OK my boyfriend is 19 n i'm 20 and were having twins and we just broke up, so everytime we argue his like **** u and don't ever call me again and i dont wanna c the kids, then he'll call back and be like i was just mad, and he's always saying i start all the arguments but we both think its the other. First of all this doesnt matter but just for a little history of our lives i am an african american female, he is from somalia/yemen, his mom is somalian, his uncle's wife is white(25yrs). so now that i filled u guys in his mom says that all black girls are ghetto n they either fake being pregnant/ they do it on purpose, so his mom says that i am a faker/ liar about everything i've tried everything to prove myself n they think i got other ppl pic (his mom lives in canada we live in ohio) his uncle met me and doesnt like me for no reason and my b/f goes n tells his uncles wife our business n she said doesnt like black girls am i wrong for not gonna let his family c the babies? they hate me!
2007-08-18 19:14:03 · 2 answers · asked by madame_ohio_state87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you currently with your boyfriend now? Oh I seen where you said you just broke up.....
If you both can work things out then do what you need to to make it work out (between the two of you).
If not then you need to move on, have the babies and do everything you can to provide for the babies.
As far as his family, that is a tough one..
I have a grandson and my son has custody so I see him (grandson) more than his own mother, whom I do not particularly like. But we get along when we are around each other.
Your Children should not be deprived from knowing their grandparents. Or other family members. If you think that they are unsafe around them, then keep them away from the babies.
Since the babies are not born yet, you have time to think about the situation and make decisions as they come up.
It doesn't seem like his family will be around that often... Which is probably for the best..
Who knows after the babies are born, they may change their attitude.
Do what you feel is right, listen to your gut instinct...
`faith
2007-08-18 21:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about anyone...just worry about yourself..people thinks what they want..his family dont have to like you..and dont listen to they insults..live your life and stay away from them
2007-08-19 02:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋