okay I'm not a lesbian or at least i think i'm not but this girl dared me to kiss this girl at a party and i did and for some odd reason i liked it and i feel like i'm falling in love with her I feel weird now cuz i have a bf i don't know whats going on with me please help me
2007-08-18 15:29:38 · 44 answers · asked by Kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
right on
2007-08-18 15:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well ask yourself ths quwstion would you rather be with your borfriend or the girl. Whoever you choose is your choice. But a lot of girls like getting a little crazy and kissing other girls. Thats what I have heard and seen so just see how you feel . If you feel stonger feelings toward the girl rather than your boyfriend, well I htink your a lesbian. But everyone is unique dont let that bring you down in life.
2007-08-18 15:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by sinc3r3grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well most of these people who have answered don't know what to say that's why they say stupid immature things... They just don't understand. But i do, I went through it in high school. I thought I was Bi and everything, all because I kissed a girl. It's a natural feeling to "like" it because it's something new for you. you are intrigued. I wouldn't worry about it, just hang out with your boyfriend. Do things to get your mind off of her. Or you could give it a go and see what you think. really there is no way to make the "feelings" go away. Good luck love. (have any questions about it or need to talk, email me)
2007-08-18 15:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off don't worry, this doesn't mean you're a lesbian. And it's okay to fall in love with another girl. Sexuality is a spectrum, barely anyone is 100% straight or 100% homosexual.
Take a look at the kinsey scale:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_Scale
And don't listen to the haters!!
2007-08-19 08:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by myrtle s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm maybe you're feeling mixed emotions right now. I mean you should try to get to know the girl. See if you like her as a friend you know. I mean you can't decide you love someone just because you've kissed them once. My advice is you try talking to her ask her if she felt the same way you did. I don't think this is worth losing your BF for.
2007-08-18 15:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Stephi♡ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound young, so your body is going through changes and that leads to experimentation. If you are a lesbian or not,is up to you.I think you need to just take time and think what means more important to you, the guy or the girl. I hope I helped in some way, good luck.
2007-08-18 15:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Topher 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's OK to be curious.. really.. you are not weird. Women give out more affection and emotions then men. So you'll feel more connected to a women's kiss then a man's at first. But it can be just a stage. I would say all women go through it..but "all" but be stretching it. But I'm sure you in love...but just enjoyed it.
2007-08-18 15:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Asia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kissing, no matter who (unless its family) gets lots of people confused about their sexual orientation. you're horomones get all zinged up when you kiss. You have to know this or you will start thinking things that just don't make sense for people to think. You do not have a crush on her, it was just that rush of adrenaline you get doing something you were afraid to do (and rightly afraid indeed) Go on with your boyfriend and forget it all happened is the best thing to do to get on with your life and live like a normal person.
2007-08-18 15:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
k its ok to find another chic atractive. if u liked the kiss from the girl then maybe u should stick wit her. if u like ur bf and the chic u should consider urself bi. or if u like the guy kiss better ur straight. and im sure u know this but follow ur heart. if the gurl likes u give it a shot.
2007-08-18 15:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't worry about it if you have a boyfriend. but if you find that you cant stop thinking about her maybe you should just go with the flow. im not promoting lesbianism or whatever you want to call it., im just saying that maybe its something that you want to experience for a while without knowing that you want to. sometimes your emotions do weird things and its best not to fight emotions because that will cause secondary conflicting emotions and youll end up an emotional mess. so its up to you to decide.
2007-08-18 15:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by Neal S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u just liked the adventure, risk, and daring feeling of kissing this woman. Maybe u need to find the same thing in a guy. Make every kiss with a guy feel that great.
2007-08-18 15:33:56 · answer #11 · answered by randomwoman56413 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋