inspire couples to have a happier, healthier marriage. How did you meet? Why did you choose this man or woman? What do you do for each other to stay happy? Or anything else you would like to add.

2007-08-18 11:16:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife thinks i should still help her around the house when I get home from work. She stays home with the 5 kids and gets to relax in stead of going to work. All she has to do is take care of the kids and clean the house and make sure dinner is on the table when I get home. Is that hard to ask of her? She wants me to even mow the lawn so the kids could play on it. I say she needs to mow the lawn, What do you think? since I work all day from 8 to 4. And all she dose is stay home and do nothing, besides house work, so she could moe the lawn too. Do you think I am being reasonable? Because this is my time to have a beer and watch t.v.

2007-08-18 11:13:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, what do you do?

2007-08-18 11:03:59 · 3 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, and i'm trying so hard to keep myself occupied so i don't have to think about him. I had to break up because my parents forced us to after being caught making out. I don't know if this was fair to me.. because i was so hurt after being forced to end the relationship.
I know it's not worth crying over, but everytime i think of us, it hurts so much because i thought we could've continued on if we didn't do something so stupid.

So after i broke up with him, i kept wondering how he felt about the whole thing. I gave in and talked to him about it online. He told me that he's alright with it and he's just trying not to think about it. It seems like he's not bothered by what happened.. yet i cried over it day after day.

We agreed to being friends, but do guys always seem so cold to you after you're not together anymore? Has anyone been in a similar situation before?

2007-08-18 11:03:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me
24 yrs 3months 15 days 4hrs 30 minutes
and I didn't even look it up..the circumstances made me remember.

2007-08-18 11:02:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To make a long story short, husband is away for a very long time, cheated since hes been gone and confessed. VERY extreme circumstances, bad situation and I am NOT making excuses for him. He did it and it was wrong, but its a long story. I love him and forgive him-point blank! He wont be home for a very long time and Im very lonely. He got his, so am I entitled to get mine? I can and know where I can. But the question is do i or dont i? Ive never cheated before, ever. This is the one time in my life where i wonder if i could, bc i would NEVER think it if he was home and I KNOW he wouldnt have if he had never left. (The being apart issue, we dont have a choice, Uncle Sam said so) I know I would feel guilty if I did, but I feel like it would relieve the stress i am going through. It would be a one time thing and then NEVER again. I love my husband very much and I know he loves me, that is what makes this situation so hard. If he did it, can I? Pls dont hate me,I'm just hurt and lonely.

2007-08-18 10:59:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and why?

2007-08-18 10:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i lost my grandmother at age three ( i am a teen ) and i only have a few remaining memories of her.how do i hold on to the memories of her?

2007-08-18 10:52:26 · 6 answers · asked by giggles 2 in Family

If you had a fmily who talked about you behind and in front of your back. made the girls do all the housework and most of the outside work. Doesn't nourish your dreams. and second-guesses your abilities........... and much more. what would you do?

2007-08-18 10:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I have a pretty good marriage, but their was a time in our life about 3 an half years ago that we almost split up. He had this job in a group home and you basically do what you want as long as the clients are with you. Their was this one woman who he was with all the time and they ended up messing around one night at work. I found out and not because he told me either. I was furious. I told him that I couldn't be with him while he was working there with her because I could never trust him again. We were at the gas station today and wouldn't he know we ran into this woman and he goes up and hugs her. I'm so mad and upset with him right now and I know I'm probably overreacting, but I don't know what to think.. He knows how much that hurt me and it almost ruined our marriage. What was he thinking? What should I do? I'm want to do the christian thing, but it's so hard right now.

2007-08-18 10:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to look his fill up what web site do i go to?

2007-08-18 10:44:28 · 2 answers · asked by apria g 1 in Family

dating can be just as dangerous in person... or is it ?

tell me .

2007-08-18 10:41:16 · 18 answers · asked by JL 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been married for about three years now with some complications and now her and her partner agree that they should divorce. After they were married she applied for a visa for him. He should have recieved it by now, theyv had theyr interview and everything.

How do you get a divorce while in the middle of all that visa buisness? Do you have to go through some steps to cancel the visa before you apply for divorce? Is it possible to cancel visa papers?

2007-08-18 10:37:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 8 Years I have a new born Baby and the wifey not been very helpfull, all she dose is give me a hard time when i come home from work! she wants me to do stuff around the house and look after the baby. and all she dose is just look after the baby at home. she dose not work all she dose is to look after the baby, every night i come home the same story comes up again! what shell i do? I dont love her anymore but i do care for her! ;-( all i am tring to do is to support both of them but shes not making it easy for me! what shell i do? I dont just come home and sit my A** on the sofa or anything i just come home surf the net and just having time on my own! I pay the rent and all the bills and even her credit card bills which is i have nothing to don with it! what can i do? PS I love my baby very much.

2007-08-18 10:36:31 · 15 answers · asked by kardooma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will tell you - I have reached the level of frustration that if I stay in this any longer I will go crazy and my self-esteeim will go down the loo. I decided to leave my husband. Finally, after realising that it aint' going nowhere - loveless, sexless, childless at 35. The only question I have is - why does he not do anything about our issues? It should be pretty simple, right? You tell your partner what bothers you, he listens, tells his point of view, you both figure out the solution that suits both. With him it's like this - I tell, he gets angry, does not admit it, reminds me of my faults, would not own any of his misdeads, gets cold, withdraws, sulks, ignores me. Like a baby. While I am still trying to be nice: offer him breakfast, etc. Why? Why? Why? He tells me he wants to fix it. Then this s..t all the time. I just think it's time to let go.

2007-08-18 10:36:13 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's Saturday early night and my husband just wants to watch TV ? We even have a friend over who would watch our kids

2007-08-18 10:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by starz.. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I know this is a really pathetic thing to do, but I got extremely angry at a coworker today at work and ended up going home and deleting her from my facebook friends (I don't have a myspace). She basically talked behind my back and ignores me constantly. She even makes fun of people who are physically ugly or handicapped She also is only 18 and tries to hook up with 15 year old boys and the 29 year old boss. I had it when she made fun of my work outfit that day...which had some bleach on it. I know you all are going to say you are so childish for doing that, but I had basically had it and didn't want to call her out to her face in front of customers and don't want her being able to see my photos or who I talk to anymore. She's leaving for college next friday and I'm never going to see her probabaly again and I'm not the type for drama at all, but how should I feel about this situation? I now regret doing it in case she starts talking even more crap. How shoud I handle this?

2007-08-18 10:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think thats just absord! Man thats messed up!

2007-08-18 10:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce