So how come I've aked a million guys out, and only six have said yes? AND, only four guys have ever asked me out, and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM was a freak? Not only that, but I'm hilarious. I always make everyone laugh, and I have hardly ever uttered a foul word about someone. Am I just denying these things too much?
2007-08-13
05:23:33
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
Excuse me people. I have not even been able to finish reading the answers, A. because you are all being rude, and B. because I am feeling sick to my stomach. No EXCUSE ME, but the reason I called those four guys freaks is because they asked me out in the first place. There is absolutely nothing wrong with them. That also counts off for those of you who believe I am concieted. I do not, under any circumstance, believe I am beautiful. I could go into a sixty page book on how I am not, but I won't because that is not the point I am trying to make. Those of you that were so rude down in your answers I think are only that way because they also have low self esteem. Now, I will, however, say, that I have a good personality. I will not say that its cute or its beautiful, but that it's good. Because I make it that way. Not because I think it's that way, but because I don't want it to be bad.
And I absolutely feel like punching almost every single one of you. Thanks.
2007-08-13
05:51:47 ·
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Everyone has a preference. It doesn't matter how beautiful you are, You are not going to be every ones type. Just as I am sure every handsome guy is not your type. This does not mean that there is anything is wrong with you. Just continue being yourself and someone will eventually appreciate it. Sometimes the problems we face with getting dates occur when we search too hard. Take it easy and good luck!
2007-08-13 06:22:20
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answered by Gotta know for sure 3
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You sound desperate. I'm only going by you asking so many guys out.
Oh yea, and unless they're proud of bein a freak, calling them that won't help ;}
Edit...Someone hasn't had their V8 today. Geez. Honestly, I stand by my above answer. You called them freaks, not me, and asking "a million" guys out does seem desperate.
You are full of a little too much anger from your additional response.
Some people hit a nerve with you by saying you sound concieted. Well, you have to allow them to have their own POV. As such, they let you have yours, your 60 page book, as you called it.
I'll go out on a limb and say your issue isn't your looks, and is more likely your own insecurities getting the best of you.
If you don't like what I say, you are more than free to put it in the mental out box for a proper flushing.
2007-08-13 05:31:24
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answered by chaoss13 6
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Well I can honestly tell you that beauty isn't everything. A guy that goes out with you because you are beautiful it's probably because he wants to lay you and walk around with you on his arm like a prize. And the guys you have asked out and said NO is because they look for more than beauty. I have no idea what your personality is like,your behavior or the way you act but the guys must not like something about you. Or you have the wrong aproach when asking them out. All I can say is be you and don't let it go to your head that people think you are beautiful. You might be beautiful enough for a guy to date but half the time the guy won't have a real relationship with you. Brains over beauty sweety which would you choose?
2007-08-13 05:37:00
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answered by SMX™ -- Lover Of Hero @};- 5
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Guys aren't asking you out cause you are too full of yourself and too high-maintanence.
You hardly ever utter a foul word about anyone and yet you say every single guy was a FREAK. You only typed five sentences and already slammed four people.
2007-08-13 05:30:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe you are too busy trying to be who you think everyone else will like instead of being yourself. You sound a little on the young side, did you ever thing the guys you are asking out don't have any money to go out and don't want to be embarrassed? Make friends with the guys you like and drop subtle hints like "I sure wish someone would ask me out". They will be more confident about asking and you will get to go out more.
2007-08-13 05:36:13
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answered by bmcbrewer 3
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you might be beautiful, but do you have a personality? sorry to be so blunt, but you sound a bit conceited and full of yourself. that in itself can be a turn off to guys! ever consider that you may be the freak? try to tone it down and perhaps you'll start getting asked out! good luck
2007-08-13 05:31:39
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answered by luv 3
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Sounds to me like you have natural confidence that alot of younger men are not usually very comfortable with because until they are a bit older they are likely to be immature and have very little self confidence. This is the reason you have ended up with freaks. Guys when young that have alot of confidence usually are also very cocky and stuck on themselves and tend to treat girls like crap. I say for the first couple meetings try and be less exasperated. in other words, tone down your desire to be so forward and fourth right. Give them the chance to show you who they are and get comfortable. They are used to timid shy girls so you come across as a bit scary. Or start dating older guys who will appreciate you for being confident.
Good luck!
2007-08-13 05:35:22
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answered by vmaxer85 4
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Maybe the first impression you give isn't the greatest. Or if you have really asked a million guys out, it is possible you are being a little overzealous and eager.
2007-08-13 05:30:59
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answered by brookie23 2
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King of Pythons gave the best answer anyone could give...Ask someone who knows you, message one of us, or prepare to give much more info and a picture.
2007-08-13 05:31:01
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answered by hk_vdubtdi_hk 2
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If you truely are beautiful ( and Im not saying your not) its probably because they are intimidated by you. They may think that you are too good for them.
2007-08-13 05:30:09
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answered by Beautiful Disaster 3
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