do i miss my ex gf or love my ex gf? move on? or work things out?

Question

been 3 years with my first love, i needed a bit of a break with her and be with my dad so i went oversea to study and i made new friends and got preoccupied with my time study/go places. She felt that I was ignoring her by not calling her everyday or messaging her. I always try to find time to talk to her. she checks my emails and found out that I been taking pictures of girls and sending it to them. heck i never wrote anything in those emails. My exgf cried and feels that i am cheating. i hate to give her hard time. and we constantly fight on the phone till i had it and got upset because i'll never see us working out or have a future and said that we need to breakup. after 2 weeks into a breakup, i fell in love with one of the girls i been hanging out with. after 2 months of my ex gf crying i realize i made love to a rebound girl. She's a good girl, but dont know when in the future will we ever meet. I made a big mistake, but still afraid i have problems with my exgf if i go bak

Answer 1

If you honestly loved her, I think you wouldnt have been tempted with other girls, taking pictures, etc.

I am sure her being over jealous was a hard thing to take, but she did have a valid concern.

It is hard having a long distance relationship.
If you love her you will know it for certain. There will be no doubt.. And you have doubt..
So let her go......

`faith

Answer 2

Give yourself some time. Breakups are difficult because of the fact that you see everything in such a small time span - think about yourself 6 months from now and I guarantee you won't have the same feelings you have right now. Especially if you've find another girl. Hope that helps!

Answer 3

Probably will have problems with your exgf if you go back. If I was you I would just move on.