Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

2007-08-13 09:08:05 · 52 answers · asked by lovegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im leaving sept.2 and i havent gotten anything yet. i just dont know what i need or what to get. anything you can tell me will help

2007-08-13 09:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been seeing a guy at the gym for about 1 year. Realize that we have only seen each other maybe 15 times in the year b/c our workout days are not always the same. He glances at me sometimes and I do the same to him. I am very attracted to him. I am quite shy but have been bold enough to grin at him on one occasion. He walked past me once (went out of his way to do so) but did not make eye contact, I was on a workout machine. Is he shy or not interested? He doesnt talk to any girls at the gym....but he does check some out. He is not a macho hunk and he does not show off. He works out with a guy friend. Thanks for your help.

2007-08-13 09:00:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happened & How do you explain it?

2007-08-13 09:00:15 · 1 answers · asked by CoronaGirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

You're with a girl/guy, and you're not quite sure how you feel about them. You like them a lot, sure, but you wonder if theres someone better out there for you (and i don't mean just better looking, just someone more suited to you).. and so you cheat on them with a guy/girl you quite like. But this guy turns out not to be able to compare with the guy/girl you're with. Does cheating therefore make you appreciate the person you're with more?

2007-08-13 08:57:48 · 29 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4 in Singles & Dating

I am so unhappy. I am mexican and I married an american. Sometimes I think I made a so bad decistion to marry this guy. He drinks every single day, (he will drink 6-8 natural light can beers on weekdays) and 30 on weekends. He is very used to drink much, he doesnt fall like being drunk, but I see his behaviour changes. And that is the root of our problems, and I will get so angry at him that I want to hit him. Now I have been in mexico because my legal status, and I just found he has registered in a adult website to find somebody to "hockup". That makes me very angry. He blames me for our troubles of his drinking. What should I do?.. I am so hurted for everything. I just think if I had married other boy my life would be better. I am 27 years old and no childre. But I always believed I could build a happy marriage and family.

2007-08-13 08:54:58 · 16 answers · asked by dezgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Getting married soon - any advice?

2007-08-13 08:54:12 · 28 answers · asked by CoronaGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 08:53:46 · 37 answers · asked by babybro35 6 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married for a little over a year now, we have been receiving past due notices from collection agencys and credit card places. All of this debt he and his previous wife made together. They have been divorced for about 2 years now and i need to know if we can take me back to court for the cost of all these debts, they are in his name but we all made while they were married. I refuse to pay them, they were not mine and i did not know about them when we married but shortly after i did. He says he forgot about them. What do i do?

2007-08-13 08:52:59 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just found out that my best friend is going out with a girl i hate oh so much. should i be mad? i mean i got a life, a man, and everything i need but, i hate her since middle and we still have problems. we still fight when we see each other. should i be feeling the way i am right now?

2007-08-13 08:51:48 · 34 answers · asked by TrACeY T 2 in Singles & Dating

I found a text mess on my husbands cell phone he said that he let his friend borow it because he did not have a cell phone when i found the text i called the # to find out who it was and she did not answered but then she text back & said god night love I asked hem about it but he is keeping to his story what should my next step be he is always getting out of the room when he is on any phone call and he will not let me see his phone or carrie it. I order the cell phone history phone #'s but he still dosent tell me who's the phone # for

2007-08-13 08:51:45 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In a wife, in a potential mother?

I am not talking about "fooling around" I am talking about saving yourself for that special man. The guy you want to share your life with?

I know religion has a lot to do with ith it, however I am not "religious" I simply believe in God. I believe a Man is the head of household (as long as he provides).

I appreciate any comments.

2007-08-13 08:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were not happy in your marriage and you had an affair - did everything work out in the end? Did the new relationship last and were you happy? Did your spouse and kids eventually accept your decision and the other person? I guess the question is - was the grass greener?

2007-08-13 08:47:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I left my job 2 years ago and have slowly lost myself over time. I love my kids dearly, but my husband is pig headed and treates me like his maid, cook, secretary, and baby sitter and sometimes wh*re. We were in love once...please dont judge.

Im ready to leave him! if I am going to be with my kids 24/7 and not get to be my own person, better to not have an extra 2 year old to take care of and watch my loving husband become more and more of himself every day as I lose more and more of myself every day. I didnt marry him and have his children so he can be a kid again and have his mommy. He is so selfish!

Im sick of it, yes, Ive tried talking to him logically, nagging, crying, begging, etc. no matter how much I want to leave I know its not the best choice when you have 3 kids and made the commitment so that is out.

So, my question is, how do you make it work, what did you do to keep hold of who you are and any other advice??

2007-08-13 08:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by Lonely Turkey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i am tall, blonde, and athletic but i am only 15.
there is this guy that i see when i go to church, and he is 19.
i always thought he was pretty cute, but you know, it was just one of those passing glance things were you go 'oh they're hot' and move on with your life. lol.
recently though, i have begun to notice alot more stares comming from his end, stares from afar and quick glances if we are near. and at first i was like cool, but then it got to the point where it's just awkward.
i'm wondering, is this ok? should i try to get to know him anyway, or should i kinda casually stay away?

2007-08-13 08:43:19 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 08:43:15 · 29 answers · asked by Thundercat 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 08:43:03 · 29 answers · asked by gingerspice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 08:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by tlch18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 08:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by gingerspice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a young girl before I ever left him. What can I do now to get proof of that, that would be acceptable in court, as it is too late for pictures. I think it will help me tremendously in my divorce. Any ideas please?

2007-08-13 08:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ann Marie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 08:38:31 · 15 answers · asked by mashilla a 1 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my fiance with my baby's father. I tried to be completley honest with him cause I felt bad about it afterward. I told him what had happened. He is hurt almost beyond repair. But he wants to try to work things out with me. What is the best way for him to forgive and forget and what can I do to help him?

2007-08-13 08:36:13 · 26 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I married a man with two boys, 1 was adhd, bipolar, 1 was bipolar. They caused alot of problems and at times made my now ex-husband choose between them and me. Time has gone by and alot of nasty things were said by me to the boys and visa versa when all this was getting bad. Now i realize that it should of been my husband who took care of it this and stopped it but he put me in the position with them as MOM. Should i call these boys and apologize to them for the times that i wasn't very nice to them? I feel because i was a mother figure that i owe them that. They went through hell all their lives and i thought i could help them but what they needed, i feel, should of came from there dad. So i was the one who decided to leave. P.S. The youngest was 7 and a product of Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy caused by the biological mom, and the other was 14 at the time who witnessed all this.

I feel awful.

2007-08-13 08:33:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14 and i have been going out with this guy for three years. i love him but i'm not in love with him... you know..? it is ardto look at him, knowing i have dougts in our relationship. i feel like there nothing left for me in him but what do i do?? he's kind generous and everything i want but wat do i tell him?? help... !

2007-08-13 08:33:05 · 18 answers · asked by jade-leigh e 1 in Singles & Dating

Or should I be concerned?

2007-08-13 08:32:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Shes alway freaking out about her space and claiming she's just not a phone person anymore and she's always making excuses about why we cant spend time. I feel like if you love someone and you mean it when you say you do spending a little time and answering the phone shouldnt be a problem. Right or Wrong?

2007-08-13 08:31:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance & his family are orginally from the Dominican Republic, where we're planning to wed next April. Do we have to pay for everyone? b/c that still leaves my side of the family

2007-08-13 08:30:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-13 08:27:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 08:26:36 · 11 answers · asked by julie p 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a beautiful lady for 3 months and we plan on marrying very soon. We both have been married more then once, she is 45, I am 50. At times I wonder if she truly loves me as I often have to initiate "I Iove you's or intimacy such as kissing. Is there a way of telling if a women truly loves a man? What are good indicators?

2007-08-13 08:23:17 · 9 answers · asked by jerry b 2 in Marriage & Divorce