He yells at me and says everything is my fault. everything i do. i love him with all my heart but something has to change i cant keep doing this. we got married 2 months ago and he had been like that before but it got better but that has changed now. he still wont have sex with me i have tried to talk to him about it but he just gets mad.
2007-08-18 11:54:07 · 13 answers · asked by lonley in ky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think it is time for some marriage counseling... Your hubby needs to learn some different skills to dealing with things. Wear something sexy to bed if he still wont well, you better think about doing something different....
2007-08-18 11:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a CHEATER to me! I'd hire a private investigator to check him out. You are too early into your marriage to be having these types of problems. You have not even reached your 7-YEAR Itch. If things continue this way, I guarantee a divorce. Sorry, but I'm just being realistic with you. FIND OUT WHY HE IS SO ANGRY!!!! MAYBE IT IS NOT EVEN YOU, but since you are there...YOU PAY THE PRICE. Don't take the abuse!!! If he is gonna mistreat you...why did he even bother getting married to you? FIND OUT THE REASON OF HIS ANGER, please. You guys should still be in your honeymoon stage, your story sound weird and smells FISHY!!!! Hire a private investigator, for real! Don't waste precious time! There are plenty of wonderful men out there that will give you ther respect and LOVE that you deserve. Screw THAT bitter Mother! GIVE HIM A TASTE OF HIS OWN LITTLE MEDICINE!
2007-08-18 12:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound so sad. Is two months of this worth trying to hold on to the marriage? I have to say, it doesn't sound like he is trying to make it work, and as I'm sure you know, all relationships take both parties to nurture it and keep it alive. He has anger issues apparently. You can try to find out why he feels like this and see if it is worth salvaging, or you can chalk it up to one of life's bad coices and move on. It won't be easy no matter which way you go. I wish you the best.
2007-08-18 12:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he married you because he had to? After 2 months you should still be on your honeymoon. Might be better to get it annulled. If he was like this before, and you knew why did you marry him? It will only get worse.
2007-08-18 12:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by dear_vern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really hard to answer having only heard on side of the story.
people don't tend to change without reason. maybe you should have communicated more. before you got married.
2007-08-18 12:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he feels traped why did you guys get married if things were like that? I'd hate to say it but it sounds like things are either doomed to get abusive (they already are mentaly and emotionaly) or just to be over with ...this might not be a bad idea anyway you deserve a man that will treat you right
2007-08-18 12:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he was like this before you got married why did you marry him?
2007-08-18 13:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you have more than just yelling at you.......... there is something very wrong here.......... ask him to go to counseling with you ........ if he wont go, then you go....... and it might be that your marriage will end.......but you need to at least try to make it work....... if you cant , then get out, get on with your life.........
2007-08-18 12:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The two of you need some help, now go see someone.
2007-08-18 12:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANNUL NOW!!!
If everything is your fault now, it will be always. Leopards don't change their spots.
2007-08-18 12:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Brandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋