some people say that if you have a boyfriend then you would do ANYTHING in your power to see them.. is this true and Always the case?
because i got my first boyfriend on my First date with him (long story) but so i don't really know him that well.. but i agreed to be his gf and i like him a lot. and no i'm not saying i love him.. i'm only 17 and things like that need to progress.
but something happened on our date and he kept me out Way past curfew, and my mom was so worried she ended up calling the cops.. she has MS so it almost caused her to have an attack. and so i ended up getting terribly grounded... and then everyone keeps telling me that if you really like him your being grounded wouldn't matter and you would still find a way to talk to him and see him. but how the heck can i when i am not allowed to use my cell phone... my car... and my computer is restricted also....?! i don't get it. so am i doing something wrong by Not talking to him.. i thought i couldn't? i suck.
2007-08-18 19:24:46 · 14 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Respect your Mom...do your time...and in the future, follow the rules, and all will be fine !
Relax - at your age (because I can remember) time feels very different - meaning it goes much slower - and the drama is much higher...
Respect yourself, your family, and your choices, and the rest will fall into place.
Hang in there...
2007-08-18 19:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Send him a letter in the mail. (The type of mail that you write out, and place a stamp on the envelope)
Also, you should apologize profusely to your mother for you being out WAY past your curfew. She probably was worried sick, your her baby, and she doesn't want anything to happen to you. What would you have done if she had an attack because of your negligence? I'm not trying to rub things in, but you need to ALWAYS call home before your curfew, and let your parents know that you will be running late, something popped up. At least you'd give them the decency of knowing their daughter is all right.
2007-08-19 02:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by momof3anglz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, the saying has a deeper meaning, you will understand when you have more responsibilites..
but when you really like someone, you want to talk to them and see them all the time. even when your plate is full.
when u don't like a person then, you -kind of "always have something to do"
lol
anyhow, in this case, you are still under the restriction of your parents and you should respect that, and so should he.
let him know you are on punishment b/c of the little "incident" and he should understand that you can't see him for awhile
if not, dump him. he is "part" of the reason why you are in this anyway.
AND you don't even know him.
2007-08-19 02:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by QTP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first wait until you are no longer grounded. If you are going to be out that late, then you should at least call your mother, so she doesn't go crazy worrying about you.
Your boyfriend should understand the situation, once you explain it to him. Ask you Mom if you can give him at least ***ONE*** phone call, so he doesn't think that you aren't interested in him anymore. Be patient, and things will work out.
2007-08-19 02:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything wrong.... everyone has probably been in that situation. I know I have. does he know you are grounded? if he does then he will understand. just don't go out and get yourself in even more trouble. stay at home, help your mom, don't argue, just face your sentence and everything will end up ok.
2007-08-19 02:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by yafathomiejt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you let him keep you out that late if you knew it would worry your mom? The whole thing was your fault anyway. If he purposely did that then you should be pissed off at him for getting your grounded =/
2007-08-19 03:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Istis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your bf was not being responsible by taking you way past curfew. He should take the responsibility and you shouldn't waste your effort to contact him while you're grounded.
And you should also be more sensible considering your mom's condition.
2007-08-19 02:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that sucks but ur not doing anything wrong besides if u go and see him and ur mom finds out she will think he's bad for u and then not let u see him at all so just stick it out and see him when u can
2007-08-19 02:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ak 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your only 17 years old, relatioships like yours still requires a lot of development. I think that you should go in the process of maturity first.
2007-08-19 02:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Light 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, you're not doing anything wrong. If you can't, then you can't. Don't worry about it. Have patience and just explain to him what happened when you're able to talk with him next.
2007-08-19 02:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by the Boss 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋