i'm a sr., and ever since we started school back i've been havin this feelin like i'm goin to lose my boyfriend, i love him sooooo much!!!!!!!, we don't have any classes together but we do have lunch together and even then he doesn't tlk to me that much, and the past couple of days when i called him all he can tlk about is what he and his friends did that day, and/ or what they are goin to do, and bein sort of a smart a**
please help
2007-08-18 12:10:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out on a date. Make sure its private and romantic, ask him deep deep questions and go from there.
2007-08-18 12:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax a little bit; that's all boys talk about everyday. Here's a small secret: academically boys are probably as smart as you in general, but emotionally men will ALWAYS be behind women their own age to some degree for life. So, don't read too much into this or make a big thing out of it because he's not going to understand the question anyway.
2007-08-18 19:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should confront him about the way you're feeling. The way he's acting doesnt necessarily mean that he wants to break up, or that your relationship is over.
Maybe he needs some guy time. Maybe he's just really excited about other things, and isn't thinking too much about how you feel.
The only other person who can explain this for you is your boyfriend. <3 Good luck.
2007-08-18 19:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you need to do is listen,if you use to hang out with him and his friends in the past and you saw what they did and then now you are in different classes and you only meet at lunch,then he would want to tell you what they are going to do.and you should ask to do something together soon and you should ask to talk about something different sometimes.but you never no,you might have to break up with him if you think this is a little to much.
2007-08-18 19:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nairobi Y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DONT break up with him!
Talk to him first - go on a date, or walk in the park or something - spend more time together, get to know him EVEN better - maybe it's just a little phase or whatever, u know?
2007-08-18 19:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm, he is being cocky and immature.
Obviously something is bothering him if he is being sorta "smart" - dont you hate that.
Try giving him some space - in sense of not calling and texting if you do so much. When he does, talk to him about your girlfriends and you, and what you got planned for weekend. See what his response is like.
If you dont want to play immature games - be upfront, and ask him why and where is this sudden change of "behaviour" in the relationship coming from.
good luck
2007-08-18 19:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kendi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relationship is all about communication and if you think there is a problem then talk to him about it. if you love him and the relationship then you want to fix the problem not just hope all will work out.
2007-08-18 19:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he wants to have freedom his last year in highschool, i know a few dudes get like this feeling they should party hard there last year.
2007-08-18 19:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Blake 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's about to break up with you so dump him first. He'll never see it coming.
2007-08-18 19:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by NCW 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What is it you talk about to him..... Start at his subjects but smartly get him into yours.
2007-08-18 19:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋