Family & Relationships - 18 August 2007

I'm 13 and i live with my mom. She is a single mother. We have never gotten to this point b4. Our internet is getting turned off soon and im scared we might lose our apartment, but i dont know yet. We're also running low on food...can any1 help me!

2007-08-18 17:08:33 · 3 answers · asked by dont_judge_me_001 3 in Family

develop skills of not letting people abuse you, manipulate you and take advantage of you? and to spot the early signs?

2007-08-18 17:07:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy is content and happy in his relationship, says he loves his girlfriend.... would he be contacting woman on a personal's website???

He has made the statement that "with circumstances in his life that he is content with his surroundings", which none of us really understood what that was supposed to mean.

Guys... explain to us girls what exactly he might have meant and would you be doing that if you were content and happy with the girl you were with???

Thanks

2007-08-18 17:06:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Husband is overseas, I'm having such a difficult time emotionally, mentally, and physically. This is positively the hardest thing I have ever had to do, other than give birth...cuz let me tell ya, that was a real *****!! Does anybody have any suggestion on how to make the time go bye any faster, and on tips how to be a "single" mom?

2007-08-18 17:01:54 · 3 answers · asked by ArmyWife616 1 in Family

Well some girls just called me pretending to be a modeling agency and it was so stupid but they restricted the number and I really want to get them back. Is there a way to find out who it was?

2007-08-18 17:01:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been fighting alot lately because of money (not enough of it) we have been living together for about a month and a half. we have a 11 month old son already. I dont work b/c i stay home and take care of him. Now my fiancee says im lazy b/c i dont work and help him out money wise. and now he is telling me that he is unattracted to me bc im an under achiever and he doesnt like it. and also he says he is not happy with me anymore he thought us lving together would change everything but it just made things worse. he hates that i ? him so much and he hates it. isnt the first few months of a couple living together hard. he says that he needs to distant himself from me so he can think about what he wants in life, but i can still live here but its going to be different. i dont know what to do b/c i fought with my parents for so long just i can be with this guy and now he doesnt want me? i dk what to do, i cant raise this other baby on my own one is hard enough to deal with

2007-08-18 16:58:08 · 16 answers · asked by enchanted_dreamer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really stuck here. I have a friend getting married next week. She already has a house and daughter with her fiance so doesn't need household items. However, in the wedding invitation it actually states, "our house is near complete, so gifts of money would be neat!" I think personally this is rather tacky to write in an invitation do you agree? Also, she and I are somewhat close but I don't feel obligated to get her something expensive. A. I don't have the money to just give her some and or buy something expensive for the wedding. B. I never received so much as a thank-you note and my fiance and I were ignored at her daughter's first birthday party. And C. she didn't give me a babyshower gift, or a gift when my daughter was born, and gave her hand-me-downs to one of her fiance's friends she doesn't know that well when she knew I needed the clothes. I am not trying to be petty here, but I just don't feel I should have to go all out on her wedding gift when she hasn't even

2007-08-18 16:49:44 · 23 answers · asked by ekbaby83 4 in Weddings

ok i invited my friend over for tommorow at 1. But i didnt know my mom was taking me to the mall (maybe) to get new clothes. So i told my mom she can take me and my friend and my friend can help me. But she said no she will only take me. But she said we can go another time but i really wanna go tommorow!! So im thinking of calling my friend and telling her sumthin came up. What time should i call her? also what should i say? also am i being spoliled and selfish and rude? be honest! thx for answering!

2007-08-18 16:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am chucking a S#x party were I will put out a very large bowl out and every one puts there keys in it and when you pick out a random set of keys then that is the person you have sex with.
I am having these LARGE pillows ( kind of like a floor bed ) and have big drapes off the ceiling so it can give people privacy.
But the main idea is that people can just bang each other every were and there will be drinks served like martinis,beer, wine ect.
and will be snacks but in the shapes of D!cks and T!ts.( like sauseges and melons )
Do any of you have any othe ideas for what to do as well there??
like what s♥x stuff would be great ??
thanx XxX muah XxX

2007-08-18 16:48:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To make a long story short this guy that I have been speaking to for about 2 1/2 months no longer acts like he use to. He went from calling 3 times a day to not calling at all. He went from texting me all the time to once in a blue moon. And our spending time together have ceased tremedously. When he does call or text he acts as if nothing is wrong and that this type of behavior is normal. So my question is, is this behavior normal for some? What is your insight on the situation? because I am losing all interest quickly.

2007-08-18 16:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for some married men to help me out on this one..
We both work, I am the bread winner, mother of 2, self employed, he works 2 good jobs, we love each other, but I wear the pants, he hates it, wants to wear the pants, I want to let him, but certain 'beyond our control steps' need to happend first and we are not quite there. But in the meantime, what can I do to build him up???

2007-08-18 16:37:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know all families have problems, but what catergories a family as truly dsyfunctional?

When is being dsyfunctional different from being trashy? Can you be dsyfunctional, but still be good people?

Thoughts?

2007-08-18 16:24:29 · 20 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

on my birthday last week,
i thought we were going
back to school shopping for me.
only my mom and sisters
were focusing more on
shopping for themselves.
and so when my mom asked if i was bored,
i answered truthfully and said yes.
it got her in a bad mood and the rest
of the day was ruined and she
kept saying how ungrateful was.

but was that wrong of me?
i mean, it was my birthday
and nobody was treating me
any differently... =/

2007-08-18 16:22:49 · 43 answers · asked by JoshR 2 in Family

my little cousin who i love with my life. we live miles apart and i recently seen him like 3 weeks ago and we had fun...then he cursed at me i told him not do it again then he curses me out and tells me to go back to where i came from with my gay ***. that 2 faced *****.. my brother is telling me to cut him off..should i do it.....that piece of ****....

2007-08-18 16:14:14 · 3 answers · asked by T.K T 1 in Family

It's Saturday, & I just got a certified letter notice from the post office. What could it be? I sent one once to someone I had to, but as far as I know, no one is mad at me, and I just can't think of anyone, or why someone would send it/ I hate the wait, are they always bad, could it be something else that is sent that way?

2007-08-18 16:03:02 · 2 answers · asked by bdearone 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for a little over six months, having sex with him for four months, and been friends with him for over 5 years. Though during a good four and a half years, that friendship has been strictly online and in school and such, so my parents havn't had a huge chance to see what he's about.
We love each other to death, which I know sounds ridiculous considering how we're both just sixteen.
But yes, because of my two older sisters, she knows for sure that the oldest out of us [22] is having sex, and thinks that my other older sister [18] is, too [which is true]. My mother doesn't bash my oldest sister because of it, but still...
I always have my parents drop me off at his house when they know that his mother's at work, and that doesn't bother them even though they know that his mother doesn't like anyone in the house when she's not there [as you can assume, that's when we have sex].
I know it's considered 'bad' by society to do 'it' at such a young age, but...

2007-08-18 15:57:12 · 23 answers · asked by Licorice 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-18 15:47:16 · 11 answers · asked by Black Beauty™ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi,I was in love for 3 years with my classmate during graduation & now i'm working. I believed the bonding was soooo gr8 though we had fights and all. We even had sex a dozen times and she always told that she consented for that bcos she was committed to me. I had made mistakes by being possessive & all and she broke up with me telling my friends that she was suffocated all this long. I tried in everyway i could to apologize for my mistakes and asked for one last chance. she behaved rudely whenever i asked sorry. She left me, leaving back lots of proofs that an annoyed ex-boyfriend can use to spoil her future. But she behaves like she totally trusts me. Didn't even ask them back. It's now about half an year since the breakup. Should i move on and find another girl? should i wait for her? How long? She means world to me. What if she comes back at a later time, realizing my sincerety? I heard that If a girl is gone, she's gone for ever? Does any body have a different experience? Plz help

2007-08-18 15:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by techyhere 2 in Singles & Dating

All guys seem to run in the opposite direction before even getting to know me when they find out that I want to wait for marriage. I feel bad if I don't tell guys up front, I don't want to be a tease. What do I do?

2007-08-18 15:37:13 · 17 answers · asked by missladylyn16 1 in Singles & Dating

okay I'm not a lesbian or at least i think i'm not but this girl dared me to kiss this girl at a party and i did and for some odd reason i liked it and i feel like i'm falling in love with her I feel weird now cuz i have a bf i don't know whats going on with me please help me

2007-08-18 15:29:38 · 44 answers · asked by Kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

If anyone has done this how was it after the deal with your spouse and friend? Wierd or ok?? We have been married for 11 years and are very open minded and our friend is a life long friend. We just dont want any problems after the thing YA Know!

2007-08-18 15:24:02 · 18 answers · asked by parents of 2 girls 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Right now I got like a short haircut like Keanu Reeves in Speed, but before yesterday, I had it kinda froish and a little bit long. So should I stick with the short hairstyle or the longer afroish hairstyle...thanks for the input

2007-08-18 15:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by I get buckets 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16. My family was very disfunctional about a year and a half ago. My dad would hit me. Always arguments and I felt stupid all the time. I eventually tried to commit suicide. I had a friend who was a little bit older than me that I talked to about everything that happened and she called cps. The cps woman came to my school and asked me lots of questions. I denied all of it. My friend has hated me ever since. My family was still very disfunctional. I have had to go to counseling and the only thing that has helped is my dad getting a new job. I regret every day the decision I made in lying to the cps woman but my other choice would have been to break up my family. Was I wrong or right?

2007-08-18 15:20:51 · 21 answers · asked by ash.wri 3 in Family

My boyfriend and I got into a pretty nasty fight tonight. I really need some input from someone who knows him. I met his cousin a few months ago and she and I hit it off very well. I would like to ask her opinion. I would never want her to take sides, but since she is the only one I can ask who knows him also. Do you think it is wrong?

2007-08-18 15:16:43 · 6 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the ultimate in foreplay a man can do for a woman? I am curious to hear from others what they prefer or know their partners enjoyed the most and was most excited by

2007-08-18 15:15:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sensual G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend, but am attracted to another guy who I'm also pretty sure is attracted to me. I really have a crush on this guy and think about him a lot, but I love being with my boyfriend and would never cheat on him, but you can't help but find other people attractive sometimes.

So my question is, do you think it's wrong for to let this other guy know I find him attractive? I don't want to actually say it to him, but for some reason I don't want him to think I don't like him. Is this a bad idea considering he is also attracted to me? He knows I'm in a relationship but, I don't know if it would make him feel better or worse to know I do find him attractive. My boyfriend knows I have a crush on him, so it's not really a big secret, but he's not the type to get really upset by something like that. What do you think?

2007-08-18 15:12:48 · 4 answers · asked by melissa 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 15:07:07 · 3 answers · asked by peghill55 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 15:04:36 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

My brother is one year older than me. He has extreme anger issues( and is very strong) and he cares way more about his friends than he does about his own family. My family has given my brother everything: unconditional love, support. But my brother just fails college, gets into crazy debt and breaks things in the house(due to anger). I tell my mother and father to tell him to get out of the house but they worry that he will ruin himself even more. My happy family is being broken because of my brother, sometimes i feel like taking a rod and breaking his arms and legs, so he can just sit home.

What can we do about him? My family's peace is more important to me than anything.

2007-08-18 15:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Carbon41 2 in Family

my friend wants your response

2007-08-18 14:55:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating