Recently I found out my boyfriend's email password and saw that he was a member to a sexsearch.com site, where adult personals are posted, video chats go on, etc. I am furious but know that I am not alone. Don't know what to do about it. Need help.
2007-08-18 12:38:42 · 26 answers · asked by some girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump him, move on, and don't look back. There are thousands of men who DON"T behave in that way. Find one who respects you.
2007-08-18 12:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by ddd 874 587 545 543 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's looking. Many guys (and women) find their cheating partners ONLINE, and since it's a personals site, not some random chatroom or forum, he's in the market! Dump him. He's already TRYING to cheat on you (if he hasn't already)! Why wait for the next step?
Go to this site: www.PCPandora.com, for some eye-opening info, and an inexpensive monitor you can install on your computer (only worth it if you were married and want to use it in court, during a divorce, or if you, for some bizarre reason, want to keep him!).
BTW...sorry to hear about this...that behavior really stinks!
2007-08-18 12:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really depends when he joined the site. Did he join before you started going out with him? Then it may be okay. If he is accessing it when he is in a relationship with you then you need to dump his cheating a.ss! Unless you both are into swinging and group encounters? There is absolutly no reason for him to be spending time on those sites then!
2007-08-18 12:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick him to the curb. Consider yourself lucky that you found out about this before you got married to him or made a baby with him. Think about this too ... this is just the one thing you found out about. What else has he been doing behind your back and lying to you about? You deserve much better than this. Don't wait for him to give you some disease. Even being without a boyfriend is better than being with a loser.
2007-08-18 12:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sign up to the same site and then make an approach via the site, If he doesn't respond, then he was just being curious, and no harm done.
If he responds to your approach, arrange to meet him, take a load of friends with you and expose him for the pervert that he really is.
2007-08-18 12:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by dawleymouse 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well reguardless on how you feel on the situation maybe that's something that he is interested and didn't really want you to know.Do you even trust him>? obviously not and if there's no trust then you shouldn't be with him, curiosity killed the cat and girl you are on the way.Hope you found what you were looking for b/c your relationship is never going to be the same. If you tell him then he knows you snooped if you don't tell him you always will want to.Be careful snoopin you might not like the answer.
2007-08-18 13:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Little Mama 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to him about it let him know you know ask him to stop tell him if he dose not stop you will leave him for good you cant take him doing that and ask him why he is doing that is it because your not enough if not he should tell you so you can try and do more and new things to get you to be all he needs to were he wont need to look at sex stuff online good luck.
2007-08-18 13:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by betty m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mention it to him, he'll turn it into a lack of trust issue and blame you for snooping around, it's normal for men to look at porn(we're a simple, pathetic species!) It's no reflection on the way he feels about you
2007-08-18 13:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by gimba69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it effecting your relationship if not and you really love him I wouldnt be really mad as long as he's keeping me happy and plus snooping you will always find things you really don't want to know
2007-08-22 11:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it then dump his ***.
You dont need a man whose trawling sleazy sites trying to hook up.
2007-08-18 12:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Te 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋