Is kissing cheating?

Question

and i don't mean simple kisses, or kisses between friends. for example my friends girlfriend got drunk at a club and ended up making out with another guy and someone took photos of it and he considered it cheating (well it did look like she was trying to swallow his face).
Adult responses please do think it its cheating and when do you think it crosses over that line

Answer 1

Couples set up boundries for their own unique relationships. When one of those boundries is crossed, it's cheating. Be safe, know your boundries.

Answer 2

Yes, it's cheating. It's cheating even though she was under the influence, which needs to be taken into account. However, why did she put herself in the position to be that drunk and where was your friend? Or any of her friends to stop her from doing what she did? You may never find answers, but if this is how your friend's girlfriend chooses to behave (I don't know if this is a one-time thing or this occurs often), then perhaps it's time to re-evaulate the relationship. No matter what happens, talking things out and accepting each others' faults as well as the limits of tolerance and trust, is the most important thing. Without trust, love is nothing. So just tell your friend to talk it out with his girlfriend. Good luck.

Answer 3

Here's what I know...if someone shows me pics of my boyfriend kissing on some girl while he's out drinking with his friends, some body's house is gonna get burnt down by the end of the night. It's cheating' alright. If he did that to her it would be world war *whatever number we are up to now* and she knows it!
If they can work it out.. well, whatever right.. that's them. But, although i exaggerated about burning down a cheating boyfriend's house, i still consider kissing someone who's not your partner (so much that others describe it as 'making out and swallowing face') to be total and irrefutable cheating.
Unless it's me that gets caught.. .then it was definitely the alcohol's fault. :P

Answer 4

Yes kissing is cheating. Even having a conversation with someone else on the phone of the opposite sex would be cheating. Flirting is also cheating. Dating or being married means you are in a committed relationship.

Answer 5

it is more than cheating,it shows her lack of discipline,how she doesn't value your relationship,when you guys kiss you think its something special you are connecting in some magic way,and she is sharing your magic around who knows how many guys she does that with that you don't know about,if she is not contracting diseases from them,you know they might have cuts,sores which transmits std and because she is drunk at the time she doesn't see them,maybe she does more than kiss when you are not there. If she behaves that way after drinking talk to her she shouldn't drink she is putting you and herself in danger. She is not loyal to you and your relationship,if you were caught kissing a girl she would be going crazy right about now or have left by now. Talk to her if she doesn't stop let her go you don't deserve that kind of treatment

Answer 6

I consider that a little cheating except she was drunk but still she should have known better. But its not much of a big deal since its not like shes gonna go see him again and then get further with him.

Answer 7

if it was cheating it would not be called "MAKING OUT", it's not cheating, cheating is around the time when everybody's getting ready to get naked and get it on. that's cheating, but making out is not cheating, what you are refering to would be called drunken passion kissing, she might not even remember doing it, ya know?

anyway, it's not cheating, dont worry, they can't do squat to you, and you can forgive her, she was heavily plastered and made out with some guy, beer tends to amplify the stupidity gene and how you look at afection. just tell her "hunny, WAY less beer, ok? the moment you even start to feel slightly drunk, no more. ok? i don't want you accidentally cheating on my over something as stupid as beer, ya know? cause i love you."

you are safe, as long as you try to prevent it from getting that wild again, she can still drink, just make it half as much or less ya know?

Answer 8

Kissing is considered cheating. Put yourself in the place of the boyfriend who found out his girlfriend was making out with some random friend that they met at a party, club, bar...etc...

Answer 9

Wow...its funny that you asked this question because this same situation has happened to me in the past. Do I believe it is cheating ....YEAH!!!! Do I think it is terrible...hmmm......she could have done a lot worse!!! I am a female and I forgave my X-BF but after 6 more months of dating all of my trust for him was just GONE. I was driving myself crazy wondering if he would do it again even though he promised me it was a bad drunken decision. Maybe she is not sure if she wants a relationship right now???...Why is she kissing guys in front of people that you know? Its almost like she is begging to be caught!!!! I can't give you the solution to this kissing thing but I understand what you are going through!!!! If she was truly sucking his face like you said I would leave her be and find another girl...OR make out with another girl in front of her....LOLOLOL..Thats how I got my revenge..I made out with another guy in a club right in front of my X's face 2 days after I broke up with him.......hahahaha
What goes around comes around!!!!!

Answer 10

The moment you make up in your heart that you want to do another girl or kiss another girl you have cheated. Love starts in the heart so once the heart cheats its done. So if it starts in the heart then to kiss another girl is a manifestation of your already cheat. yes kissing is cheating.

Answer 11

HELL YEA!! Would you want your girl kissing some guy?? I didn't so you know why because kissing leds to other things like sex! Kissing is cheating because your being sexual to someone other then your partner. The only thing that is sexual and isn't considered cheating is a hug,