So this guy i like wont kiss me. He likes me back i know this for sure hes told me. He says the reason is that he doesnt like to kiss in front of people. I understand that but were never alone ever! Our friends are always following behind us. And they would be glad to give us alone time but he says that being in a different room isnt being a lone. I've even pulled him aside from everyone and he wont look me in the eye. i dont know im thinking of going on a walk at night or something and leaving my friends but that would be really awkward. does he just have an issue with pda or do you think hes prude?
2007-08-13 06:18:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's shy.
No big deal, it's just going to take a bit more work.
Make sure he feels the same way about you as you do him and then just wait it out.
I'm shy, you'd NEVER know it from talking to me or seeing me at work, but around women I'm attracted to I freeze up. I generally have this stupid grin on my face and will make every excuse to not get too close to her until I really know her.
Wait it out if you think he's worth it.
2007-08-13 06:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by nremtohio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
privacy is always important. you really don't want your friends tagging along all the time because eventually, it will intefere. i wouldn't doubt that he likes you. maybe he's just too shy to make first moves or he uses the excuse not wanting to kiss in front of people because he's afraid. i don't blame him for not wanting everybody in his face while he makes out with you. sometimes that can be alittle embarrassing. but if he won't even do it when you are alone, i think there's a problem. it all seems like maybe he's a bit rude. if this persist, even after you've talked to him about wanting a little bit of intimacy, i'd say, move on.
2007-08-13 13:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although i'm sure this isn't something you want to hear, i think that kissing is something that should be done totally in private. if you actually like this guy, then you should understand his hesitation, and wait for the right moment, not pressure him into hiding in some back room of your friends house while you two make out.
also, is it possible it's his first kiss? a first kiss should be special, not in someone's basement.
plus, pardon me if i'm wrong, it sounds as though you're kind of young, maybe 12-15 years old? if the guy is the same age, it's possible he's nervous to kiss you, maybe he doesn't know how to kiss.
basically, if you like the guy, cut him some slack. if you don't honestly like him and just want to kiss him, turn him loose for his sake.
2007-08-13 13:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by THEfashionista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men aren't comfortable with public affection. You need to plan a night for just the two of you... no friends. They will understand. Don't expect him to make out with you in a public restaurant of movie theater though. You need some private one on one time to really figure things out.
2007-08-13 13:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by -Swatty- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have t play this one off. Blow him off for a couple of days and then when he asks whats wrong just be like well your just to shy, you won't kiss me if you like me you'd kiss me even if we were up on stage in front of thousands of people. See what he says to that. Let he know what he's missing out on. Don't chase the boy let him chase you.
2007-08-13 13:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by lil mamma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a prude, and probably not all that interested in you (since most guys would be willing to find some alone time for a little smooching!).
2007-08-13 13:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by BK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just a little shy , and don't want to disappoint you. Maybe there is a dental problem. I would like to suggest asking him straight up. Just quit the pussy foot-in around and come out with it. I know what I would do I would just flat lay a big one him. Good luck.
2007-08-13 13:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by margo322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first question i would have to ask is how old are you?
im assuming either one of you are even out of junior high, so yeah, he might not be ready to kiss you yet.
maybe hes gay!! lol
well, if you really like him, just give him some time, and you know, hold hands or something..
2007-08-13 13:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Cara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. maybe he's just not ready 4 that type of commitment right now. give hime a little space and time and let him work his problems out on his own.
2007-08-13 13:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by Keely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's wayyyy to shy. You need to take matters into your own hands and lay one on him, lol. If he can't get over his shyness about kissing then its gonna make for an awkward relationship.
2007-08-13 13:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋