Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

I've been dating my current g/f for a little over a year now. I feel as though I am not attracted to her anymore. Is this something every couple goes through?

2007-08-13 06:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

so this girl said she lost intrest in me b/c i never asked her on a date, I still really like her. she still texts me and came and saw me and work a couple days ago. so anyway on thursday she just never texted me back ( she got it just never sent anything back) {is was asking her out on a date} so I figured she had quit talking to me and she moved on and I tried to moved on. Then today right as I was getting over her she texted me and asked what I was doing. So I just told her messing around so she said "well text me whenever if ya want to talk to me :) or if not thats fine to lol". So I said "ok :)" then later that night she told me good night and I said "night talk to ya tomarrow if ya want" so she said "ok :) Night". nothing on sunday from her. then today I got a text from her about F.U.C.K
day (Friend's U Want to Keep) and I dont know what to say back to it. What would you say? does she still like me?

2007-08-13 05:57:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband came home with an oxy 40 yesterday (he's been on a week binge) and I took it from him and told him I flushed it down the tiolet. I asked him to show me I meant more than the drugs. He freaked out about me dumping it in the toilet and I knew his answer. I went to a friends house and left him there to think. We made up and I went home. I didn't flush it down the toilet and gave it to him after he said I meant more. He just took line after line as I cried in the bedroom. He chose the pill over his wife. What would you do?

2007-08-13 05:56:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

had been in a three year affair with someone

2007-08-13 05:56:50 · 9 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, my boyfriend seems to know the whole world (literally) I mean dammit every person I meet on the low, he tracks them down (or seems to mysteriously know them) Well, anyway yeah WELL I meet all these HOT men laying around town and with my smooth touch, talk, feeling and of course approach they fall left and right grasping for my digits as I walk through the valley of shadows of death (earth) my significant partner threatens them (thrashing my GAME) and putting all his friends in tune with my LEAN (HATER). I mean here I am, A smooth player partner right? Well, I just crush alot and yeah this or my "so called psychotic boyfriend" just thinks he's like some killer (light weight) he watches my every move so that he can control my next move...Uuuummm, should I call the swat team?
Really is this NUTZO...Uuuumm, what would you do?

2007-08-13 05:55:03 · 35 answers · asked by Unbreakable Me 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy off and on for 7 years. He told me we just need to make it a relationship and be?

together. He has brought up getting married, having kids etc etc.

2007-08-13 05:54:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dont you think sometimes it would be easier that way? i have kids, i dont have a lot of money, but i have a good job

2007-08-13 05:54:34 · 22 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 05:54:26 · 32 answers · asked by Me 5 in Singles & Dating

The man I'm marrying has a 14 year old son and it's only right for him to be the best man. My daughter is also 14 and she is going to be my matron of honor. We don't want to leave my son out so I was going to ask him to give me away. But then he wouldn't be up in front during the ceremony and therefore wouldn't be in those pictures. I think that would make him feel left out when he looked and the photos. So is he too old to be the ring bearer? That way he can stand up front the whole time.

2007-08-13 05:54:00 · 27 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2 in Weddings

I just recently subscribed to it, and saw a couple of my matches, but they seem nothing like me at all. I did have an attractive female friend who met a good guy on there, and they ended up getting married. what were your experiences?

2007-08-13 05:52:17 · 5 answers · asked by The JZA 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys can tell which girl is still virgin. How about guys? Can we tell? It's really difficult to know which boys still virgin (he never had sex before)----> not until you sleep with him to know that.

2007-08-13 05:51:35 · 33 answers · asked by ☆Im_not_myself_today☆ 1 in Singles & Dating

Like I said in my previous question, I want to end our engagement and get my ring back for money. How can I get my fiance to break up with me so I can keep the ring?

2007-08-13 05:49:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What's your pick

1. An amazing body with a face
2. An amazing face with a body

Thanks

2007-08-13 05:48:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jane Marple 7 in Singles & Dating

And I said some pretty rude things to him. All true things, but nevertheless....things I should have kept to myself. I try to justify it by the fact that he has said some pretty mean things to me in the past, and it's a way of getting back at him. He stomped on my cell phone and broke it, then left the house and didn't come back until 4 in the morning, and slept on the couch. I left for work this morning, and he was still sleeping. (We were both drinking last night)
Has this kind of a thing happened before, and how did you get over it...or did you?

2007-08-13 05:47:08 · 15 answers · asked by sdgirljen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been going out with some one who says they are 27 but every one keeps telling me he looks a lot older how do i find out his real age with out him knowing ?

2007-08-13 05:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Chris and i are getting married on our 2 year mark, and since my family is not every well off, we are paying for the whole event our selfs, everyone is telling me that i a stupid for getting married, at 20 and for planning it so far ahead of time, and for acuatly buying the things that i need for the wedding,

Am i doing the right thing to buy everything while it is on sale, and before the wedding so we dont have to spend all themoney as once?

2007-08-13 05:45:54 · 16 answers · asked by rebecca j 2 in Weddings

My husband and i have been married for less than a year, we have a 6 month old, and our sex life just isnt the same. The thing about it is, im the one who isnt that sexually motivated anymore. I mean im young and before my son got here my husband and i were always going at it...but now its like i just dnt want him to touch me, i can tell he gets frustrated with me because i dnt want to have sex all the time but i cant help it...how many wives have experienced this after child birth...does it go away??? ***Husbands feel free to comment as well***

2007-08-13 05:44:37 · 24 answers · asked by CoCoBrown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short, my husband had a drunken one night stand, after spending all afternoon and into the late late evening drinking with his "friend" at a local bar. Since admitting his infidelity, my husband has sought my forgiveness and done everything I have asked of him, including no more alcohol ever (or i'll leave) and attending couseling with our pastor. The only other thing I asked of him was that he no longer communicate with the "friend" who sat at the bar while my husband followed the "tramp" into the bar parking lot and well you know the rest. Anyway, he recently admitted that the only reason he is no longer speaking to this "friend" is because I told him if he did I would leave him and he'd never see me again. I don't want him to not be friends with the guy because I said so..I want him to not be friends with him because he realizes what a crappy influence and truly poor friend the guy really is...what should I do?

2007-08-13 05:44:27 · 24 answers · asked by Notagain 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Imet this guy a week ago while camping(im20, hes21)and as soon as we met there was an instant connection.We were inseperable all weekend and would just sit there and have conversations that lasted hours. When i was leaving he was really upset and kept asking when he'd see me next.That night he called me (we live in different provinces)and we talked for 3 hours.He has called me every day since we met and we just talk for hours on end (this is long distance). I decided to follow my gut instinct so I booked a flight out there in 3 weeks, when I told him he was ecstatic and has started planning 'surprises' for me. We have started talking about whats going to happen in the future about the long distance problem and have decided down the road one of us will move. I know this is going really fast, but it doesnt feel that way. It just feels right. In your opinion do you think he feels the same way I do about him?? Do you think he truly likes me??Do you think we can overcome the long distance?

2007-08-13 05:44:11 · 7 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I now realize how much I hate living with other people. What's the best way to break my engagement with my fiance? How can I also get my ring back (I want to sell it)?

2007-08-13 05:40:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I met this guy online and we pretty much hit it off the first time and we would text each other or talk on the phone, he would always make me laugh and all that. I really like being with him. One day i texted him and a his ex text me back saying to leave him alone and that they're happy, so i did!
Then one day at work, I just got an im from him and started flirting, so I flirted back, it happened a few times. There were times that when i greet him he would just ignore me and there were times when he would flirt back...now I am totally confused! What is he trying to tell me?

2007-08-13 05:40:31 · 9 answers · asked by m5t8k3 1 in Singles & Dating

You are in love
You dream one day to share a life with your SO
Your being doing the best you can to make things work out with your SO
But then you find out on your own that he/she has other plans that doesn't include you and he/she hasnt talk to you about it.

Now you feel helpless, sad, you feel like you been working for nothing, he/she is leaving (he/she doesn't know that u know all this) you feel like you are lost without him/her...what do you do next??? How to stop feeling this way?? Why does it feel that when he/she will be gone everything will be worthless???
Help!...thanx


WHY DOESNT HE OR SHE TELL YOU ALL THIS...Their plans, why if you are still together, why??

2007-08-13 05:35:55 · 1 answers · asked by aais 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

she doesn't talk to me anymore! I met a wonderful lady after my divorce and she asked me why I got a divorce. I told her that my wife developed a relationship with a coworker and left me for him after a 10 year marriage. She told me thats aweful and now she won't return my calls. Do women look down on a man whos wife abandoned him Not even giving him a chance to save his marriage?

2007-08-13 05:35:08 · 34 answers · asked by David r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im still young, but me and my boyfriend have been toghter 2 years. We've talked about getting married, and i would love to marry him - just not now. Maybe when im in my mid 20's. We havnt got engaged, but everythings been planned, spending a life togther, hes even asked me what type of rings i like and things...im only dreaming for the moment, but i think his intentions and expectations are a lot sooner than i expected. Do u think im wrong to hold things off? Or should i make a commitment now?

2007-08-13 05:31:11 · 24 answers · asked by X.Emily.X 3 in Weddings

AND WHY ?
best answer given to person who has the most annoying in law .

2007-08-13 05:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You are a stranger walking somewhere and I look into your eyes and smile. I don't look away. What is the feeling on your end?

2007-08-13 05:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by Vin 2 in Singles & Dating

So how come I've aked a million guys out, and only six have said yes? AND, only four guys have ever asked me out, and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM was a freak? Not only that, but I'm hilarious. I always make everyone laugh, and I have hardly ever uttered a foul word about someone. Am I just denying these things too much?

2007-08-13 05:23:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was having se x last night with my bf and we were fhucking all night. is this a problem??? he seemed happy and i do, and he said i fhucked good, but is this bad??????????

2007-08-13 05:21:01 · 9 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it really that big of a deal how many people you have slept with in the past?

2007-08-13 05:19:13 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who takes charge of most decisions, bills, where to go for dinner?

2007-08-13 05:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7 in Other - Family & Relationships