help i'm 19 and married and my husband and i have 3 kids (2 girls 1 boy)?

Question

and i've been cheating on him since the day we met. i've had sex with over 50 different men. i don't think he's the father of my children and he has no idea! what should i do? should i go on maury???

Answer 1

Maury's a good idea. He'll do your paternity tests for free, and then you don't need to tell him yourself.

Answer 2

No, you should not go on Maury! How would you like it if your husband dropped that bomb on you on television? If you've slept with 50 men, he probably has some idea anyway. You owe him an honest explanation - emphasis on honest. Get tests to prove if he is the father of any of your children - you owe that to your children. How would you like it if you didn't know who your real father was?! You can either grow up and make your marriage work (if he'll even want you anymore) or you can do him a favour and leave him.

Answer 3

sure let Maury pay for all 50 DNA tests and let the whole country see u go on there 30+ times with 3-4 guys at a time and here the guys in the back callin u a ho, slut, ***** and anything else, oh yea i forgot u slept with half of the city or u slept with his homeboy or cousin or brother or somebody he knows.for u to run off the stage cryin and fallin on the floor like most of the girls do on there when u here those lovely words he loves to say "u r NOT the father". Dont u just love that show. such a waste of quality tv time.

Answer 4

How can you be so selfish and mean to this poor man. Obiviously you don't love him and you really need counciling. You are saying you don't know if he is even the father of your children? So not only are you commiting adultery you are putting his health and life in risk by having unprotected sex. You really do need therapy. I can't believe you would want to disgrace yourself no to mention your children and your poor husband by going on a tv show that is only watched by unemployed people, housewives and white trash.

Answer 5

Why did you marry him in the first place. It's obvious that you don't love him. Yes please go on maury's show, your husband needs to know that way he can have a chance to be happy with someone else.

Answer 6

that would be awesome....i mean, sure if you think it is the right thing to do. But seriously, I was never a big fan of those shows. What I don't get is why don't you just go to a doctor and get it done there rather than embarrassing yourself in front of the world. Well, the U.S. But it's up to you...what ever is right

Answer 7

HECK YES go on maury. I'd love to see that and he'd help resolve things to where they may not go down violently and everything is heard. Do you want t be with him?

Answer 8

The question you should be asking yourself is...Do you want everyone to judge you? Lots of people watch that show. I know where I live the courts pay for the tests, and you would not go through the embarrassment and humiliation of people making fun of you and calling you names. Unless you are just looking for your 15 min of fame.

Answer 9

Sick!!! Go on Maury!! Get a real life. Marriage is sacred it is people like you that give marriage a bad name.

Answer 10

you need to get it together! if you don't care enough about him, or your own health, think about your kids. would you want your daughters sleeping around with that many guys, or your son to be raising three kids that he has no idea aren't even his? i should think if you have any maternal feelings at all, the answer to both would be NO. Get your life straightened out before you ruin the lives of five people (if not more)