Im married w/ 2 kids & have always dreamed of a best friend I could call my own. I transferred to too many schools and even country before so I never really retained good friendships. Plus, I focused so much on my bf that friends were sadly shunned away.
How do I go abt finding my alter ego? Or even if not one, at least a true honest person I can rely on when things are rough and for me to give the love and support I could offer. My previous friends said I'm kind and generous but sometimes, I get a lot of people insecured abt me and I dont know why. I am NOT a bf/hubby stealer...
I like to talk abt family life, kids, relationships, past break ups, exes, rant abt the traffic, the weather or rave abt this new purse on sale ... just a normal girlie platonic thing... How will I find her, almost all girls are taken or either belong to a circle of friendship so its hard.
Btw, I am of color living in United States and prejudice sometimes, unfortunately is rampant.
2007-08-18 18:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know you need to confide. There might be some with whom you can open up without making a mess of your married life.
The person must be trustworthy and must have a sympathetic ear with sound temperament. Can I be of some help to you?
2007-08-22 18:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it has been more difficult as an adult. Have you checked into joining a mom's group (if your kids are little) or a bible study for young adults? There is a nationwide mom's group called MOPS that is for mothers that have at least one child 5 yrs old and under. They get together twice a month (with child care and a structured activity for the moms) and its a great chance to meet other women in the same stages of life. Their website is www.mops.org if ya wanna check and see if there is a group near you.
2007-08-19 10:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by gripgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never to late honey be yourself & be proud of yourself ok things will come to you as soon as they can ok it take along time to find a female best friends ok hugs love you Ginger
2007-08-19 02:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will be ur bestfriend im me. look at my profile
2007-08-19 01:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by I can help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be ur friend. . .. I can use more of those myself
2007-08-19 01:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋