Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

Im doing an essay for school and I need to know how to explain love being like a disease. So if anyone can help me with this, that would be great!

2007-08-13 02:54:24 · 11 answers · asked by Kirstie S 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance thinks that watching porn and dirty videos is worst than roleplaying/cybersex because when watching porn you can see the person naked and everything. does anybody agree with this?

2007-08-13 02:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Some hint,
I was working and my husband wasn't. Whenever I go to work he brings a woman in the house. He asked me to call him before coming home always, b'cos he would not let me have a spare key. Sometimes I find my towel wet when I ask him, he will tell me has use it. later the woman became pregnant. I decided to quit b'cos I can't share a love or a husband.

2007-08-13 02:50:54 · 9 answers · asked by NJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I work 12-14 hr shifts in a hospital. My significant other works more than I do....6 nites a week. We only have the opportunity to speak with each other via the telephone sometimes.
I am very careful not to wake him up because he works nites and I dont want to disturb his sleep.
I worry a lot about him because he has some serious health problems not limited to but including diabetes. He has had problems with low accuchecks and goes coma like and has been taken to the hospital x 2 over this.
He told me he would call me yesterday after he woke up. I waited and waited and no call came. When I got home, I fully believed I would find him laying unconscous or dead at home.
He forgot to call me and went out for a birthday party. His excuse was he was "too busy" to call me. I cant believe that excuse.
I am really feeling like he let me down and just ignored me.
Should I let it go or should I be mad and why?

2007-08-13 02:50:05 · 19 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

why does she end up saying....i dont know why i fell in love?i dont love you,but when you call her for a another meeting she shows up yet she should decline?

2007-08-13 02:48:19 · 7 answers · asked by nidald 1 in Singles & Dating

this would be a problem if we ever broke up, and i dont know what to do .
i have never felt this way i miss him all the time when he isnt here and i drive myself crazy .

2007-08-13 02:46:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was listening to the radio this morning and the topic was married couples who work long hours on purpose because they don't want to go home. One lady called in and said she stays at work 3 hrs longer than she has to, so she can avoid spending time with her husband. Now her husband doesn't mistreat her, he's just a very affectionate person. She said he is in the military and she hates it when he comes because he is too clingy. Another woman called in and said that she stays longer hours at work so she avoid being bother with her 3 kids and husband. She said she works full-time and so does her husband. However, she said that he is useless and does nothing to help around the house or with the kids. So she stays at work longer work to avoid her life at home. Then a man called in and said he stays longer at work to avoid his wife and kids. He claimed that his wife is a stay at home mom, but does nothing around the house and does not cook at all. So when he gets home has to cook and clean.

2007-08-13 02:45:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 02:43:02 · 20 answers · asked by likes j 1 in Singles & Dating

if so how hard?

2007-08-13 02:41:43 · 15 answers · asked by amylthree 1 in Singles & Dating

I consider them as god , but today i have seen people of my age ( teenagers ) do not respect them & fight with them , not treating them well , with out morals ! what do you think ? is it true what i think about them !
One who does not have one of them are so unhappy at that point ! i have many friends who dose not have mother or father & those people feel really sad about this ! how dose on feel when one lose , one of them !

2007-08-13 02:40:47 · 7 answers · asked by vishwa 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My heart aches to see my granddaughter and visit my son and his wife.

In recent months I have been told my visits are putting stress on their marriage. Also all plans they invited me to do with them were cancelled without telling me until I showed up. I am told that visiting me is too far and too expensive. Recently they agreed to let my granddaughter visit me while they were driving pass from a trip to Canada, then cancelled because they signed her up for camp to start when they returned.

Since this began, they have traveled three times with her parents to Canada and Florida. Also my son fixes up her parents rental properties that takes the same amount of time to drive to as to my home.

My son told me to deal with the cards dealt and life is not always fair. He yelled at me but now has told his family I escalated and yelled at him. I apologized just to reach peace, but he still refuses to talk to me.

We were always close; this is so out of character for him. When I used to visit, I bought groceries, helped him fix and clean his house and baby sat while they worked. I thought his wife liked me and enjoyed my visits (that took a lot to arrange my job around their needs).

I can’t help crying sometimes. In general though, it seems like an omen telling me to get a new life, meet new friends and start dating again. I suppose I will survive, I just don’t understand what I did to make my family squeeze me out. The last thing my son said was I need to move closer if we want our relationship to survive, but when I began to look for homes there, is when all this began.

2007-08-13 02:38:24 · 24 answers · asked by Traveler 4 in Family

Everytime my friends find a new boyfriend, I keep thinking the same thoughts "They are so darn young, they will break up anyway." And it's usually true, after a few months, my friends suffer from break-ups. Is that the reason I am without boyfriend until now? Am I not willing to love (and to be hurt?)?

2007-08-13 02:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by eve22112 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone freaked out before-during a first kiss?
Was anyone scared?

I met a guy, i have never kissed anyone and either has he. We are in our 20's. He went to kiss me on saturday and i freaked out, ended up giving a peck on the lips.

How do i not get freaked out and end up having a normal kiss?

2007-08-13 02:37:29 · 5 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

I think I have a stalker... She is hot...

What should I do about it???

2007-08-13 02:35:14 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys what do you want to find in a girl? Please let me know because I am wondering what girls need for guys to go out with them. I have a boyfriend just I am curious not that I am going to try to have like plastic surgery on my b00bs or anything! LOL!

2007-08-13 02:33:33 · 5 answers · asked by Cookie 3 in Singles & Dating

My partner and i are thinking on having a child, she is almost 31yrs old and want to go first, her mother hates me and blames me for her daugther becoming a lesbian and being with me, she says that she will make sure our child knows that i am nothing of he/her, and we are just leaving together, she has being putting a lot of stress on our relationship therefore i have been stressing my partner out, i want to feel like she is capable of defending our family even from her own mother, one day her mother says she will not love the child and the next she comes around saying the opposite, they lived together for 30 yrs, until she moved out with me, the cord has not been cut yet, my partners has to do everything for her including bank deposits, i dont know what to do or say anymore, whe have had plenty of arguments about this, and ive started to question if i want to have a family with her or not, i know this is too short for such a big picture but i need some advice. Thank you

2007-08-13 02:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think the same night he left he went and slept with someone else. I can't prove it and I feel the need to know. I told him that night that it was probably not a good idea to continue to see eachother. But I do love him and want to work things out so bad. He has a lot of issues concerning drugs (pot) and wants to be high all the time. So this led up to our origonal fight.
I know I could go meet someone else. But I do love him. What do you think you would do?

2007-08-13 02:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by erinjl123456 6 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of a man getting divorced who sues 1-800-flowers for faxing his wife a copy of the receipt?

#1) He didn't set up his own sole & separate account with an address where he lives apart from his wife, so 1-800-flowers had no way to know it wasn't ok to fax a copy of the bill to his home address

#2) His attorney gets on the Today Show on national TV this morning and claims this mistake will cost him half a million dollars in spousal support.

I keep asking why his attorney would publicly ask us to pity him. If it will cost him half a million on spousal support, then the man should have enough income to
- live separately from his soon-to-be-ex
- set up his own sole and separate credit card accounts
- set up his own sole and separate account with 1-800-flowers
- think before he acts

While it will cause him distress in his divorce, why should 1-800-flowers pay part of his divorce costs? Didn't he get himself into the divorce without their help?

2007-08-13 02:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by Nedra E 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i heard somewhere that children who live in divided households,meaning,they live in two different residences as the result of shared custody, should have their own bedroom,in both houses,if at all possible??? esp.when there are other children from a second marriage????it all makes sense to me ,but, could you argue the point???? like explain what could happen to the child negatively and positively {if there is any positive}, if they do not have their "own space" in at least one of the residences????

2007-08-13 02:24:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy on here wont leave me alone, i blocked him, and he keeps sending me harrassing e mails. i like recieving e mails, but this dude is ruining it for me, he being mean, trying to make me cry, I dont even know him!

2007-08-13 02:22:09 · 19 answers · asked by tickertock 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-13 02:20:23 · 6 answers · asked by freind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this cosuin of me and i dont like her at all beacause she is always calling me and backstabbing, talking **** about others, n even tell me what others say about me (i mean the negative things), so there is no doubt that she would be telling others what i say to her when i hear someone talk **** about me. Since i am sensitive, i get hurt really bad. Even more, she is always talking about negative things in others life. She is a big b i t c h to say in simple words. Would it be right to stop taking her calls since she calls me often. I have even given her enough signals that i am not interested in talking to her, but she doesnt seem to understand or either ignores them/

What do i do?

2007-08-13 02:14:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You can either compare it to an actress - or simply describe what turns you on. Luscious Curves (I ain't talkin rolls)... or.. Rolls.. if you prefer... or do you like stick thin girls who you can throw around.. do you like muscular fit girls like softball players.. if you could mold your own woman, what body type would she have? No answer is too shallow!! :)

2007-08-13 02:12:59 · 7 answers · asked by Gina F 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this seriously isn't even funny anymore!I'm 16 and it just about all the guys I know just care about one thing. Yupp, u guessed it:SEX!!!! It's like they don't wanna talk to u after they find out ur not promiscuous. Let me give u a few examples:
-I had been talking to this guy on msn for about a week and he seemed pretty nice and hadn't mentioned sex at all. However, one day, he was like "Don't u have a d1ck to ride. I'm horny. Do you like one-on-one contact?" I was honest and said no because I'm a virgin. Guess what? That guy never spoke to me again.
-This guy from school started IMing me and said I was cute, but he was too nervous to talk to me in school. I was so happy at first, but then he asked me if I was a freak and would I send him some sexy pics. I said no and he told me to get a life and a job. Then, he deleted me off msn and facebook and we haven't spoke since.
-I was talking to this guy on msn and like, the second thing he asked was am I a freak. I didn't answer, so he said "Can't even answer a question can u?" Then, he blocked and deleted me.
These are just a few of the example I'm talking about. The crazy thing, is that these guys go on about other ppl like me being childish and "actin stupid", but they seem to be prime example of immaturity. It's like all guys care about is sex! I decided that I'm not having sex until I'm a real relationship (which by the looks of things,will be quite sometime), but it seems like all guys care about is sex! What do u guys think about this?

2007-08-13 02:10:22 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 2 sisters in law. One no longer speaks to my husband, the other sister or their dad. The mom is deceased - she held the family together. When she died last year, everything went a little crazy.

The other sister is 36 years old and does not work. She lives with the dad and takes most of his money to spend on fancy haircuts and clothes. She is living in a fantasy world and we are concerned what will happen to her when the dad passes. He is already 74 years old.

My question is, this sister in law who doesn't work has ignored me for most of the 4 years that I've been with her brother. Suddenly, she is determined to be my friend...but I am not interested. This is something that should've been done a few years ago - in my eyes, the connection has been lost and I have no means of opening that door again.

This woman always has an ulterior motive, she is moody and there are times when she totally ignores me and my husband, is rude to us, and virtually untrustworthy. Help

2007-08-13 02:05:21 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i made a frnd n since i hv been talking to him since last say 15 days v hv fought atleast 3-4 times now i feel dat v shudnt continue with this frndshp cos neither he understands me nor do i,but he is insisting me to continue with this frndship..he is literally fighting with me...wat shud i do? i know him (jaanti hu pehchaanti nahi)since last 3 yrs he is 11 yrs elder to me..he doesnt hv ne frnd so he doesnt want to lose this frndshp...but folks i m not interested...he is just calling though i said no n he is literally shouting on top of his voice on the phone n he wants me to continue this frndship...pls suggest wat to do?

2007-08-13 02:03:38 · 28 answers · asked by jas 2 in Friends

I just got back from vacation in Wildwood, which is the Jersey shore. We shared a condo for a week with my mother and my 2 brothers(1 and 8) and my sister(10). My mother is known for being a thief and a manipulater but she seemed to have changed so we gave her the benefit of the doubt and invited her on our vacation for the sake of the kids. Now, anyone who knows about the Jersey shore knows that everthing costs about 3 times as much as it does anywhere else. So, to get to the point, my mother went down there with $300 in her pocket for her and her 3 kids for the week. We don;t have much money so we brought down $700 for the 3 of us. She promised in advanced that she would split the weekly food bill with us among other things. She only gave us $60 for food(which ended up costing $300 for 7 people for the week), we payed for my bros and sis on the rides and waterpark with the promise of payback. She used my diapers, swimdiapers, formula, baby food and juice, sunblock, etc etc.

2007-08-13 02:01:33 · 6 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Family

Okayy, guys, what are the main most important things you find attractive in a girl? Confidence? Attitude? Beauty? Give me tons of details

2007-08-13 01:59:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...get her nice shoes wet. Do you think Chivalry is dead? Or am I the only "Knight In Shining Armor" still left in the world?

(not bragging...I just love giving girls piggy-back rides, anyway...so it was no big deal...)

2007-08-13 01:56:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 01:52:26 · 12 answers · asked by Violet1972 1 in Marriage & Divorce