Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

I've been dating my bf for almost 2 yrs now and coming down to the last days you know the part where we know ech other to a T it starts to get screwed up. He stops calling, he don't even care anymore and i'm really fustrated bcuz i got so accustom to him always being there it is like he changed completly, is this suppose to happen? I mean i've dated many guys already but i really check for this particular boy what can i do?

2007-08-13 06:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by nells 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a weekly night out with the unmarried co-workers.....including some very attractive girls....we all hang out, drink and have a good time....and of course talk about sex and girl and guy stuff

One of the girls said something to the effect of guys never acting how she wants.....I asked her about the guy ever being able to be himself....

She said something to the effect of having an image of the guy she wants and trying to find a good looking smart enough guy that she can make act like how she imagined......I was like damn are you serious......Then SHE says thats why girls always seem upset or partially bothered because their man never fully gets his role right....the role that the girl has in her head....then she added that the role can change from day to day

I told her that she is going to make somebody miserable one day.....and she laughed and agreed

So girls Do you have the perfect guy in your head and just trying to find a guy that can be molded to fit the role?

2007-08-13 06:43:14 · 17 answers · asked by dick_ache 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 06:40:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

see i heard that women love emotionally while men love physically... i know alot of guys do.. but are there guys that love not just with their "thing" ha

2007-08-13 06:39:57 · 29 answers · asked by x_sofia_x 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married next month. Her fiancé's sister is slow because of something very similar to fetal alcohol syndrome. She is not a bridesmaid and is very aware that my other sister and I are. She is not competent enough to read something and has no musical talents. My sister really wants go give her a job, and one that is visible for others to see. Nothing like the guest-book or anything. Any ideas? Anything is appreciated!

2007-08-13 06:39:46 · 18 answers · asked by holly golightly 2 in Weddings

2007-08-13 06:39:44 · 13 answers · asked by Fayzal V 1 in Weddings

i just got hired for this job. i am an attractive guy and in good shape. the cute women who hired me has been very, very, flirty with me from the beginning. she called me up, quite a few times trying to set up interviews, she has said im her guy, has walked me out when i meet with her, has told me that i seem really confident, (kind of weird) gives me huge beaming smiles. anyways the other day the district manager called me up, and told me there were a lot of applicants, some with more experiance then me but she has chosen me for the job. i just wanted some basic thoughts on this what do you think of her behavior, and what do you think im in store for with her?

2007-08-13 06:39:26 · 15 answers · asked by loudiesel30 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 06:37:27 · 14 answers · asked by mirrorbee 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 06:33:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't talked to my ex for about 5 days and I am debating on whether to send him a message telling him I want to be with him and maybe we could start over and take things slow. Last I heard, he doesn't want to be with me because I caused him so much grief although he still loves me. I don't know if he will consider my message or just blow it off. I also don't want to seem pushy.

2007-08-13 06:31:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been dating for 2 years and he just isn't ready for anything. i totally respect that but i tried the other night we were watching a romantic movie and i went over to him, sat down on him and started to unbutton his pants. he's like "what are you doing?" and i was like "shh.." and then i was about to give him oral and he's like "get away that is nasty and so wrong." i was like "what is wrong with you!" i left and then talked to my bff and she said that he's just "holding on to me because he knows other guys want me and he's jealous." i was like wtf. so what do i do?

i'm 18, he's 19.

2007-08-13 06:30:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i like this guy. we met on a vacation. he sat next to me a lot. he flirted a ton. he always looked at me out of the corner of his eyes when he thought i wasnt looking. one time when we were in the hottub he asked if i was getting out and then i said yes he came out with me. he added his # in my phone. we text every single day since the trip (4 weeks ago) he has asked me if i've ever had a bf. he asked how my love life is. he has asked how far i've gone with a guy. on the last day of the trip we were all saying bye and he said dont i get a hug? he normally starts the conversation (when we are texting or on aim) i signed off for like 2 minutes he texted me and asked where i went. we prank call people together. he told me to be his alarm clock a few times (call him once i woke up to wake him up) when i went to camp, i thought my phone wouldnt have service and i wasnt supposed to use it i still did to text him but he was like i hope it works because who else will i talk to at 2:30

2007-08-13 06:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by tory 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years. She has a few problems but generally things are ok between us. About 2 yrs into our relationship, I found that she had visited some lesbian websites on her computer. I confronted her about this - she said she was curious and I was fine with that. Now, last year, a package was deliverd to the house, I opened it infront of her cus she said 'open it' and I am certain it had 2 'straight' porn dvd's in the box. She was upset - she thought it would help our sex life (she has no interest in sex). She threw them in the bin. Now, last week I was searching for something, and came across a load of lesbian porno dvd's. There were no 'straight sex' dvds in the box. I have asked her about her sexuality (ages ago) and she says she's straight (hmm). She never wants sex with me. I love her - but she seems to have no feelings towards me. She never instigates sex. We have sex very rarely. She says she needs to sort her problems out.I dont know what to do.Thanks

2007-08-13 06:26:38 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Against better judgement, I read some of my boyfriend's old emails. What I discovered was that in the beginning of our relationship, about a year ago, he was still telling his ex-girlfriend how much he loved her, while saying the same thing to me. I told him what I did, and what I read. He has not had any contact with her for the year that we have been together, which is reassuring. We're also having a baby due in the winter. And for the most part, we have a healthy loving relationship, and there is so much to be happy about, but after reading those emails, I feel sad. How do you get over it? We're starting a family soon. Am I overreacting by questioning everything based on these old emails???

2007-08-13 06:26:37 · 40 answers · asked by greenplant1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend and his wife are having a disagreement. She swears he gets more sex from her than 99% of the rest of the men in the world. He thinks he falls in the lower 25%.

Honestly now folks, if you are married, how many times a week do you and your spouse have sex on average? We just want to see where he falls out in the average.

2007-08-13 06:25:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I went out with constantly glanced at other women while we were on a date .. I have stopped dating him, but, am wondering why would a guy do such a thing? Does this mean he's a player? Can he change?

2007-08-13 06:22:53 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a sister-in-law that I swear was born to give me high-blood pressure.

2007-08-13 06:18:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So this guy i like wont kiss me. He likes me back i know this for sure hes told me. He says the reason is that he doesnt like to kiss in front of people. I understand that but were never alone ever! Our friends are always following behind us. And they would be glad to give us alone time but he says that being in a different room isnt being a lone. I've even pulled him aside from everyone and he wont look me in the eye. i dont know im thinking of going on a walk at night or something and leaving my friends but that would be really awkward. does he just have an issue with pda or do you think hes prude?

2007-08-13 06:18:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my friend is about to try to get coustody of his daughter...the daugherter has his last name...he has never done anything to the child hes a great father...do u think he will get coustody???

2007-08-13 06:18:37 · 19 answers · asked by maybe 1 in Family

how do you work things out with your roommates..?

I'm moving to college . My roommates and I should talk about what to bring in.. but we don't know how to work things out !
any idea how we gonna start ...

2007-08-13 06:18:20 · 2 answers · asked by ATK 2 in Friends

I like white guys and although i am black, i have no problems with dating black guys. It's a personal preference-i dont discriminate on race, if i like you...i like you. But why is it that i always have to go up to the guy. Other races have approached me. But i have never been approached by a white guy. is it that they fear rejection period or is it because im Black and automatically thought that i would not like them? Or that i would be constiered "Ghetto" (I despise that word) and not know how to relate. I surf, skateboard, listen to rock majorly and rap,rock climb, play guitar, ect ect ect. Basically im well rounded, what's up?!

2007-08-13 06:14:54 · 9 answers · asked by Th3 W3ird 1 2 in Singles & Dating

what u want
how you want
when you want

we live together and work together and she is always there to offer me an extra hand... and at home she takes care of both of us... i don't know if my co-worker is jealous or he is helping me out.. he wants me to help her be less of a push over... I know she doesn't feel this way because she loves me and she is very determine to think we are going to have a future together... and she keeps bring up how we should get married... I wounder if she will change how she treats me after we get married and I am kind of involve in a long distance cheating relationship with a married woman 13 yrs older

what is best for me to do? help her build a back bone or leave it the way it is

2007-08-13 06:14:21 · 1 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Singles & Dating

give your best shot!!!!

2007-08-13 06:07:45 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay heres the deal my bf and i have been together for about 4 1/2 years were both only 20 have our own apt even got a dog together when we were in high school. We both know that we are goin to marry each other in the future. I ask him when he says that hes not finacially ready..i mean why would that be such a big deal? i met him broke..we both have money now so?? But im not rushing him. When do you guys think is a good time for marrage for us?

2007-08-13 06:07:41 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need some help finding some Romantic things to do, but i want to keep it simple i don't want her to think I'm wasting a lot of money. Since she really cares and dosent want to feel like I'm costing her a lot. I want to make this girl real happy. But i don't know of any things to do for her, or places to take her. I would really appreciate if anyone gave me some tips.

2007-08-13 06:07:37 · 16 answers · asked by Malagaricus 1 in Singles & Dating

when my bf IS kissing me he wants to no what to do with his hands????(idioit)

2007-08-13 06:07:29 · 6 answers · asked by bLoNdIe 4 LiFe 1 in Singles & Dating

The groom, best man and groomsman will all be in black tuxedos. I'll be in white of course, so I think my daughter in black (she is the only one I'll have standing up with me) would look fine. What do you think?

Sunflower bouquets for the girls, sunflower tucked in the pocket of the jackets for the guys.

2007-08-13 06:03:58 · 30 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2 in Weddings

Who slouches and looks like hunch back of notre dam?

2007-08-13 06:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by earth_dragonai 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't care if you don't like him, he's still my friend, he is a crazy driver and always will be but doesn't mean i'll drive like him. i'm almost 18 now and you can't change who i am, if i wanted to change who i wanted to hang out with, i would of done it a long time ago. i don't care if you like him or not, that's your problem. he's still my friend and i'm still going to hang out with him whether you like it or not.

2007-08-13 06:03:32 · 24 answers · asked by Dave 3 in Friends

Me and my bf have been together for 5 months now, and I really want him to meet my family and visa versa. I'd really like him to be part of my whole life, not just half of it, so it's important to me. He doesn't want to come, even though my mum sent him an official invitation. I know its because he is afraid he'll be rejected, as he is like 15 years older and from a different culture, but my family is really open and they've known his age/background from the beginning. How do I convince him it will be fine and also of how important it is to share this part of my life with him?

2007-08-13 06:02:45 · 2 answers · asked by Clara Cando 2 in Singles & Dating