I'll try to get straight to the point.About a year ago I tired to join this soroity at my school.It's a very small college so everyone pretty much knows everyone.I ended up having a brief sexual realtionship with one of the sorority members best friend.I talked to him about their realtionship, I asked him if there was any thing romantic going on he said no they were just friends and assured me that noone will know about what happened between us.Anyhow I ran into some of the members everyone was cool, but then after he cut me off and told me never call him, and that he would put a restraining order, that he would put my business out there to everyone, if I contacted him again, I said no prob! so the very next day I get a call from his best friend asking me to go to one of his functions, so after that she and the other group members sort of stopped speaking to me, and even his friends whom I ve never me just stare at me..it's weird
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I've ran into hima couple of times in traffic, and he just stares at me and doesn;t speak..I feel like the bad one here, it was just one time that I had a sexual realtionship with someone that I wasn't in a relationship with, yet I feel like everyone judged me as something else.
2007-08-18 19:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What happened, happened. You cannot rue over it indefinitely. Many people commit mistakes. Just get the better of your sensitivity and do not commit such mistakes in future. Be firm.
2007-08-22 18:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like guilt is really hurting you. These feelings can lead us down a road to destruction or be profitable to our future. The choice is yours. Now you know first hand how much your body is truly worth. Don't give it away cheaply. Take this experience and let it be your guide the next time temptation tells you that Sex is the answer to anything. Don't get me wrong. I am not against it. Just let it be your choice and for your reasons. Then no one else is in control of your future.
2007-08-19 02:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was a year ago you said, and I guess that you shouldn't feel like the bad one unless there something left out in the story. You guys both slept with someone you just meet so I don't know why only you would be considered the bad one, if you want to call it that.
2007-08-19 02:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by vert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know first hand what its like to do something totally out of your charactor you feel horrible about yourself, and its even worse if others know about it and are judging you, Everyone has to learn from mistakes, no one goes through life without making the biggest mistake of there life. Dont beat yourself up about it you know who you really are and thats all that matters. Chances are they assume its rumors i always do when i hear people talking **** :P Just hold your head up high and act like nothing in the world is bothering you. Good luck
2007-08-19 02:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I can help here. In order to get answers it's better if you ask a question. I wish you better luck w/ having sex in the future as well as finding the answers to all of your questions.
2007-08-19 02:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by pawnjob75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a small town so you are apt to bump into these people.
If you know you didn't do anything wrong, keep your head up. You'll meet new people and leave them to their own drama.
Good luck!
2007-08-19 02:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Autumn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋