Family & Relationships - 18 August 2007

I have this guy friend who hugs me in the weirdest way. He hugs me from the side, but not side-to-side. He wraps his arms around me so my shoulder is against his chest and his hands meet around my other arm. I feel so awkward, when he does that, because there's really no way I can hug him back, with my arms pinned to my sides, so I just have to stand there. Has anyone ever hugged you this way?

2007-08-18 20:16:06 · 10 answers · asked by michelle_my_belle16 2 in Friends

He makes coffee and drops the grounds on the counter. He eats pizza and drops the toppings on the floor. He pops open beer bottles then drops the damn caps. When he eats, he can't even see the napkins, then leaves the mess.

He doesn't even say "Sorry, I'm blind", use his glasses, or use a goof-proof way of doing things. He is my mom's nephew, yet as almost old as my parents. He was finally caught cheating (psuedo business trips, affair with sister in law) and his daughter convinced their mother to get a divorce. I have to tell him to use a can opener, to point out every mess he makes. I have no respect for him whatsoever and now I gotta be condescending towards him and be the ***. He has been on our couch for a damn year. I don't change the litter on purpose (its 5 feet away from couch). On one hand he deserves it for abandoning his kids for this mistress, but now i'm getting tired of it.

2007-08-18 20:15:49 · 10 answers · asked by cpc26ca 1 in Family

yes, i know im young, but im really tired of having a boyfriend one week, and then the next they think its perfectly fine to break up with me and date my friend, and act like nothing happened. this is how its been for a few years[started 3 years ago, and its now, more than ever.] and its totally accepted by everyone. im tired of this, ive had enough 'boyfriends' in the past year. i know it means something different to be dating when your 13 and when your 20, but still, i want a boyfriend, and not just one who kisses me one day, then my best friend the next.
sorry, this was kind of a rant. but i was wondering if im totally off here, and if this is how its supposed to be, right now.

2007-08-18 20:15:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 20:04:36 · 42 answers · asked by mohomad afzal s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i see is eyes i never non what happen does not have words to express my self . I feel she also loves me somuch.But she need to think i express first my self . But when i express my love she given what kind of reply i don't know . I thing i got a mistake it is only a friendship his not a love. I have to take any step i lost is friendship . what can i do actual i don't know. if you have any idea please send me at my e-mail id nandkishore_4ever@yahoo.co.in

2007-08-18 20:04:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does he need to give special attention or can you love him just as he is? I know you can't buy love! You have to feel it! To be in love with someone else, has to be the greatest feeling in the world. To have someone to talk to, someone to help you, and someone just to be there, when you need it!!

2007-08-18 20:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a new coworker that join out team. she was working on a paper that I felt that was not correct, I tried understanding where she was going with this. I gave her my opinion and told her that the paper was not good, and told her to re write it since I a responsible for her paper. she snapped and said I was demanding, I tried calming her down and said that she is making a big deal. management stepped in and we have to sit in with him. I told her i apoligized, but she kept going on said what i did was wrong. I accepted being wrong. but She keeps going on about what I did and it drove me crazy and because I am much older that her i just stood up and gave her a hug and said I was wrong for not explaining my self to get over the problem. My problem is, is that I'm am angy at myself and said i was sorry. It wasn't my fault as much it was her. She threaten me and told me over and over she is not going tolerate what i did. I just want her shut up.

2007-08-18 20:00:06 · 14 answers · asked by cafesoylatte 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 19:59:53 · 15 answers · asked by shanicehird 1 in Singles & Dating

I wonder if it is a strange thing that I don't really have friends. I grew up in Chicago and I went to the military after high school to escape the streets. Now I live in Cali and I'm out of the military. The two friends that I did have in cali moved back to other states where they were born. Now I haven't had friends or a date in about two years. I go to the theaters alone and mostly go to the gym and study and read in Barnes & Noble. Is this strange? Does it look weird that I don't have friends?

2007-08-18 19:54:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well, My brother-in-law just died and nobody is telling me how he died. I was looking after my niece so I couldn't attend the funeral but my cousin told me he looked really different. His nails were alll purple/blue. From what I know, he sniffed but he had stopped for a very long time and even stopped drinking alcohol. But somebody just told me when a person dies and his/her nails are that blue/purple it means he/she died from drugs. It had to have been drugs because he was perfectly normal and healthy..he was a pharmacist except that he was an alcoholic a long time back and I think also did drugs. I'm really not sure..how do you think he died...I mean his nails were really purple/blue and looked very different. I've been to a lot of funerals and most people look almost the same but he looked very different.

2007-08-18 19:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by inferno5757 1 in Family

been 3 years with my first love, i needed a bit of a break with her and be with my dad so i went oversea to study and i made new friends and got preoccupied with my time study/go places. She felt that I was ignoring her by not calling her everyday or messaging her. I always try to find time to talk to her. she checks my emails and found out that I been taking pictures of girls and sending it to them. heck i never wrote anything in those emails. My exgf cried and feels that i am cheating. i hate to give her hard time. and we constantly fight on the phone till i had it and got upset because i'll never see us working out or have a future and said that we need to breakup. after 2 weeks into a breakup, i fell in love with one of the girls i been hanging out with. after 2 months of my ex gf crying i realize i made love to a rebound girl. She's a good girl, but dont know when in the future will we ever meet. I made a big mistake, but still afraid i have problems with my exgf if i go bak

2007-08-18 19:52:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i called the boy i like and we had sometin to talk about and i wanted to know wat would be some good questions to ask him other then how r u doing and school cuz like i want sometin to talk to him about thanx! oops i posted this twice
we r friends to and hes my crush lol

2007-08-18 19:49:56 · 19 answers · asked by That Girrl♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 19:49:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anya 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys what would you do if ur girlfriend/wife SMACKED you on the FACE....

Like SLAPPED u.....

What would be ur reaction...

2007-08-18 19:49:00 · 17 answers · asked by KK 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 19:48:38 · 2 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

Choose one from the list below,
Homer simson
Ned Flanders
Mr Burns
Smithers
Grounds keeper willie
Moe
Disco stu
P Skinner
Mayor Quimbie

2007-08-18 19:47:42 · 20 answers · asked by nickson faction 7 in Singles & Dating

I wonder what goes through his mind.
I asked him if he liked my kisses or wanted me to stop. He said he liked my kisses and didn't want me to quit giving him kisses.


What could be going on in his mind?

2007-08-18 19:41:43 · 30 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

I want to collect all of your experience and keep it in my mobile. Because, sometimes I suffer depression and then I'll read all of your funniest memorable experience to keep my mind fresh and happy.

2007-08-18 19:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by ♪♪♪♪ mR ♪♪♪♪ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

what happened? did it work out?

2007-08-18 19:39:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as a friend with benifit. I said No, but she didn't believe me. So we broke up. The next day, she accidentally saw me kissed a girl. I feel guilty. Should I feel guilty while she's the one who broke up with me first?

2007-08-18 19:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so my bf and me are sitting on the couch at my house watching tv and he looks at me with this really serious look and says " i love you" then i smiled and said "i love you too"
its not the first time hes said it. and weve been together for two months. kay. so then 5 seconds later he is reaching over and trying to feel me up. i got really mad at him and i was like "is that the only reason you said that? to feel me up. wow. okay" then i moved to the other side of the couch. kay i dont care if he feels me up. but bad timing jeeze. hes felt me up before but seriously. should i have been mad?

2007-08-18 19:34:22 · 29 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

What would u think if ur girlfriend/wife didnt want to work...

And u live together....

2007-08-18 19:30:28 · 5 answers · asked by KK 3 in Singles & Dating

and i've been cheating on him since the day we met. i've had sex with over 50 different men. i don't think he's the father of my children and he has no idea! what should i do? should i go on maury???

2007-08-18 19:28:50 · 36 answers · asked by IDK 1 in Singles & Dating

some people say that if you have a boyfriend then you would do ANYTHING in your power to see them.. is this true and Always the case?
because i got my first boyfriend on my First date with him (long story) but so i don't really know him that well.. but i agreed to be his gf and i like him a lot. and no i'm not saying i love him.. i'm only 17 and things like that need to progress.
but something happened on our date and he kept me out Way past curfew, and my mom was so worried she ended up calling the cops.. she has MS so it almost caused her to have an attack. and so i ended up getting terribly grounded... and then everyone keeps telling me that if you really like him your being grounded wouldn't matter and you would still find a way to talk to him and see him. but how the heck can i when i am not allowed to use my cell phone... my car... and my computer is restricted also....?! i don't get it. so am i doing something wrong by Not talking to him.. i thought i couldn't? i suck.

2007-08-18 19:24:46 · 14 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 3 years now and my husband and I keep separate checking accounts. I dont know how much he makes and he doesnt know how much I make. He pays the mortgage and all the bills and I buy the groceries and pay my own personal bills (the ones he doesn't know I have). Do you think this is healthy? We dont argue over money so I think it's ok, but I'm curious what others think.

2007-08-18 19:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been thinking about suicide foor a while but i decided to give being a happy person a try. what are some good easy steps to being happy?

2007-08-18 19:21:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-18 19:21:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend, but in the last couple of months she has been mean to my little sis. And she keeps talking about all the expensive stuff her parents are going to buy her, and its annoying. What should i do

2007-08-18 19:17:44 · 19 answers · asked by Lola Fabala 5 in Friends

OK my boyfriend is 19 n i'm 20 and were having twins and we just broke up, so everytime we argue his like **** u and don't ever call me again and i dont wanna c the kids, then he'll call back and be like i was just mad, and he's always saying i start all the arguments but we both think its the other. First of all this doesnt matter but just for a little history of our lives i am an african american female, he is from somalia/yemen, his mom is somalian, his uncle's wife is white(25yrs). so now that i filled u guys in his mom says that all black girls are ghetto n they either fake being pregnant/ they do it on purpose, so his mom says that i am a faker/ liar about everything i've tried everything to prove myself n they think i got other ppl pic (his mom lives in canada we live in ohio) his uncle met me and doesnt like me for no reason and my b/f goes n tells his uncles wife our business n she said doesnt like black girls am i wrong for not gonna let his family c the babies? they hate me!

2007-08-18 19:14:03 · 2 answers · asked by madame_ohio_state87 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll try to get straight to the point.About a year ago I tired to join this soroity at my school.It's a very small college so everyone pretty much knows everyone.I ended up having a brief sexual realtionship with one of the sorority members best friend.I talked to him about their realtionship, I asked him if there was any thing romantic going on he said no they were just friends and assured me that noone will know about what happened between us.Anyhow I ran into some of the members everyone was cool, but then after he cut me off and told me never call him, and that he would put a restraining order, that he would put my business out there to everyone, if I contacted him again, I said no prob! so the very next day I get a call from his best friend asking me to go to one of his functions, so after that she and the other group members sort of stopped speaking to me, and even his friends whom I ve never me just stare at me..it's weird

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I've ran into hima couple of times in traffic, and he just stares at me and doesn;t speak..I feel like the bad one here, it was just one time that I had a sexual realtionship with someone that I wasn't in a relationship with, yet I feel like everyone judged me as something else.

2007-08-18 19:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends