Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

all my ugly girlfriends have boyfriends & married and the pretty ones attract losers that dont want them & have nothing to offer. examples of beautiful women lonely: halley berry, victoria secret models gisell, tyra banks, model christie brinkley, etc.. ugly women married & happy and wanted : star jones, barbara walters, etc...

2007-08-13 11:05:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The special person and I love each other for 4 years. We went to college togther. For 3 years we had never spoken, just enjoy looking at each other from distances---we both hiden the feeling inside. Before my graduation I told him that I am leaving. Although we did not really know each other, but I knew he cared!

I was very sad because I miss him so much. I thought I was going to forget him because we will never see each other again. But with God wills... I found his website. He wrotes poetries about us. He claims he loves and will wait for me!

I contacted him. We decided to keep in touch as friend because I moved to difference states. Well, we have been e-mail each others and stay friends for over a year now. I really like him.

I want to make the friendship become a long distance relationship---Do you think it is going to be a good idea? or
Should we stay friend until we have a chance to be togther?
Please help. I need your advice and thank you so much

2007-08-13 10:58:19 · 16 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Singles & Dating

im 16, and i dont have a social life. Sure i know people and know how to act around people, im not a social retard. But i just don't feel the need to go out. Im really into wrestling and thats basically my life. I just feel alone sometimes; like no ones around to talk to. I feel like its too late to start a social life now that im a junior in high school.

Btw: anyone who calls me a loser watch out. I can bench press 230 and dead lift 350+. I'll find out who you are and through you through a wall.

2007-08-13 10:52:49 · 31 answers · asked by DaDill51 2 in Friends

What catches your attention?

2007-08-13 10:49:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been engaged for about 2 months. Ever the planner, I am ready to get things movings as far as dates, destinations, etc. However, he does not want to set a date yet. He says that it is because we won't know exactly when we will be living together. (He is building a house that we are planning to live in together.) The way I see it, which I have explained, is that we may not know when the house will be done until 2-3 months before the house is complete. That's not enough time to plan! Is he putting me off because he doesn't WANT to get married...?? (I worry b/c he was engaged once before and nothing ever happened there either.)

2007-08-13 10:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by Renn 4 in Weddings

My friend wants to know if any of you have had experiences with love spells or if you have known anyone who has done them and have succeeded with them? If so, can u recommend anyone who does them in Montreal Canada or somewhere online that actually really works?

2007-08-13 10:45:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell me what it means plez

2007-08-13 10:44:59 · 10 answers · asked by pyaso14 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is personal but me and my husband usually have sex every other day but we have moved up to one or twice a day and it seems to last longer (not that i am complaining). Just wondering if he is lasting longer because we are having sex more often. thanks for the input in advance!!!

2007-08-13 10:44:46 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs. C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me give you a little back round first. I'm a huge daddy's girl and I'm also really close to my brother. So on my wedding day I want them to bother walk me down the isle. My brother would walk me half way then my dad the other half (don't know what order). My brother has been my protecter since I was born and my dad is well, my dad. I was wondering what you would think of this.

2007-08-13 10:43:56 · 27 answers · asked by lemo_07 2 in Weddings

I know many females who deliberately make their boyfriends fight with other guys and seem to enjoy doing that..

These Female employ very elaborate ploys to accomplish that - I understand those games very well but for the sake of brevity I assume that you know what I am talking about...?
Some of ploy envolves putting false blames on other guys that they are bothering her (while infact she is encouraging that deliberately )

Anyway why do these females do that - are most females like that ???

2007-08-13 10:41:46 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you still be able to love your brother or sister if you found out that he/she was a murderer?

2007-08-13 10:41:33 · 17 answers · asked by ☆Zestee☆ 5 in Family

2007-08-13 10:41:09 · 45 answers · asked by Brad Jordan 1 in Friends

4 years ago a new family moved into the street where I live. I went out of my way to make friends and "S" the wife/mother became a very close friend. Our children played together etc. She used to come round 3/4 times a week and occassionally we would have a night out.
2 years ago I got married. Because my husband is in the army and is away during the week our weekends our now precious. I still went out of my way to spend time with her - but she started to "move away" from me. She then complained that I spent too much time with my husband.
I spent ages choosing her birthday gift this year as I am on maternity leave and cannot afford much but wanted to demonstrate that she is still special to me. I HAVE JUST SEEN IT FOR SALE ON EBAY BY HER!!
Am feeling really offended.

2007-08-13 10:38:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been together for several years, but in the beginning he didn't want to have sex often. He has cheated recently and that sucks, because how come he wanted someone else and not me? Now I find that he has more sex, like once a day as opposed to once a week before. I do anything sexually, so I think he was crazy! If it were that he wasn't physically attracted to me, then why would he stay and ask me to marry him? He says its the only time he's cheated and that he just didn't have a high sex drive before and now he does. Should I believe him? and what's normal for you guys?

2007-08-13 10:36:09 · 11 answers · asked by QT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 10:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm going to a wedding in June in Arizona.

2007-08-13 10:32:35 · 2 answers · asked by Jordyn 2 in Weddings

There is this girl who has been initiating call to me over the past 12 days in casual chat ever since I called her to apologize for some of the misunderstanding we had over the past 7 months.

I was quite surprised that last night she had hinted quite openly that she hoped I will not have the misunderstanding that she is into me. (in fact this is the problem we had all these months as back in December-January she initiated me 200++ text and 15 calls in just one and a half month).

My heart is certainly not with her now and I do cherish her as a very good friend as its a miracle that we could possibly sit back and talk casually heart to heart. Something that is pretty unlikely after all these unhappiness.

Frankly, do you feel that girls at time may be sending false signals especially when guys may have feeling for them? I am just asking to clear my doubt. Or I am just too sensitive? I am getting to know another gal and i certainly do not wish to be distracted by her.

2007-08-13 10:29:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sorry, but I have noticed that there are alot of questions, primarily from women, who ask "does he like me? " questions that are in my opinion really self- explanatory, I mean what has happened to women of this century when you can't even tell that a guy likes you when he wants to cuddle? or if he wants to hold hands? How do you not know if he likes you or not?
It's almost as if women nowadays can't read body-languauge.
Am I the only one who thinks that the young women of this society have an underdeveloped sense of relationships and intimacy, and what is attributed to it?

2007-08-13 10:19:57 · 20 answers · asked by darknangelic77 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband and I have been married only a year... yes everyone says that the 1st year is the hardest but I think ours goes further than that... He has alot of past issues that he was going to counseling for but as soon as we got married he stopped and became a complete jerk. everything w/ him is a contest , he spends all of our money, i bought us a house.... but nothing is good enough anymore. he says he doesnt know what he wants anymore and he doesnt want to put me thru all of his problems. I say I want us to work and have tried to always be there for him and tried counselling but I think that he gave up on us beacause everything is always about him. how do I know when to call it quits and stop being the strong one all the time?

2007-08-13 10:13:01 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

any language...

2007-08-13 10:11:07 · 27 answers · asked by girl! 2 in Singles & Dating

After 26yrs hes got all the clothes he needs ,has jewelry,smellies, pc,digi camera n cam,loves golf, but got all the stuff,cant afford car, plane or yatch,what do you suggest.What would you like?????????

2007-08-13 10:08:29 · 18 answers · asked by suze 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband, daughter and I were thinking of getting back together as a family. We would have to leave next week if we do since he lives in another state than my daughter and I.

He sent me a task list on Saturday of things that I should be doing like selling the things from my storage facility, revising my resume and packing.

I was busy with other things and did not do any of the things on the list.

I spoke with him today and he was upset with me.

I can not make up my mind as to whether to go and be with him or not.

But, I wonder if its normal for him to be sending me a task list or priority things to focus on.

My plan was to donate most of my stuff in my storage facility and not bother about selling them. He is pushing me to sell them.

I wonder if his behavior is still controlling or if he is looking out for my best interest. He was very upset with me this morning.

2007-08-13 10:06:20 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok when i was in the 5th grade there was this guy that was my friend. He would hang out with me and my friends and other girls around would say OOOO CJ likes Megan. Then my friend i guess one day asked him who he liked and then she told me that he liked me. On the seconded to the last day of school we were by the monkey bars and he kept talking to me like normal then all the girls said OOOO CJ likes Megan again and he put some stuff on his lips and then kept coming closer and closer to me. I kept backing up cause he kept coming closer and then the bell rang. That was the last day i saw him. So do u think he wanted to kiss me?

2007-08-13 10:04:05 · 19 answers · asked by elloh world:) 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 10:03:56 · 7 answers · asked by TraceyH 2 in Weddings

2007-08-13 09:53:09 · 25 answers · asked by keira 3 in Singles & Dating

I was in a terrible love-hate relationship for 4 1/2 years with my baby's father. I ended things with him and started dating his good friend who I thought was a match made in heaven. I thought I was gonna marry this man. He is so perfect for me. Then I started hearing a bunch of gossip about him like he's cheating on me, just trying to use me for what he can. I would always come to him with what I heard and he would always reassure me. Well, then I started catching him in lies. Just lieing about where he was and little things. I felt like I couldn't trust him. The last time I felt like he lied to me I told him that we needed to break things off and I just needed to be alone for a while. He instantly started packing his things. That just made me feel like all the rumors were true and he really was just trying to use me. I ended up having sex with my baby's father and when I came home I realized how hurt my fiance was and he really did love me. I took him back and told him what I did.

2007-08-13 09:51:11 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Single father with seven years of bad luck!

2007-08-13 09:50:27 · 1 answers · asked by jrplatinum 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-13 09:50:18 · 63 answers · asked by whitley 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy last year and its been an on and off again thing when it comes to him being employed.He's helped me alot in certain situations,but I feel his work history is inconsistant.What do I do,leave a good guy or be patient will it get better?

2007-08-13 09:48:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like the bad person and extremely guilty for not wanting to return to my ex-husband. My daughter is 15 and really wants to see her family back together.

We divorced about 5 years ago, but have not been able to move on. My daughter has been living in hope also that we would get back together as a family.

I tried to talk to my ex-husband today about things I want to make sure that I can do. (keep in contact with friends/ family, spend money freely, buy food items that I like to eat). He did not want to discuss it.

Instead, he kept saying that I have created havoc by leaving so many times.

Now, I have to give my daughter an answer and she will be sad to be staying with me and leaving her Dad/ grandmother. I don't want to hurt her, but want to do what is right.....

I don't want to make things worse than they already are, but there is not easy solution.

My ex keeps pushing me to work on the move/ transition.

2007-08-13 09:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family