Ask her to be straight with you and tell you what she really feels...
On the other hand maybe she is in denial or just plain confused.
If your relationship is worth saving then help her figure this out and keep the lines of communication open, if at all possible don't argue about this subject as the lines of communication will definitely be shut down if you argue.
Sounds like both of you need answers and what better way then to get them together.
Do you have a problem watching the lesbian porno with her? Maybe this excites her and it just might be what she needs to get turned on...
I'd say more but there are children on YA and I'm sure you could use your own imagination on what you could do once she is turned on.
2007-08-13 06:28:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Well let me be honest with you I would say that a good percent of females are into the girl on girl theme even if they haven't act on it, the thought has probably crossed their mind. I don't what is I can be in a room with at 6 females and at best 1 or 2 will say it's not for them and maybe 1 a say she tried it and the rest curious me myself am curious but as a extra not as the main effect every once and awhile but if your girlfriend is having trouble having sex with you that may be a problem cause even though I am curious I would still need a man to play his part but my boyfriend is extremely jealous so this is just a thought or a lust what ever you want to call it .
Maybe next time you do have sex try to be more sensual
let the sex mainly focus on her needs and see what happen maybe you can give her what she needs when you notice that she enjoying something concentrate on that .
2007-08-13 06:49:45
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answered by craving cash 2
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Hmm it does seem like she is getting more attracted to females every time she visits these lesbian porn sites. And if she is not having sex with you very often then it could be the case that she wants to try it out with a women for a change. But it does happen.. Sometimes girls just get attracted to the same sex because of hormonial changes. Dont worry about it. You should sit her down and talk to her politely. Find out whats going on in her head. If she has any problems and tells you about them.. then try and help her out. She might just be going through a bad time but she could also be getting more attracted to females causing her to turn into a lesbian. The best thing to do is confront her. But make sure your nice to her, dont do it in a nasty way.. just get talking as usual and then bring up the matter of her being a lesbian. She will hopefully tell you whats going on inside her head. In other cases she could just be curious.. or a bi-sexual.. you should really speak to her..Good Luck hun! I hope things get better for you in the future with you and your girl friend. *hugs*
2007-08-13 06:32:24
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answered by Anonymous
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The way I look at it, is Im in my 20s and by the time I'm married and have kids I wont want to have sex with the wife anyways. Kids always around, she weighs in bigger than a sumo wrestler. All that matters is that you have a great friend to share the times of your life with, sex is a small part of it. She maybe a lesbian but is in denial or doesn't want to switch teams because of the whole "gay,homo,queer" ideas that are in society today that it is wrong. Or maybe she's bi and you should just go with it somehow, maybe get another girl to join in. Ohhh... thatd be sweet, lol. What you don't want is to waste more time in a dead end relationship than you have to.
2007-08-13 06:35:01
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answered by Anonymous
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hmmm...
have a sit down talk with her where u put all ur feelings n emotions on the situation out n c how she responds n tell her ur fed up of it n it needs to change. if she doesnt then u might have to let that go man...six yrs is a long time but rather that than a lifetime of no sex from a potential lesbian whos not putting in the type of energy into the relationship that u r.
2007-08-13 06:33:51
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answered by youngavarice 2
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Where there is smoke, there is fire. It seems that there are three options. She may have fallen out of love with you. She has a very low sex drive. She is gay.
In any case, it seems that you do care for the lady, but sexually you two are not on the same page. You can stick around for another six years, but instead, why not take a break from this relationship for a while, so you can see other women, and well, she can see other women.
2007-08-13 06:33:33
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answered by artist-oranit.com. 5
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the way I see it, uncertain. She pronounced herself that to be with yet another woman could be gross and unnatural to her. to boot, if she grow to be lesbian, what might she earnings by ability of pretending to be straight away? Why difficulty? whilst she pronounced her buddies attempt to instruct her lesbian, she probably did no longer advise it heavily. Her buddies are probably extra advantageous than conscious that sexuality isn't some thing you decide on. It sounds extra like the variety of playful teasing that occurs between buddies. ladies are plenty extra advantageous, are not you sorry which you're lacking out - that variety of situation. You no longer assembly her buddies could desire to be rooted in some thing completely diverse. such as you pronounced, she hasn't met all your persons the two, so it is going the two procedures. and you traumatic approximately her consistently being together with her lesbian buddies - do no longer. She likely does not carry out with them with the aid of fact they're lesbian/bi. She hangs out with them with the aid of fact they're her buddies. in basic terms such as you carry out including your persons with the aid of fact they're your persons. Her's in basic terms happen to have a various sexual orientation.
2016-10-10 03:36:30
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answered by ? 3
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well iu hate to put it this way but she a lesbian if not a full one just partially and if i wrong about the lesbian part then she is with some one else if she is never interested in having sex with you did she ever have fellings for you ages ago?
2007-08-13 07:07:56
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answered by aqua-fina30 1
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Are you a female? If so, the answer to your question is YES.
But really, it's possible that she simply has a low sex drive and is somewhat turned on by lesbian sex. Heck, use that to your advantage. Try watching one of her movies with her. Couldn't hurt...
2007-08-13 07:11:04
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answered by Geek 2
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It seems your girlfriend has sex drive toward both male and female sexes. She is not exactly a lesbian but is motivated toward female sex more. Ask her directly whether she is a lesbian or no. or try to use different sex positions to make sex with you interesting for her.
Thanks
2007-08-13 06:33:52
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answered by Anonymous
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