To make a long story short this guy that I have been speaking to for about 2 1/2 months no longer acts like he use to. He went from calling 3 times a day to not calling at all. He went from texting me all the time to once in a blue moon. And our spending time together have ceased tremedously. When he does call or text he acts as if nothing is wrong and that this type of behavior is normal. So my question is, is this behavior normal for some? What is your insight on the situation? because I am losing all interest quickly.
2007-08-18 16:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That you have ask him whats going on these are two things i can say only either he got what he wanted,or found someone new,or he got worries ask him to tell you i and no one else can really help you
2007-08-26 15:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say I think for many guys that is normal behavior. I have had a similar situation where a guy acted in a similar way. I didn't hear from him for quite awhile and then he called and seemed freaked out because we hadn't talked to or seen each other in a long time and he never knew where I was anymore and he was so glad he was talking to me.
He called me another time and acted like things were like before and said he is super busy so he doesn't have much time to call so if he's going to call it's going to be someone that he cares about - like me. What he means by all of this I don't know. So yeah, sounds like something alot of guys do. Not sure why though and my friend told me she thinks most guys couldn't tell you why they do 90 % of the things they do. So I think either ask him what's going on or if you're not that interested just don't worry about it and don't always answer when he finally does call. Good luck.
2007-08-18 17:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me twice! (2 years apart though). Both guys I spoke to were really shy, so we would talk as much possible, but we would simply grin at each other at school. Both lasted about half a year, but none of all wanted to bring the relationship any further... we just grew apart. =/ I felt like I could trust them anything... but I guess they were just phases... this might be your case. I suggest you ask him straight on. Questions like these:
-Do you like me?
-How far is this going to go?
-What am I, to you?
It's up to his reaction, and your decision from there. Good luck.
2007-08-26 13:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by majestic tripe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's losing interest. Move on. Don't waste your time. Get the hint.
2007-08-26 15:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Miss YSL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get rid of him, i mean if he is doing this already what do you think it's gonna be like in anouther month?
2007-08-26 14:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep would have lost interest long time ago and i think you would just do and leave and find sometone else.
2007-08-26 12:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your relationship was never defined properly, probably because he lost interest.
2007-08-18 16:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gruntled Employee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋