how do u ask a girl out. i have never had a girlfriend and i want to ask this girl out but i dont no how to do it
2007-08-18 18:56:45 · 14 answers · asked by gibrojake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be up front and whatever you do don't try too hard because us girls can sense that a mile away and its a huge turn off.
2007-08-18 19:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by lisaescobar06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you're probaly being too conscious about yourself, thinking that there has to be a sure way of getting a Yes out of a girl. There's no real right way, except just be yourself and open up and ask it. Don't try to impress a girl cuz you're not being True to who you really are. Just follow your heart. She may be surprised you asked in the first place. Who knows, you might make her somewhat speechless....with a Yes in return. I know it's not easy but try. Just forget yourself and do it. Don't wonder & worry what her response might be. Think of it this way 'Speak now or hate yourself later for doing nothing in the first place.'
2007-08-18 19:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the secret is you dont think about it. the more you think about the consequences the more less likely you'll do it. the fact that you're asking people means you are worried and thats not a good sign. just dont think about anything and just do it. in the end, that's the only way and there's no perfect way of asking a girl out.
2007-08-18 19:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females are human beings too. Unlike certain insect species, they aren't likened to bite your head off should you fail to cultivate a relationship. They also speak english in this country, for the most part.
You can walk up to them, say "Hi, do you wanna go grab some ice cream sometime?"
If their response is yes, you just successfully asked a girl out.
If their response is no, then you just failed to successfully ask a girl out, but you STILL asked a girl out, so you succeeded in your ultimate quest to ask a girl out. It gets easier after that.
Don't worry about it.
Go get 'em, "tiger."
2007-08-18 19:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by Los Cabos SJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using a large blunt instrument, (A club or a bat should do the trick) Strike desired female about the back of the skull with sufficent force to cause unconcisousness but not so much as to cause permanent damage. Place body of said female over your shoulder and carry her home.
2007-08-18 19:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always go the romantic way by being a secret admirer and send her flower with a card asking her out it saves the awkwardness in doing it face to face
2007-08-18 19:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww man...just talk to her and bring it up like a normal conversation...dont sound shy or embarrassed...start off by sayin it as a joke and see how she responds...that way if she has no interest ull notice right away and wont actually ask her out
2007-08-18 19:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe kinda cute!
Euhm well it's very easy... Just ask her if she want to go to a movie sometime or something like that. Just keep it casual!
2007-08-18 19:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you ask her out!!!! duh!!! j/k
I am not sure if you are talking about like in middle school when you date someone or if you just want to go on a date. But i think you are talking about a girlfriend so... Just simply ask her out. like say... will you go out with me??? haha
2007-08-18 19:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by lilygirl110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww how cute just be straight up and say would u go out wiht me to the movie or dinner
2007-08-18 19:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋