If your boyfriend or girlfriend or someone you liked said one of your friends are hot or some random person they never met was hot. How much would you get mad?
Because when I went on dates with this girl (we were friends at the time) she always talked about how hot a guy was and man it drove me crazy. I almost was going to tell her that there was a girl over there that was hot. I realize though two wrongs don't make a right. Still I got mad because I liked her at the time and I was wondering if everyone or a lot of people feel this way?
PS- Yeah I'll admit that I'm jealous at times.
2007-08-18 18:38:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good going man, being the mature one is the way to go "two wrongs don't make a right". I am not the jealous type at all but i can see where you are coming from. Like why doesn't she say those things about me or why doesn't she just not say those things why is she doing this to me? Honestly she most likely knows she is doing it and that is exactly why she is doing it. She is trying to make you jealous to create more of a attraction. 80% of the population feels jealousy more than once a day so it is normal. Keep doing what you are doing you are on the right track, id suggest looking into "talking things out" its another one of those things that comes with age and you will find it great in a relationship! Good Luck!
2007-08-18 18:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Most definitely. I know how you feel because this is exactly how the girl I like treats me. She doesn't have a boyfriend and says she doesn't want one at the moment, but does she have to say those things in front of me? I mean, she is not the only pretty girl that I like, but I don't rant about how hot the other girls are when she is present. I respect girls to not do that to them. She on the other hand, probably doesn't respect me. I don't know if she likes me too, but sometimes she shows signs that she might so it's really confusing. I just hate it when girls do that and I think most are aware of what they're saying and are getting a kick out of making us guys miserable.
2007-08-19 01:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Version_Best 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah my kids father would say stupid things like that, but i was younger then, and im older now. At the time i didint know but he didnt want me.It hurt alot but after a while i was gettin tired of him so i had 2 let him go. And whoa he wasnt expecting that, because he thought that he had me and i wasnt going anywhere. You know if amazes me how people think that they can treat u any kinda way and expect for youy to take thier bull crap. So he had to do and say immature things like that to show me becasue he was a coward, i say stop calling her, kick her *** to the curb, i eventually got with someone who has never in our 6yrs insulted me in taht way, thanks for the trip back down memory lane, because you just reminded how great my man is!!!! I wish u well but some sweet girl of your dreams will one day make her look like dirt. You deserve the whole package. Good luck
2007-08-19 01:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by tuttifruity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I totally understand where you are coming from, if we are out and I notice him checking out someone "hot" or say someone is hot, it bothers me-because yes I am the jealous type too, but I just have to remember that he is with me for a reason and loves me. But don't worry have been there and you are totally normal, you just have to try and brush it off....
2007-08-19 05:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I have never been jealous. My husband and I have been together (dating included for 13 years, since I was 18) and even now if he does look I don't care. Sometimes I will even point out the girl, or comment "Damn!!" If she has huge boobs or if she is very hot. I will also point out good looking guys if I see them and he will shrug or agree.
So no, some girls get all uppity over nothing.
2007-08-19 01:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Aimee B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From what i can tell, some ladies like their men to get a little jealous. It supposedly shows they care or somthing. That would probably make me a bit jealous but i wouldnt do anything crazy. I might say somthin silly like "thats cool, he aint really my type tho" lol
2007-08-19 01:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na your just being normal. If you girl keeps going on and on about it its only natural you got a little jealous but you showed restraint and maturity which is always good
2007-08-19 01:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i know how you feel when my boyfriend would talk about his other girlfriends and what he did with them.. and how hot some girls were.. it kinda really pissed me off... and i was really jealous :S i felt so bad , even guys that i like that talk about other girls.. i get soo soo jealous! i know i sound immature and selfish.. but i just cant help it lol it really sucks..
2007-08-19 01:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitly! Don't worry, your normal!! lol
2007-08-19 01:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by tina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋